"You know she is seriously ill and can't live to be 45 years old... and still marry her, isn't you asking for trouble?"
"I don't care, she won't marry her!"
In 2004, 44-year-old farmer Gong Wenshan made a fuss with his family in order to marry his 39-year-old divorced mother Yan Duo.
is like being angry. He knelt in front of Yan Duo on one leg at the wedding, and swore affectionately: "I am willing to take care of you for the rest of my life..."
At that time, Yan Duo was wearing a white wedding dress and sitting in a wheelchair with a smile on his face and a light in his eyes, and a sense of happiness.
While moved, the people who watched the ceremony lamented that Yan Duo had married a "good Chinese man".
But who would have thought that this man was a wolf in sheep's clothing. He was not only lazy to eat, but also became a fond of domestic violence.
Now, Yan Duo, who is seriously ill, not only cannot be taken care of, but is also abused, and he relies on only a bowl of vegetable noodle soup every day to prosper.
What made her even more disappointed was that Gong Wenshan said shamelessly in front of the reporter: "I didn't let her starve to death. I'm already merciful, and I'm accompanying her to treat her illness every now and then..." In front of the camera, he flew everywhere and boasted about himself; she was having trouble, and could only hang her head weakly and curse herself for being blinded by lard.
I thought he was an angel, but I didn't want to be a demon.
is really "one step wrong and lifelong mistake"! Now Yan Duo regrets it too much, but he can only break his teeth and swallow it with blood.
So, how did Yan Duo meet this guy with a human face and a beast?
2011, when spring swallows whispered to the willows, Yan Duo met Gong Wenshan online.
Although Gong Wenshan is 40+, he is still a bachelor.
He is humorous and witty, and she whispers, and the two fell in love with each other at first sight.
Two hearts collide with each other during frequent conversations, and feelings gradually arise. Especially, after learning about Yan Duo’s experience, Gong Wenshan felt very sympathy and felt pity.
After three years of online dating, the two decided to meet.
In order to leave a good impression, on the day of the date, Yan Duo put on a beautiful light makeup, then stood outside the door with a cane, looking forward to the arrival of his sweetheart.
At this time, Yan Duo, who looked like a peach blossom, was still beautiful except that she could not walk, like a fairy left behind in the world, and she felt pity for everyone.
The two met too late, and they will be determined to be a lifetime.
However, both parents strongly opposed this marriage, especially Yan's father.
He really didn't understand how a good man would be willing to marry a divorced woman who was both seriously ill and unable to have children, and was even more a divorced woman with her son.
But Gong Wenshan's heart is like a rock, and his feelings are sincere.
He comforted Yan's father and said that the land acquisition in his hometown is about to be imminent. After marriage, Yan Duo and his son will have "head fees", so that Yan Duo will have money to treat the disease.
Yan's father was skeptical, but Yan Duo was deeply moved when he heard this and felt that Gong Wenshan was like the Supreme Treasure falling from the sky in " Westward Journey ", who came to save her.
Therefore, she ignored her father's obstruction and forced her to take her son away from her old father who had lived with her for 8 years. She couldn't wait to go to her happiness just for what Gong Wenshan said, "I do."
So, what disease does the young Yan Duo suffer from? Things have to start from the beginning...
One day in 2003, when 28-year-old Yan Duo went downstairs, he suddenly felt his legs weak, and his body rolled downstairs uncontrollably, and his head was broken and bloody.
She felt something was wrong and hurried to the hospital for examination.
won’t know if you don’t check it, and you’ll be shocked when you check it. The report shows that she suffers from hereditary "cerebellar atrophy".
" Cerebellar atrophy " is called "undead cancer" in the medical community. It cannot be cured and can only be relieved through treatment. The life span is generally no more than 45 years old.
This news was like a bolt from the blue, which made Yan Duo feel dizzy, and the checklist in his hand slid silently... She had her eyes empty and finally understood why her mother died early.
In memory, a healthy mother began to speak vaguely and walk shakingly one day without warning.
Then, she quickly lost her ability to walk and had to lie on the bed like a walking corpse for a few years. Finally, she was covered in pressure sores, pus and maggots, and died tragically.
The past is vivid in my mind, Yan Duo was so scared that his face was pale, his lips trembled, and he collapsed on the chair...
