It is a science to interact with people.
Even in the world of love, this principle is still followed.
For the rest of my life, how to get along with the one I love is a test of wisdom and patience.
Around us, There are many couples who have "good intentions to do bad things".
clearly wants to be nice to someone, but because the method is wrong, what we are facing is questioned. Over time, even the couple in love will end up with the increasing misunderstanding.
It is easy to fall in love with each other and difficult to get along with.
Where fate begins, we always think that if we hold hands, we can fall in love for the rest of our lives.
When two people really come together in the name of love, face the test of reality, the running-in of personality, and the trivialities and challenges in various life, how many people can maintain that pure original intention!
Some people just broke up after walking hand in hand.
Standing at the starting point of love, who doesn’t have the hope of happiness!
Because we love someone, we will focus on the other person's strengths, and even magnify these strengths in our hearts. Even if you know, the other party will have shortcomings and everyone will choose to ignore them automatically.
But feelings are most afraid of ordinary tests.
As time flies, every relationship will enter a dull period.
In the new stage, the running-in between couples will not only not be interrupted, but will also usher in a more difficult time.
If neither party realizes this or does not have the determination to continue to love, it is easy to lose in the test of reality. Finally, all the fate is exhausted and the loved ones part ways from now on.
When they broke up, many people realized that original love did not disappear . It’s just because the way the two get along with each other was wrong, and their love life became a mess.
So, for couples who love deeply, how can they get along with each other in the time of love so that they can keep their fate and go to the direction of happiness together?
Who do you meet in the rest of your life, don’t ignore these “unspoken rules”.
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Everyone is an independent individual. On the road to growth, everyone is moving forward while exploring.
is affected by the environment, and we will develop different personalities and thus form our respective behaviors.
If one day, I meet love.
, under the urging of true love, everyone has been constantly adjusting and changing, hoping to fulfill the fate of the two people and hope to be worthy of each other. For love, many friends have learned to give up and sacrifice.
Everyone thought that after two people became lovers, they had to give up their personality and get used to the state of treating each other.
Little do you know that it is difficult to change a character that has been developed for a long time.
If you want love to last forever and keep stable, we must realize that true love should not change the other person, but should respect the other person's choices and personality, and even maintain an appreciation attitude.
Only when you treat each other like this will keep your love fresh enough.
Love and marriage require cooperation and fulfillment of two people.
But the premise is that both parties maintain their independent side and can continue to be themselves happily. Only such love can pass the test of time.
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3 Accompany with long-lasting love, but don't stick to each other.
Love is the journey of two people.
This kind of pursuit is not only a psychological closer, but also a companionship and getting along in real life.
couples in love want to stick together every day.
Whenever you have free time, everyone can’t help but miss each other and fight for the opportunity to be together.
If one day, the relationship will enter a dull time.
From this time on, the passion for getting along is missing, and the concern between each other may also weaken. At the same time, the love between the two will also usher in unprecedented tests.
No matter what stage, everyone must understand a fact:
accompanying long-lasting love does not mean that they are always stuck and never let go.
One of the ways to respect a lover is to give the other person enough time and space. This method reflects not only a kind of mutual trust, but also a chance for both parties to breathe.
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3 Can talk about feelings, don’t reason.
When things happen, be reasonable.
This is a habit we gradually develop in our long-term life.
But love is really not a place to be reasonable.
If two people want to love for a long time and pass many tests smoothly, they need to have an inclusive attitude and achieve consensus in mutual understanding.
This means that there is always someone who needs to compromise.
People who give their true love can often stand on a certain scale and examine the relationship between two people. When necessary, you can always give your lover a step forward and turn differences into opportunities for emotional warming up by talking about feelings.
Only those who do not love will stand from their own perspective and choose to argue with reason.
It is obvious that people who talk about feelings can often win the soft heart of their lovers. And those who argue often win the truth but lose their relationship.
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If you want to last a long time, try not to drag it down.
No matter what your background is.
When you meet love and hold hands with the person you love, if you want to protect love, you must realize such a "unspoken rule": love should not be a drag, but to go to the direction of happiness together.
The two parties who love each other may not have a consistent starting point.
But after getting together, two people need to go in the same pace.
If one person is working hard while the other person is standing still. Over time, the gap between the two sides will become larger and larger, and the relationship will usher in an unbalanced stage.
Just imagine, how long can two people last in such a love?
, especially when one party, feels that he is being dragged down. Then the fate between the two parties can easily be gradually exhausted in the face of new tests.
Of course, the pace of love cannot be measured by how much money you make.
Many times, the improvement of knowledge reserves, the broadening of cognition, and even the development of interests and hobbies can make everyone have the charm of matching love. Because, from a spiritual perspective, you can be a leader and will not feel burdened by your lover.
In fact, there are also "unspoken rules" in love.
When we love someone deeply, we will do everything possible to think carefully about the other party, and unconsciously follow these rules to change and improve ourselves.
But when love ushers in a dull period, everyone's attitude changes.
When some "unspoken rules" are left behind by both lovers, love will usher in a crisis. Therefore, if you want a happy and stable relationship, don’t ignore it.
Author: Zhou Qiaofu, an emotional deep-rooted person with attitude. Write warmth in the world and read heartwarming stories, and thank you for being with you all the way. I only wish that the years are quiet and good, and that the clouds and winds are light, and that you and I can express your heartfelt love when you meet in a paragraph of words.
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