Buy a house
When chatting with my father at night, I proudly told my father that I have bought a new house and that I will hand over the house soon. Seeing my happy look, my father told me about his previous personal experience. That year, when our village was implementing a large-scale contract, my father contracted twenty acres of land next to our village and planted all of them with tung trees and seedlings. The growth of the tung saplings is very gratifying, and my father and mother are more motivated. They stay in the field every day and take care of the saplings in the field.
Because the saplings are of good quality, many people come to buy saplings. My father couldn't hold his mouth closed. His father said that that year, he was expected to become the first ten thousand yuan household in the village. But one day it rained, and my father and mother who were working went home. The next day, when I went to the field to work again, my parents were shocked, and the remaining ten acres of tung saplings were all cut down to the ground.
Growing saplings
The mother was so angry that she almost fainted. She cried loudly while cursing the people who cut the saplings. People in the village came to watch the fun, but they were a little gloating when they looked at their expressions. My father decisively called the police. A week later, he pulled the murderer out. It turned out to be one of his father's friends, Zhang Li. It turned out that when he saw his father getting rich, he was jealous and took advantage of the rain to cut off all the saplings.
He probably thought that on rainy days, his footprints were washed away by the rain, and the police would not find him. He probably didn't expect that the police would solve the case in just one week. The bad guy was found, but the parents couldn't be happy. They didn't expect that the one who caused them was a friend who had a good relationship. The night the police took Zhang Li away, my father drank all night of wine.
Drinking sadly
The story was told, my father warned me, people must learn to be low-key, because human nature is selfish, and you are good and ostentatious, it is your wrong, because you will make others think that this is a ridicule of them. My father told me a lot of principles of being a human being that day. I summarized it and there are roughly the following points to encourage you.
First, chat with others less if you have nothing to do, because during the chat, some people will unconsciously tell their own affairs. If you have to chat with others, just listen to others and don’t interrupt. Even if you say a few words, don’t reveal your true thoughts and the real situation at home. Especially when you surpass others a lot, you must take good care of your mouth to avoid causing dissatisfaction from others and causing trouble to yourself.
chat with others for no reason
Second, please stop posting your own family matters to your friends circle, eat barbecue today, go travel tomorrow, and buy another bag the day after tomorrow, and show off everywhere, you are happy, but what you see and hear by those who are interested may see through it, and may cause harm and loss to yourself.
Third, don’t get too close to others. Be together every day. He knows what you do. He knows how much money you have earned. There is no secret in his eyes. If he has bad intentions, it will be a matter of minutes to think about bad things.
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