Share a story and experience around her
Due to a long-term series of small conflicts, she broke up with her boyfriend, so she fell into endless pain of breaking up for a long time, and she will often feel depressed and missed the days together when she saw them related things, and she will be unable to disturb her want to see what her boyfriend is doing after the breakup and whether she is as sad as her.
When you still want to find the answer, then your subconscious mind proves that you still can't let go. Why do you want to know whether he is as sad as you? In fact, the goal you already have in your heart is that if you find him as sad as well, it proves that you are still in love with each other and cannot let go of each other, and you still want to make up again; but if you find that he is not sad, then you will only be even more angry and even vent all the grievances of the breakup these days.
All the hesitation is that you still have expectations for him
I think that after a relationship is over, women are the first to start to feel uncomfortable and sad. She is unwilling to believe the facts. She is still looking forward to her boyfriend giving him some feedback to prove that her boyfriend still loves her. is simply a kind of self-deception.
If he still loves you, how can he resist looking for you?
Especially when you have not completely abandoned this relationship and have not given a firm attitude, the real reason for this is only: You are thinking too much, and he has already let go before you.
There is a silly girl in the circle of friends. After breaking up, she fell into endless pain and couldn't let go. He was always self-harm and sent some sad moods every day to try to let her boyfriend see it. He hoped to get her boyfriend's pity again. But there is no empathy in the world. Shortly after they broke up, her boyfriend already had a new "good friend". Perhaps they had already had intent in their love. Her behavior would only become gossip after dinner for familiar people around her, and a symbol of men's charm. Inadvertently show off how hard she is to let her gossip to others. The so-called affection of a girl is just a joke for others. Afterwards, the man will only talk to his next girlfriend. There was once a person who loved me deeply. His love was too heavy, and I couldn't accept it.
So, never try to exchange for the short-term mercy of others in a humble way.
A person who truly loves you will only want to appear by your side all the time. In fact, the love of ordinary people is not as complicated as idol dramas, and there are not so many helpless things that cannot be said. So, you just think it simpler. people who love you will naturally want to see you, be kind to you, care about you, and talk to you.
If you love you, you will not let you go. Don’t make all kinds of excuses for him. You must learn to look at the result of things simply, that is, you don’t love, so you won’t look for them. The most difficult thing is to accept the fact that you cannot be loved forever. It is something that everyone needs to keep improving.
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