My husband is the most stingy man I have ever met. We both were too lazy to cook at home on weekends and asked him to order takeaway. As a result, he only ordered his one and said that if I wanted to eat, he would order it for me if I gave him money.
Occasionally, even if he buys things for himself, he will do whatever he wants to do, and he will try his best to make me pay for it, while his own money can save one or one.
In the past two or three years of marriage, I don’t know how much he earns in a month, nor what position he holds in the company, and I don’t know how much bonus and subsidy he usually has.
Because every time I want to know, he either cares about everything else or deliberately loses his temper, which makes me give up. He rarely takes me to dinners and parties with colleagues in his company, saying that he doesn't want people to see them, and jokes about him for taking advantage of the company.
is my monthly income and expenditure. He has already figured out my knowledge by asking around me.
also blamed me for not having any calculating. When the two were together at the beginning, they were in love with each other and always thought they could treat him with all their hearts. So as long as he wanted to know, I made it clear.
Even he sometimes told him everything about taking on some private work in design and making extra money through introductions from others.
A stingy and stingy man like this will always make people feel disgusted over time, so slowly I began to guard against him. For example, recently we have increased our salary and earned 600 yuan more every month, so I didn’t tell him this.
There is also another month when I took two or three private jobs and made more than 2,000 yuan. Unless he has any substantial exchange conditions, I will never say a word to him.
I feel like we are not like couples, we are guarding against each other, and the more we go, the more boring we get. Sometimes I don’t know why I want to get married. What exactly is the picture of such a man?
Indeed, if you look for such a partner and be petty about money, what do you want to do with him? He doesn't spend money on himself, but he tries to spend his own money?
This situation may be caused by the lack of careful identification before marriage. When we get along, we are blinded by the sweetness of love, and we do not think too much about the other person's living habits and attitude towards money.
So love brain is not good, but girls have this physique when they are young when they are in love. A man says a few sweet words, buy you some delicious snacks, or take them out to get along with him a few times. If he recognizes the other person, he will be devoted to him.
Another situation is that the other party hides deeply at the beginning and does not reveal that he is a very scheming and stingy towards women.
But when you get married, or when the time he thinks is coming, you will reveal the quality of everything you are calculating. The reason I chose this opportunity is because he thinks that you will feel that the raw rice has been cooked and will not abandon him or leave him, so he dares to treat you unscrupulously.
So sometimes when you meet a marriage, you really have to rely on luck. No matter how shrewd you are, if fate makes you meet a man who is not very satisfied, it will be helpless.
This is probably why women are becoming more and more capable of making money, becoming more and more independent, and then they are becoming less and less concerned about their feelings.
(Picture original: Miaomiaoxia)
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