Why do you always get hurt in emotional marriage? Because no one told you what love feelings are from childhood? School dare not teach you, and parents are embarrassed to tell you, which leads to your understanding of feelings. Just like when you were young, you will naturally leave if you fall a few times, but if you fall a few times in your emotional marriage, you may never get up again, and you may even spend your whole life in pain!
Today I will tell you the truth about two marriages. First, no matter whether you are a man or a woman is in love before marriage, you must open your eyes wide. The interaction between people is a kind of screening and filtering. You would rather spend more time finding the right person than spend energy to cultivate the wrong person. If you are looking for a monkey, you can climb a tree by taking a few strokes. If you are finding a pig, you will not be able to climb a tree even if you have been raising it for 100 years, because he always cares about feed.
Second, you must turn a blind eye after marriage, because the love stage must be a romantic fairy tale world, and both men and women are performing to show their strengths, while after marriage, there is the cruel truth, more about the firewood, rice, salt and oil, trivial matters, and the shortcomings of men and women will be revealed. If you still have emotional cleanliness at this time, you always pick on the other person's faults, you can't tolerate sand in your eyes, and you are petty about everything, the result is that you will complain and attack each other, and your family will be messed up and end up breaking up. Let me tell you a secret: no one’s marriage is perfect. Good marriages are performed for others to see, and everyone’s bottom of the pot is dust. The key is whether you want to show it to others.
All pain is not understanding human nature
All injuries are not understanding emotions
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