Women, showing weakness at the right time is a smart choice. A woman who is good at "showing weakness" is like a delicate flower, which can make a man feel pity and make him unable to help but give her more care and pamper.

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Women, showing weakness at the right time is a smart choice.

A woman who is good at "showing weakness" is like a delicate flower that can make a man feel pity and make him unable to help but give her more care and pamper.

Women are too strong and will make men lose their "desire for protection" for them.

Daniel Gorman said: "The warmth of a family is always controlled by women."

A smart woman knows how to restrain her temper and properly expresses her fragility. Letting a man see her exhausted physically and mentally and pitiful appearance will allow him to share more of the trivialities in life.

A woman who knows how to "show weakness" can inspire a man's responsibility and responsibility, can help him grow better, and can also let him know how to love her better.

In life, women with "rich and noble destiny" are probably very good at "showing weakness".

02. Women who are too strong actually live hard and tiring

"Showing weakness" is a kind of wisdom, which can make women live more easily.

In life, those strong women, although they rely on themselves to support everything in life, are very tired.

Shushen in "Story of Yanxi Palace" became the queen and lived peacefully with Wei Yingluo for many years, suddenly saw a fact clearly:

When she saw the wrinkles at the corners of her eyes in front of the mirror, she sighed. Suddenly, I thought that Wei Yingluo's face seemed to be unhappy, still young and beautiful, with red lips and white teeth.

is because they live a different life.

Shushen became the queen and commanded the six palaces, and she needed to worry about maintaining everything. Moreover, she was determined to control everything in her hands, manage the harem well, and let the emperor see her abilities and hope to gain his appreciation.

, Wei Yingluo just wants to live well, be content with her, know how to add interest to her life, and ask for the emperor's favor and care.

A lord of the harem seemed to have got everything, but he lost the charming attitude of a woman and the emperor's care for her.

, Wei Yingluo showed a cynical attitude, but was loved by the emperor and loved in his hand.

It is difficult for a woman who is too strong to get the care of her husband, because he feels from the bottom of his heart that she can do everything alone.

Women, there is nothing wrong with staying independent, but when getting along with men, you must learn to "show weakness". Let him feel like he is needed and recognized. He can easily keep his heart with women.

03. A woman with "rich and noble life" is good at "showing weakness"

A woman with "rising wealth and noble life" is good at "showing weakness", knows how to guide the people around you to give, and share the pressure and trivialities in life with her.

" The best way to act coquettishly " has a line in "": "In fact, men will love a woman deeply for the rest of their lives. What matters is not her breasts and face, but whether a woman will act coquettishly and considerate."

Women learn to "show weakness" and ask men to do something with a gentle attitude. The effect they receive is completely different from using a tough command to do things.

Men are more likely to accept gentle tone. When a woman "shows weakness", she will amplify the value of a man, making him unable to help but want to protect her and bear more for her.

If a woman always talks to a man with tough commands, it will arouse his rebellious mentality. It makes men and women sing opposites, making the relationship between the two people stalemate.

Women learn to show weakness, ask for help from men softly, find excuses to say that they are "small", "not tall enough", or "a person is afraid"... They will let men stay by her side and complete some things together.

A woman acts spoiled to men properly, which will make men feel like a hero. From the bottom of her heart, she believes that she is much more capable than women, and will take the initiative to take on more things and protect her.

04. Women who are good at "stolen" are often "rich and noble"

"rich and noble" women who are good at recognizing the situation, not being stubborn, and willing to let go.

A smart woman never competes with herself and does not care about winning or losing in life.

If women are better at being a "peace ambassador", they will make men's hearts full of peace and make them more comfortable to get along with women.

At home, if the woman is too serious, even if she wins the argument, it is her friendship with her lover that she loses. Even if she wins, she won’t feel happy, but instead feels that life is too bad.

Smart women are good at "saying defeat". When getting along with men, you know how to stop arguing first and stabilize each other's emotions.

Give each other time to reflect on each other. Men will feel that doing this is inappropriate and will feel guilty towards women.

Women, learn to show weakness and learn to "say defeat". When conflicts occur, they will not do things that hurt their marriage and their lover under impulse.

Women are too strong and will become less "cute".

Many things need to be faced and solved with a more peaceful attitude, which is the correct way to deal with problems. Women who learn to "say defeat" and show weakness can often manage their marriage better and receive more care and deep love from men.

05. Summary

Don’t live too tired on the road of life. Learn to "show weakness", and you will live a more nourishing life.

Zxin said in "The Road No One Walks": "Love in the true sense is both love yourself and love others. Love can allow yourself and others to grow."

Women know how to show weakness and will gain more love and care. Don’t act like you can do anything, because you will live a hard life.

Occasionally, only by learning to "show weakness" and showing a fragile side will it attract people's pity.

shows that you have something you can’t do well, which makes men feel taken care of. Only by occasionally showing weakness and seeking help can you better get closer to yourself and your partner.

Being a gentle woman will add more surprises to your life.

Women can live a comfortable and comfortable life and think more about their needs. Knowing how to show weakness will guide the people around you to love you more.

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Author: Xia Mo, a new emotional tutor, psychology scholar, a popular emotional writer on the entire network of over 1 billion, a happy woman manager, focusing on emotions, gender, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.