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Love is a matter for two people, appreciate each other and live a happy life. But if you consider getting married, you have to face the cruelty of reality.
Some girls are very anxious when they should get married and don’t want to be gossiped about by others.
Even if the other party has bad conditions and character, as long as the daughter can get married, it doesn’t matter whether she can live a happy life in the future.
Faced with the pressure of their family, they can only get married at will, and their life after marriage is very aggrieved and hard.
But parents who really care about their daughter will not let her marry these three families, and no matter how good the conditions are, they will not be able to do so.
01: Some parents never consider their children's feelings. It seems that in our cognition, as long as they are parents, it is natural to love their children.
But the reality is not the case. Some people are too low in their level and are extremely immature in their hearts.
Most of the toxic parents are selfish. They only consider their needs and never respect their daughter's feelings.
What’s worse is that they will also kidnap their children’s moral sense in the name of love.
In-law's family, which you won't even love with your own children, don't expect them to be nice to you.
Sun Shan (pseudonym) has been dating her boyfriend for more than a year. They like each other very much and look forward to entering the palace of marriage together.
The parents had a pretty good impression of their son-in-law, but after learning about his family and meeting his son-in-law's family, the father began to object to their marriage.
Although her boyfriend has a high income, he has a very selfish and domineering father. The son-in-law has no way to take power and no freedom in front of him.
He is almost thirty years old and is still like a child, being pointed at by his father.
How much does he need? The prospective son-in-law must also give it, without the right to refute it at all.
Sun Shan is an only child and her parents have always loved her very much. If she really married her prospective son-in-law, she will be tied to her toxic family in the future, and the rest of her life will be destined to be painful.
02: A stubborn and a manly relative to girls
Traditional ideas are too deeply rooted. No matter how good you do, you cannot change the facts.
A family has poor conditions, but in order to have a son, I have sacrificed everything and I have to give birth to a child no matter how poor I have to give birth.
Elders who are too stubborn have no status or value in their hearts. No matter how powerful the daughter is, she cannot make money as much as her son.
Chen Jun (pseudonym) has three sisters. In order to assume the responsibility of taking care of the family, one of them started working after graduating from junior high school.
Another one went to high school, her parents asked her to get married quickly and could get a bride gift to help her family.
The third sister has the best personality. She did not give up on herself and dared to resist her parents.
During college, she studied and worked. Through years of persistence and hard work, Chen Jun's third sister finally lived a more decent life.
She gives her family a lot of money every year, and she is responsible for the money she builds a house in her hometown, buys a car, and her parents are sick and hospitalized.
, Chen Jun was spoiled since childhood, and did not go to work after graduation, so he relied on the living expenses given by his sister.
He has been in love with his girlfriend for more than three years and plans to get married. After knowing his situation, my future parents-in-law immediately forced her daughter to break up with him quickly.
Although Chen Jun is very nice to his girlfriend, his parents are so boyish than girls, so they will not be nice to their daughter-in-law, and they will force her to have a son after marriage.
Parents who truly consider their daughter will not let her marry into a family that prefers boys over girls, and will not be willing to let her suffer.
03: Low emotional intelligence, many conflicts, and constant quarrels
Marriage life is very long. If a woman's emotions are always disturbed, then even if she eats big fish and meat every day, she will feel helpless and painful.
A family with low emotional intelligence and many conflicts, even if the conditions are good, it is difficult for families to communicate with each other. If you are not united, it will be difficult for you to feel happiness and security in this family.
Some girls have gentle personalities and will not be irritable before getting married. But not long after getting married, his temperament seemed to have changed, and in the eyes of others, he seemed to be an uneducated shrew.
But these changes are just because I married the wrong man.
I really love my daughter's parents. Even if she is over thirty years old, she may not be able to marry in this life, and she will not let her marry a family with many conflicts.
On the contrary, parents who force their daughters to get married just for the sake of face are mostly selfish. Even if their daughters suffer so much grievances at their in-laws' house, they will not feel distressed.
Conclusion:
Lin Huiyin said: "Only those who share the same heart can resonate and see the ups and downs of the world. Only those who are close to the soul can see the beauty hidden in each other's hearts."
Marriage is so long, and only by marrying the right person can the relationship be sweet and happy.
A woman gets married not only spends her life with her partner, but also has to get along with her future in-laws.
Parents who really hope that their daughter will live a happy life will definitely choose carefully. In the above three families, even if the boys have advantages in their conditions, they will not harm their children.
Compared with your own face, the most important thing for your daughter to be pampered for a lifetime.
I hope more parents can understand the difficulty of being a woman more, and don’t let her fall into the tiger’s den for the sake of the so-called little benefit.
Poor family tradition will delay her life.
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