Teacher Wang is nearly 50 years old and is a middle school Chinese teacher. She has a kind face and a gentle appearance. She can often see her walking in the community with her intellectually disabled son. Her son often smiles foolishly at others, while Teacher Wang always looks

Teacher Wang is nearly 50 years old and is a middle school Chinese teacher. She has a kind face and a gentle appearance. She can often see her walking in the community with her intellectually disabled son. Her son often smiles foolishly at others, while Teacher Wang always looks at her son lovingly, and there is no trace of boredom on her face.

Her son Xiaofei always seems to be unable to grow up, and he is almost twenty years old, but he still looks like a child, stupid, he will greet people when he sees them, and will also help his mother do something. In addition to his abnormal intelligence, this child is still quite cute.

Speaking of this child’s life experience, it is actually quite pitiful. When Teacher Wang was young, he had a good relationship with Xiaofei's father, but Xiaofei's father unfortunately suffered from incurable diseases. Teacher Wang, who was in sorrow, worked hard to take care of her terminally ill husband, and found that she was pregnant. At this time, she was in a dilemma. The child's father had no time left. If the child was born, it would mean the future. She would raise the child alone, and the child was conceived after her husband fell ill. She could not guarantee whether she was healthy or not.

Teacher Wang spends every day suffering. On the one hand, he is worried about his husband's health, and on the other hand, he is worried about the fetus in his confidant. His whole body is in a bad state! Relatives and friends all advised her to think carefully. After all, she is still young and has a long way to go in the future. If she insists on giving birth to the child, it will not be so easy for her to remarry if her husband dies. But at that time, Teacher Wang was deeply in love with her husband. She had no intention of remarrying at all. She thought to herself that even if her husband was gone, at least they had a child, and she still had some thoughts.

Teacher Wang decided to give birth to the child no matter what. It was the only bloodline of her beloved husband in the world. When she told her husband on the sickbed, she saw a flash of light flashing in his eyes, and she became more determined to make her choice. Yes, she believed that her husband longed for the arrival of this child as much as she did, even if his life was about to come to an end. Therefore, the common expectation of the birth of the child has become a little light that illuminates the couple's bleak years. It is precisely because of this belief that the husband reluctantly bid farewell to the world after the child was born.

Although I knew that this day would come sooner or later, Teacher Wang was still sad and depressed for a long time. But the painful days were not over. Teacher Wang gradually realized that his son was different. He was not like other children. He did not respond much to others teasing him, and he obviously felt that his reaction to external stimuli was a little slow, and there was no spiritual energy in his eyes. The child's face also looks a bit strange. has smaller eye clefts and wider eye distances, which is a bit like a Down baby. Teacher Wang didn't dare to think about it anymore. He had been busy taking care of her husband before and had no time to have prenatal examinations. Did he give birth to Tang's son? You should know that Tang's children have problems with their intelligence, and there may be frequent organ abnormalities, which require careful care to grow up. Moreover, the child's intellectual defect is irreversible. Such children have no future at all and can only become a burden to the family for a lifetime.

Teacher Wang was too careless. She had worried about the unhealthy child, but due to financial reasons and luck, she saved her a series of prenatal check-up steps and gave birth to a sick child directly. Now that I think about it, did she feel a little regretful about her lofty courage at that time? In fact, to outsiders, her behavior is very irresponsible, and it has caused a great mental burden to herself and her family. When I was a child, the child could not take care of himself and needed the elderly to follow him without leaving any steps. After finally reaching the age of studying, the child has no way to study in school with his normal children. After barely studying in elementary school for a few years, he finally dropped out of school because he couldn't keep up. Fortunately, the child is still relatively obedient and sensible. In addition to intellectual defects, he can also communicate with his family and help his mother and grandma do some housework. His family has no requirements for him, as long as he is healthy.

With a mentally retarded child, Teacher Wang did not marry again. She was not yet 30 years old when her husband died, but when they heard about her situation, they hid far away.Over time, Teacher Wang felt relieved. She gave all her love to this child with congenital defects. The child grew up day by day, and Teacher Wang was no longer young. No one knows whether she regrets giving birth to Xiaofei. But if she hadn't insisted on giving birth to Xiao Fei back then, her life would have been a different scene. Perhaps she will be sad for a while after losing her beloved husband. But after the pain, she could regain her mood and new happiness might be waiting for her ahead, after all, she was still so young at that time.

If you can make a new choice, Teacher Wang may not make the same decision again. The decisions when you were young are too emotional, and the experience of life will definitely teach us to grow. But people must be responsible for their choices. No one is qualified to judge other people's lives. Regardless of whether Teacher Wang regrets it or not, she lives according to her own wishes, and it’s good that others wish you blessing!