My name is Li Ying, I am 29 years old this year. My husband and I have been married for three years and have a one-year-old baby. After getting married to my husband, I did not have to care about my husband's salary, because he was responsible for the family expenses and his money was used to support the family. My money is saved and I trust my husband very much, so I never thought about checking the accounts.
Since we got married, we have been loving and life has been calm. But today I went home from get off work and the property downstairs called me and said that our family had not paid the property fee yet, so I asked me to pay it quickly. I think my husband usually pays the property fees, so I call my husband's transfer when I go home.
After returning home, my husband was cooking. I told him about the property fee, and my husband said: I have been transferring it on WeChat in recent years. My phone is on the desk, so you can just transfer it to him with WeChat.
After saying that, I continued to go into the kitchen to cook. In order to avoid nagging the property, I used my husband's cell phone to transfer it to the property. After transferring, the message "paid" popped up in my husband's WeChat Pay.
I am a person with a bit of obsessive-compulsive disorder . When I see it, I click in. I happened to see the last payment message for the property fee. My husband gave a reward of 2,000 yuan to a woman named Li Ailian.
I followed the reward platform and nickname and found Li Ailian's account. And I read her account from beginning to end. It turned out that Li Ailian was a single woman who lived with her two children.
Her account mainly sells tangerine peel. Li Ailian will broadcast live every day to sell tangerine peel. Most people buy it, instead of rewarding like my husband. There are also rewards, but the amount should be relatively small.
I looked through my husband’s bill and found that the reward record was 3 months ago, and this reward lasted for 3 months. Maybe it was Li Ailian who started the live broadcast three months ago.
I said no one in the family likes tangerine peel. Why did he buy tangerine peel back half a year ago? If I can’t drink it myself, I will give it to someone. It turned out that I bought it from the woman Li Ailian.
I was so angry at that time, and I remembered that I was chatting with my colleagues today. Everyone said which cat didn’t steal fish. But I always thought my husband was a smart person. He graduated from 985 and had a decent job. His wife was also a good match, and his talent and job were not bad. Now he has a son. Many people dream of this kind of life.
I think he wouldn't be so stupid, he personally ruined this family and his future.
always thought he could tell the difference, but he didn't expect that he was also a person who didn't know the difference and could not tell the difference. He even read the books in the dog's belly!
At that time, I wanted to smash his phone, but I thought that the phone was bought with hard work and money, so there was no need to take the money to vent my anger, so I smashed his phone on the sofa. He came out to serve the food and happened to see me smashing his phone. I asked me why I was smashing my phone?
Even though I was very angry, I knew I couldn't get out of control. So he asked him coldly: Who is Li Ailian? He was stunned for a moment, then smiled and said: Why, is it because he is jealous of Li Ailian?
I became even more angry as soon as he said that I was shameless and did something wrong, but now I can still laugh. I wish I could go up and scratch his face. But my cultivation prevents me from doing this. So I sat on the sofa and looked at him with my eyes obliquely.
gritted teeth and said: I thought you were a smart man and knew which one was more important, but I didn’t expect that I misjudged you!
How could he know that he smiled more happily, so he turned around and went to the kitchen to wash his hands, took off his apron and came to hug me.
th then I will definitely not follow it. It is impossible to get overwhelmed when encountering major events. I said you can sit farther.
He saw that I was so angry, so he surrendered with both hands and said: Do you still remember Chen Qin? It was my colleague before I transferred to the unit. You also attended his funeral last year.
As soon as he said that, I remembered it. My husband was from the Public Security Bureau before, so I can't explain the specific position. He had a colleague who died in the line of duty and was only 34 years old when he died. His daughter is only six months old and her son seems to be only three years old. I found out at that time and said it was pitiful.
As the head of the family, he was the pillar of the family, so he left like that, leaving them orphans and widows. I remember going to pay my respects to Chen Qin at that time. Because I couldn't bear to see his wife dragging her son and daughter, I had to take care of her elderly family, I even found a bank and withdrew cash. After the condolences, he secretly stuffed 30,000 yuan into his daughter's swaddle clothes.
Later, Chen Qin's wife asked everywhere about who lost the money. My husband stood up and admitted that we gave it to him. I remember she seemed to call my husband at that time and said she would pay it back. My husband said no, this is the friendship between their brothers. Later, after much persuasion, Chen Qin's wife accepted it.
My husband saw that I remembered something and said that Chen Qin’s wife was Li Ailian.
so that's it.
My husband told me that after cooking Chen Qin's funeral, Chen Qin's mother was overly sad, which led to poor health. In addition, two children were going to school in the future, so they took his parents and children to move to her parents' county town to live. Her mother's family grows oranges, and some of them can't be sold, so she thought about making them into dried tangerine peel for sale.
Because of that incident, I was always worried and afraid that my husband would suddenly die one day, so I always asked my husband to transfer his post, but my husband kept getting injured during a task. After half a year of recuperation, my legs and feet were inconvenient. I was only transferred to the unit under the attack of my tears.
Li Ailian's account was forwarded to him by his colleague at the time. After reading it, he realized that Li Ailian was selling tangerine peel, so he wanted to support it. He bought it several times, and later when Li Ailian looked at his address and recipient number, he stopped selling him.
Then he saw Li Ailian live broadcast, he registered a small account and gave some money from time to time, as if it was for the two children.
After I knew this, I felt mixed feelings. First, I feel that I have no boundaries in love with my husband, and second, of course I also blame him for not telling me.
My husband said: You have so much work every day and are so busy. And I also know that if I tell you about this, you will definitely support it. I knew you would support it, so I didn't say it. I will not do anything I think of what you don't support. I want to do something that you don’t support, I will definitely discuss it with you as soon as possible.
If you feel uncomfortable, even if I know you will agree in the future, I will discuss with you. Do you think it is good?
has finished all the good and bad things to him. What else can I say? However, this incident made me feel roller coaster, and I still felt uncomfortable. I took the action and turned around and went back to my parents' home. Not long after I arrived at my parents' house, my husband came to the door with the little guy. I told this again at my parents' home.
After hearing this, my father laughed and clapped and said: I didn’t see the wrong person at the beginning. You, don't be mean to be a child. Go back quickly. I'm still chatting with you!
so I kicked me out of the house with my little guy and my husband. After leaving the house, my husband and I looked at each other, then smiled at each other, and went home.
But my husband and I discussed that we should not give so many rewards in the future. It is said that the reward platform also has commissions. In the future, I’d better find her WeChat to buy tangerine peel. She recognizes her husband, but she doesn't recognize me. I'll buy this dried tangerine peel in the future.
After listening to my words, my husband praised me as a good wife. It means that I have good fortune in my life, and it means that I have no regrets when I die, so I praise me directly.