The rope of fate tightened Yan Duo's neck at this time, not allowing her to have any chance to breathe.
When the husband found out, he was worried that he would be dragged down, so he hurriedly filed for divorce, and his past love was gone.
Suffering is indeed a mirror of the demon, whether it is a human or a demon, it is clear at a glance.
Yan Duo was very sad. Looking at her husband's cold face, thinking of her condition, even if she was reluctant to leave, she could only let go.
Looking at her husband's back as she brushed her sleeves away, she cried bitterly and was heartbroken while holding her 4-year-old son.
At this moment, the helpless Yan Duo completely became the abandoned child of fate, saying that he did not respond every day, and that he did not work.
But unfortunately, it is like Honghu water waves, wave after wave, one after another.
Shortly after the divorce, the condition began to worsen, and Yan Duo had to suspend work.
soon, Yan Duo began to have stiff limbs, speak vaguely, and could not even walk on the road, so he could only rely on a wheelchair to carry.
And the disease is like a bottomless bloody mouth, always opening its mouth, waiting for Yan Duo to spend money in it. In the blink of an eye, the family was left with all its walls.
Finally, Yan Duo was penniless and desperate, so he had to take the children back to Chenzhou hometown to defect to his old father.
Father and daughter meet, sadness arises from their hearts, and both embrace each other and cry.
In the countryside, although Yan Duo is sick, she is not idle. She uses crutches every day to do some work within her ability, feed chickens and ducks, wash and cook...
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indeed, it seems that Yan Duo has been a woman with ill fate since she was born.
1975, Yan Duo was born in a poor family in Chenzhou, Hunan.
Although Yan Duo is a beloved child, a father who prefers boys wants his son, so he turns a blind eye to her.
but the world won't go as expected.
Soon after, Yan Duo's mother gave birth to another daughter and had a strange disease. She left the father and daughter behind and passed away.
Widower, lacking a son, makes Yan's father, who is depressed and unsuccessful, always feels panicked.
grandma's beating and scolding and father's indifference made the originally poor family even more cold.
Yan Duo, who is gradually sensible, is always eager to escape from this home without any warmth. When she was
18, she was disappointed with family affection and resolutely dropped out of school and went to society.
suffers from low education. After several twists and turns, she was able to work as a waiter in a hotel in the city.
But Yan Duo soon discovered that he got up early and worked late, but what he received was the boss' contempt and abuse.
She lived a very upset life and felt like life was like a year.
At the same time, Yan Duo realized that he seemed to have an innate love for colors, so he tried to learn makeup by himself.
From then on, when the makeup artist's dream was ignited.
There is light in my heart, and the dream has a direction.
1995, after Yan Duo worked as a waiter for two years, he decisively proposed to resign and chose to study at the makeup training school.
Practice in winter and in summer.
Through unremitting practice, Yan Duo's makeup technology has made rapid progress.
She has stood out in many makeup competitions and has become a well-known makeup artist in the industry.
At that time, Yan Duo, who was tall, fair and beautiful, was proud and indifferent to the limelight.
As your career is booming, the flower of love is also blooming quietly.
1998, she and her lover formed a love between Qin and Jin, and her son followed her.
House of three, three meals and four seasons. The happy and sweet life made Yan Duo feel that he is the happiest person in the world.
However, there are always unexpected surprises in life.
In the blink of an eye, the sharp knife of fate pierced her originally happy and fulfilling life and was beyond recognition.
A sudden disease pushed her into the dark abyss.
Nowadays, Gong Wenshan's appearance is like a beam of light, illuminating her dim life, how can you easily miss it?
In 2014, the two overcome all difficulties and held a touching wedding in their hometown, which became a good story for a while.
soon, the land acquisition payment arrived as scheduled, totaling 2.2 million yuan. Among them, the family of three won a total of 600,000 yuan and two apartments.
At this time, Yan Duo was sitting in a wheelchair, looking at the hanging wedding photos, looking forward to the future with satisfaction.
But who would have thought that a bloody "Purgatory on Earth" was waiting for her in front.
Gong Wenshan gradually showed his hideous face after receiving the land acquisition payment. He ignored Yan Duo and his son, and only cared about eating, drinking and having fun with his friends.
The good times did not last long, and the 600,000 yuan land acquisition money was squandered, while treatment expenses, living expenses and other expenses came like snowflakes.
