I wonder if you chat with friends in your life. Have you ever met someone who particularly bothers you when you were having a meal? They always like to expose their habits at the table at random, regardless of what others think. is not only with good friends, but even with colleagues, they will meet some unpleasant people and do some bad behaviors to you.
There is an old colleague in the company who is 46 years old this year. We usually call him Brother Zhao. Brother Zhao, he has a good relationship with every employee in the company and he usually has a very good relationship with him. everyone respects him very much. He also helped us a lot at work and often taught us his experience.
Maybe we are young people. Brother Zhao usually prefers me and often takes care of me. Because his position is higher than mine, he will bring me any social activities. may be because I have a good temper and are more easy-going with anyone at the dinner table. Some people will inevitably do some bad behaviors to me out of some bad thoughts.
A few days ago, when chatting with Brother Zhao, Brother Zhao said to me, "Young man, your temper is too good. Sometimes you can't just give in to others. Some people are also quite annoying. If some people treat you like this in the future at the restaurant, don't hesitate. Be sure to stay away from them as soon as possible and don't give them face."
"Using the topic of jokes to deliberately mock you"
No matter what the occasion it is? As long as you chat, you will make some jokes. This is normal. After all, humorous people are often the most popular, and everyone doesn’t have to be so restrained when they are together. Talking about some relaxed and comfortable topics can often drive everyone’s lively atmosphere at this table. But what you need to pay attention to is to distinguish the other party’s jokes. Does it have any meaning? Some people joke not to liven up the atmosphere, but to mock others.
Brother Zhao said that if you encounter someone who uses your most taboo thing to joke about, then don’t worry about them. It’s all the experience that Brother Zhao has summarized over his work for so long. When Brother Zhao first started working, he was like me. He could tolerate any behavior he had when he encountered others. He was often called a good person by others. Over time, someone would deliberately bully him.
Zhao Brother, usually has a hobby, that is, when eating, garlic is often inseparable, but when working, Brother Zhao is still very restrained and rarely eats garlic. He usually eats garlic after get off work. Brother Zhao doesn't know how to eat when he goes to the wine party. But at that time, a friend made this joke with Brother Zhao, saying that Brother Zhao was very rude and didn’t like to be clean. He also liked to eat something that tasted big when eating.
was ridiculous as he spoke. At that time, Brother Zhao did not tolerate it and directly retorted at the wine table, which made the man unable to stand up. Brother Zhao thought that he might get blamed by his leader when he did this, but unexpectedly, the leader did not say anything. Instead, he comforted Brother Zhao and said: "It's okay, you should do this when you meet such a person." So, blindly tolerating will only bring you a loss.
"When you can't drink anymore, you still want to drink more"
Brother Zhao said that this kind of person is a very common type of person at the table. Whether you are going out to drink and chat with friends, relax, or when socializing and doing business activities, you are inevitably in need of alcohol. If you want to drink some, everyone's alcohol capacity will be different. Some people have better metabolism than others and can drink it, but some people just can't drink it!
Brother Zhao said that he didn't know how to drink when he just graduated from university, and he couldn't drink much every time. After all, there were only a limited number of alcoholic parties that students could come into contact with before. But he had outstanding work ability at that time and was deeply loved by his leaders. If there were any social occasions in , the leaders would also bring him with him.
After drinking a few cups, Brother Zhao was the first to drink. Most people can understand it, because after all, they are young people, but there are always unconscious people! Brother Zhao said that the most impressive thing was that he had an older friend who had a better alcohol tolerance! is unwilling to give up on anyone. Brother Zhao felt very uncomfortable and waved his hand to him quickly. However, this friend was not polite at all and kept saying, "It's okay, young man, you are young, just practice."
In the end, it was Brother Zhao's leader who helped him get rid of the siege. Afterwards, the leader also told Brother Zhao that everyone is disgusted with this kind of person? Anyway, I won’t have any deep friendship in the future. Just find a reason and leave.
I wonder if you go back drunk every time you attend a wine party? What about dizzy the next day? In fact, sometimes the discomfort is not necessarily because you drink a lot, but maybe because of the alcohol you drink. The editor of recommends that you go out to eat with your friends in the future and choose more good wine made from fine grains, such as seeing how these two bottles are like?
" Sanhua Wine ": Does many younger friends have difficulty accepting that high-concentration wine? The editor also thinks so, because it is easy to get drunk if you drink a few sips of wine. See how this bottle is like? This bottle is a cool and delicious rice wine, and the wine level is not high. Even if you don’t drink it often, it doesn’t matter if you drink it a few glasses.
"Guokang 1935": This bottle is a local specialty wine in Guizhou. My friends around me said this after drinking it: " is silky and smooth, long and soft. Although the tip of the tongue feels a little numb when it hits the wine, the numbness will pass soon after a while, and slowly, it will turn into a sweet and mellow delicacy. " After drinking it, the editor also feels that the fragrance can flow around, and there are still waves of fragrance in the cup.
And this bottle is very cheap, so it is quite respectful to take it out with friends. It is less than 200 yuan. Can you accept it? is mainly brewed by Chen Xingxi, the former chief engineer of of the Moutai Distillery. The ones chosen to use are also brewed by sorghum . For friends who know , they should understand what sauce wine produced locally in Guizhou looks like, and they are all popular boutiques.
Believe me, if you taste every friend at the table, you should like it very much.
That’s all today. If you meet the two kinds of people mentioned by Brother Zhao, you must stay away!
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