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"I made my marriage a mess and let my daughter suffer with me. I really want to slap myself twice. For him, I divorced regardless of everything, but I didn't expect this choice to make me regret it for the rest of my life."
Her name is Xiao Duan, and she is a reader friend of mine. 3 years ago she was a happy woman with a harmonious family and a happy child. After 3 years, everything changed drastically. Her husband became her ex-husband, and her son was not close to her at all. Because of the later harm, her daughter became untalking and unwilling to date others.
All this stems from her ridiculous extramarital affair. She said she regrets it now, but regret is useless, because everything has become a foregone conclusion and she will never go back to the past.
Xiao Duan got married with her husband because of love. At that time, she believed in the man who loved her very much.
After getting married, she gave birth to a son and a daughter for her husband. Her husband was afraid that she would work hard to take care of the children alone, so he specially spent money to hire a nanny to help her cook and do housework.
I don’t know when she started to get into online chatting. For a while, Xiaoduan’s husband always went to other places to discuss business for business, and when she was bored alone, she would pass the time online.
It is because of chatting online that Xiao Duan met a man named Dong Tong (pseudonym). He is a very good talker. The sweet words he said to Xiao Duan quickly fascinated Xiao Duan.
At first, they were only limited to some ambiguous words. Later, Xiao Duan began to fantasize about what kind of scene would be when he met with the other party.
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With such anticipation, she finally failed to suppress her curiosity and met Dong Tong in reality. On the day of meeting, they broke through the last line of defense between men and women.
There will be a second time when there is a first time. Although Xiao Duan will blame himself every time, as long as Dong Tong has a message, she will go to see him regardless of the matter.
Later, the unusual relationship between them was discovered by Dong Tong's wife. Dong Tong's wife came to the door to fight with her, and the trouble was in a big deal.
Seeing that she and Dong Tong could not be concealed, she filed for divorce with her husband before her husband could question her, saying that she was sorry for him, but hoped that he could help her and Dong Tong.
She said she didn't know why at that time, and she was just as confused. She ignored her husband's attempt to keep her and said she would divorce anything.
Finally, seeing that her attitude was so firm, my husband had no choice but to sign the divorce agreement .
After the divorce, the son followed her husband, and she moved out of the house with her daughter, and temporarily rented a house to live in.
Next, she began to implement her plan step by step. She first called Dong Tong to meet him. After Dong Tong came, she told him that she had divorced and hoped that he could divorce as soon as possible.
Dong Tong asked her to give him some time to solve the problem, and she agreed, but she knew that this was just a delaying strategy commonly used by men, so she would not take this trick.
So half a month later, she gave Dong Tong an ultimatum, and if he didn't divorce, she would go to his unit to find his leader. Threats like
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obviously worked. A week later, Dong Tong divorced his wife, and she moved into Dong Tong's house as she wished, and became husband and wife with Dong Tong from lover.
She thought she was finally with true love and would be happy in the future because Dong Tong was particularly considerate to her and her daughter, but she didn't know that what she saw was just a superficial illusion.
After Dong Tong divorced his ex-wife, his son lived with him. Usually in front of Xiao Duan, Dong Tong treated both children equally, but when Xiao Duan was carrying Xiao Duan, he often leaned towards his son. When the two children had a dispute, he would scold Xiao Duan's daughter and even punish her by pinching her arms.
Something like this was discovered by Xiao Duan herself later. Once when her daughter was changing clothes, she accidentally found that her daughter's arms were blue and purple, so she asked her daughter why. The daughter said that Uncle Wei pinched it, and said that Uncle Wei warned her not to tell her mother.
Seeing the pinch marks on her daughter's body, Xiao Duan was almost crazy. As soon as Dong Tong came home from get off work, she rushed up and asked him why he treated her daughter like this.
Unexpectedly, Dong Tong actually said to her lightly: "I will help you educate your daughter, but you don't appreciate it. She did something wrong, so of course I can't protect her."
That night, after she remarried, she had a big fight with Dong Tong for the first time, but Dong Tong pointed to the door and said to her, "If you can't get through, take your daughter out of this house."
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That night, Xiao Duan thought for a long time and finally figured it out that second-marriage families often do not easily live a happy life because of their respective children. Moreover, they are second-marriage families who come together because of extramarital affairs, so they don’t expect to live a good life.
Think about the horrified look of her daughter when she was quarreling with Dong Tong just now. Xiao Duan decided to end this ridiculous marriage. The next day, she packed up her things and went to the divorce procedures with Dong Tong.
After divorce again, she and her daughter returned to their rental house. Many times she took her daughter to her ex-husband's house in the name of seeing her son, and wanted to discuss remarriage with her ex-husband, but her ex-husband intentionally changed the topic before she wanted to talk about this topic.
She knew it was impossible to remarry with her ex-husband. After all, men are all respectful. If they do that kind of thing, how can they be embarrassed to remarry again?
Now Xiao Duan’s ex-husband has also remarried because it is not convenient to see her son again. Xiao Duan said that her son and she are much unfamiliar, and her daughter’s personality has changed drastically because of the previous incident, from a lively and cheerful little girl to an introverted and timid little girl.
Finally, Xiaoduan told me that all this was caused by herself. If there were people selling regret medicine in this world, she would never betray her husband.
In fact, many extramarital affairs were unconsciously and confused at the time. Often afterwards, the parties involved found that they could not bear the heavy consequences of such a choice.
Therefore, whether it is a man or a woman, you should stick to your moral bottom line when you get married and not be confused by temporary joy and passion.
Otherwise, in the end, it will not only hurt the person who truly loves you, but also hurt the relatives around you, and you will also usher in the end of being betrayal of all relatives. Therefore, please stop in time when it’s time to stop! Don't delay your life because of extramarital affair.
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