Gong Wenshan began to complain, drinking and relieved his sorrows, and even punched and kicked Yan Duo and his son.
stepson was originally both good at character and academic performance, but his grades plummeted due to his abuse.
Once, Gong Wenshan was violent to Yan Duo. Seeing this, his son went up to protect his mother. He didn't want to be smashed into a concussion with a wine bottle. He was hospitalized for a full week.
In the end, the unbearable son was forced to leave Yan Duo and join his biological father.
At the beginning, Yan Duo would ask his father for help, and his father would call the police if he felt sorry for his daughter.
However, after the crazy Gong Wenshan came out of the police station, he remained unchanged and even became more and more serious.
Once, he even choked Yan Duo and stamped his feet in front of his father-in-law. He still couldn't help but feel sorry for his hatred, picked up a cigarette and took a sip, scalded Yan Duo, and provoked his father-in-law: If you call the police and I will mess with your daughter...
At this time, Gong Wenshan was like a devil from hell.
Seeing this, Yan's father was so heartbroken that he was unwilling to take his daughter home, so he just kept asking his daughter to bear it again and again.
because he hates it! He hated his daughter for being stubborn and insisted on marrying Gong Wenshan when he met once. He hated Gong Wenshan even more after using Yan Duo and his son to seize the land acquisition money, but failed to fulfill his promise.
Besides, taking care of his young daughter who suffers from the same disease has made him unable to take care of himself, who is aged and relying on subsistence allowances.
Desperate Yan Duo saw that he had no hope to return to his father and could only ask for help from the relevant departments, but it seemed that far water could not quench his near thirst.
Yan Duo also thought about getting a divorce, but what will happen to her, a terminally ill disabled person, after the divorce? I dare not think about it.
As the condition worsens, Yan Duo is speechless and has difficulty moving, even hiding to protect himself has become a problem. Therefore, when he is abused by domestic violence, he can only swallow his anger.
It is unknown how many grievances she has suffered and how many beatings she has suffered.
The former vow ended up being a sharp blade, poking her all over her body. It’s really impossible to survive, but it’s impossible to die!
In Gong Wenshan’s eyes, Yan Duo is not only a "punching bag" but also a "talisman".
After spending all the land acquisition funds, life was hard to survive. Gong Wenshan complained to Changsha TV under Yan Duo as a guise and asked to apply for a minimum living allowance. The reporter quickly conducted a visit and investigation after hearing the news.
After learning about the incident, the reporter rushed to Gong Wenshan’s house angrily, it was dinner time.
At that time, Yan Duo was drinking a bowl of vegetable noodle soup. She saw her holding a spoon and tremblingly put the soup to her mouth. After finally delivering it to her mouth, half of it spilled out.
And Gong Wenshan actually stood beside him with his hands in his pockets, looking away coldly, indifferently.
The reporter was so angry that he couldn't help but scold Gong Wenshan.
But Gong Wenshan looks like he can't get into the air, and no matter how much he scolds, it will be futile.
Now, Yan Duo has no way to heaven and no way to enter the earth. Although she is deeply trapped in the quagmire, she can only leave her fate. Perhaps the care of society is her last life-saving straw.
8 years ago, although Yan Duo suffered from incurable symptoms, he was at least a woman with beautiful eyes.
8 years later, she was beaten into a "monster". Her eyes were dull, her face was full of vicissitudes, and her shoulders were covered with thick layers of dandruff...
has a hateful face, and it is a pity that everyone is afraid of.
At the beginning, since Gong Wenshan was desperate to marry Yan Duo as his wife, he should fulfill his husband's responsibilities and obligations, and do his best to take care of her, protect her rather than abuse her. Otherwise, where is the conscience in heaven and earth?
And when Yan Duo faces love, if he can open his eyes, keep his mind clear, and not easily hand over the key to fate to others, he may not fall into such an abyss that will never be restored.
The world is really suffering, and sorrow and joy are saved by oneself. After all, you are your savior.
I hope that on the road to pursuing love, we female friends must remember to "think twice before acting", and hope that everything we seek will be gained, and everything we encounter will be good people.
Reference material: Hunan Metropolis " Love Search " column
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Author: Kaiserlan
Editor: Maomaoyu
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