Hi! I am Nian Bao’s mother. She loves writing, painting, and life even more. We should work hard and work hard! Click "Follow" in the upper right corner, and I hope our future is promising!

Hi! I am Nian Bao’s mother. She loves writing, painting, and life even more. We should work hard and work hard! Click "Follow" in the upper right corner, and I hope our future is promising!

It is better to be a widow than remarriage. The second marriage is just a "death method"

colleague Xiaoli gave me a pack of "western candy" today,

In my doubts, she couldn't hide her shyness and said to me: I remarried with my child's father yesterday

When I heard this news, I didn't know what to say for a moment

Thinking back then, the couple hit the door of our unit in order to divorce

Unexpectedly, in less than a year, the two remarried

Xiaoli saw that I didn't react and said: Alas, there's no way! There is still a lifestyle in this society that is easy to live with

. I don’t want to remarry.

. He asked me to think about it and agreed.

In fact, they divorced at that time, and they were not a matter of principle.

. Their living habits and values ​​are inconsistent

. In the year when the child was born, all the conflicts broke out together.

. The two were stubborn and divorced.

. 0

Cousin is also a poor person,

talked about a boyfriend in college

I have seen that boy, very energetic and sunny

But because of getting married far away, the family disagreed with

No matter what, in the end, we got together

But we have been married for 3 years without children, it is the man's problem

plus the mother-in-law problem, and finally fought. Why do parents watch their children suffer such grievances in the distance?

My cousin was also discouraged and divorced directly

Back to us for 2 years, and remarried again by someone's introduction

The man is older than his cousin and has no children

In order to stabilize his relationship, the two of them immediately had children

It seems that they look like they are back to calm. Everyone has found their own happiness.

We have an old saying: Breaking mirror and reuniting

No matter how round the mirror is, it is also a A broken mirror

Hearing Xiaoli's divorce

It was also on a sunny morning when he suddenly appeared at my desk with a sad face

"I'm divorced again, don't tell others, I'll be like this for my life."

The cause is very simple. When the two remarried, it was like "a small separation is better than a newlywed"

indeed spent a sweet time

But more than 30 years of living habits, is it so easy to change?

Half a year later, their lives returned to before divorce. Instead, because of the previous marriage foundation,

The familiarity and recovery speed of the two are faster than expected

At first, it was a small quarrel, but later it became a big quarrel

has the "experience" of divorce

This quarrel did not last long, so I immediately went through the divorce procedures

and what about my cousin? Although the first marriage was unhappy, the main contradiction was that there was no child

. The ex-husband was still tolerant of her other things.

. Although the current husband is old, he wants to suppress everything because he is old.

. This is marriage. How can he live like a superior and subordinate?

plus the child raising problems. In the words of my cousin, it is : it feels like there is a twister shaking around you every day, and it feels like you can detonate a bomb at any time. It's too tired.

stumbling marriage. When the child is 4 years old, still came to an end.

In fact, whether it is remarriage or remarriage, if you don't meet the absolutely right person,

is like choosing between three-foot white silk, poison wine, and dagger.

is no different which one to choose, it's just that the "how to die" is different!

So I advise you: Be cautious when entering a marriage, and be cautious when entering a marriage again!

is completed first and then perfect. I think it’s not bad today, so please like it! I am Nian Bao’s mother, I love sharing, writing, and life. Follow me and come on!

Previous recommendations

Alas! Liu Qiangdong treats "Milk Tea Sister" well for the rest of his life

Bao Beier: Sorry Chen Qingsong, I shouldn't call you a fool X