text丨Tao Xiaojing
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Wang Guozhen wrote in the book "Young Season": "The deepest feelings are often expressed in the coldest way. The frivolous feelings are often expressed in the strongest way."
This is the feeling between men and women. The deeper the deeper the calmer, and the more frivolous the stronger.
But, how many people understand this?
People who fall in love have the opposite attitude, thinking that passion is love.
There is actually no unique standard for emotional matters, and everyone has their own way of expression, so they cannot be generalized.
Maybe you will feel that a cruel person seems to be unemotional, but in fact, when love is deep, men are cruel.
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The biggest difference between a man and a woman is that even if he has fallen deep in love, he has not completely lost his rationality.
He will not be as blind as a woman, but is releasing his deep affection at his own pace and in his own way.
So, when you find that a man has these cruel behaviors, don’t question his love, but know clearly that he has actually fallen deep in love.
cruelly rejecting the pursuit of admirers
For many men, being pursued is a very proud thing because it proves his charm.
Without falling in love with a woman deeply, he will not refuse the pursuit of his admirers, but instead enjoy it and enjoy it.
But once he loves deep down, he will be loyal to his feelings. Even if he has never given his admirers hope from beginning to end, he does not want a third person to be in his feelings.
In order to prove his sincerity, he will refuse the pursuit of his admirers very cruelly without leaving any room for anything.
When he loves deep down, he will not give anyone hope at all. He will only devote himself to his feelings and release his love without reservation.
The man is so cruel, which means that he really loves deeply. If a woman gets such love, she must cherish it.
Women should know that a man is willing to give up the whole forest for you, which is your greatest blessing. Only by cherishing it can you continue to be happy.
cruelly asks you to get rid of bad habits
Because many women think it is not easy to get rid of bad habits, so when a man strongly asks himself to change, the woman will feel that he does not love him enough.
The idea of a woman is actually the greatest harm to men, because men do not demand it cruelly because they don’t love them.
In the eyes of men, the best way to love someone is to make her better.
A man hopes that his lover is the best woman in the world, and he also hopes that everyone envys him for finding a good woman, so he will cruelly ask women to change.
women may find it difficult for men to accept what men do, but you must understand that men will be so cruel only when they love deeply.
It is because of love for you, and it is because of the cruelty that I hope you will become better. Don’t be stupid and don’t understand.
Isn’t it a kind of happiness to have someone by your side and urge you to become better? Don’t be blessed without knowing blessings.
cruelly gave up some of their hobbies
Almost every man has his own hobbies. Once some hobbies are developed, they will follow the man for the rest of his life and will never give up in this life.
Men will not give up their hobbies easily, because this is a spiritual sustenance for him and can help him relax.
But once he falls in love with a woman, the hobby is not that important to him, and he can even give up his hobby for the woman.
The reason why a man dares to give up his hobbies easily is not because he is no longer interested, but because he has found a better spiritual sustenance.
The arrival of love has filled all the gaps in his heart, allowing him to truly feel the joy of life and experience sweetness and happiness. He is willing to spend more time managing his relationships, rather than just focusing on his hobbies.
A man’s cruel abandonment of his hobby is actually reflected in his importance to love. Because this love transcends everything, everything can be abandoned.
If a man has achieved this level for you, then cherish the person in front of you and don’t let him down.
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If under normal circumstances, a person's cruelty is indeed easy to hurt others, but feelings are not ordinary. In feelings, a person's cruelty represents love.
This manifestation is particularly obvious in men. When a man loves deep down, he will become very cruel.
He will cruelly reject others because he is only loyal to his own feelings. He will cruelly ask you to change because he wants you to be better. He will cruelly give up his hobbies because everything is not as important as you.
A man can be so cruel, which shows that his love for you is indeed very deep. Even if he never speaks, you should understand his intentions.
No matter what your opinion about cruelty is, you must know that not everyone will have these cruelty manifestations. A man will treat you like this because he has already loved you deeply.
Such love is precious. If you don’t want to lose it, then cherish it.
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