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For example, in the family environment, in the financial situation of a family, only the husband and wife are the clearest. Considering various factors, they will not let their children know. This is a relatively common "disrespect" in a family!
In addition to this, we will not hide it from our family in many things and are relatively honest.
For example, some parents' family matters, what are the things that others are doing, what are good or bad things, what are our truest thoughts and opinions about some people... These topics, when we communicate with our family, will intentionally or unintentionally, will "reveal feelings" from others, but we will not tell people outside.
For example, if expands this environment to the family level, our brothers and sisters, uncles and uncles have their own families. At this time, there are many family affairs that we own, and we will not say to our uncles and uncles. As the saying goes, "Every family has a difficult sutra to recite."
However, if puts the family environment and the social living environment together, we will realize another kind of honesty between the two.
is like facing our life planning and choices, career, marriage, etc. In many cases, we will receive the care and attention of the elders in our family, and we will rarely or even not be able to receive the attention of some of the friends and colleagues we make in social life.
At the same time, we will only tell the elders in our family that the real feelings they bring to us can make us feel that they are closer to us than the people we know in social life and are more trustworthy.
Another level, if put aside the intimate environment of the family and face the various relationships in the general environment of society, we also have different degrees of frankness.
Just like when facing colleagues, classmates, and friends who are close to us, we will tell them what we really think of a colleague or leader, but when facing those who are in average with us, we will not express so much to them. Most of the time, we are just chatting.
is typical of this. Where did some people go after leaving a company, what kind of career are they doing, and these personal matters are only when we tell the truth to colleagues or friends with them in previous companies, and we will keep in touch with them from time to time.
So, in general, is not that people cannot be more honest, but in this complex environment, we will face various relationships, meet all kinds of people, and are full of uncertainty. At this time, in order to enhance our sense of security, we will subconsciously hide something and show different degrees of honesty.
changyanchang language:
people, why can't we be more honest? As the saying goes, "The intention to harm others, and the intention to beware of others must be avoided", as the saying goes, "Don't make family sluts come out", as the saying goes, "When you see people, talk nonsense, talk nonsense when you see ghosts, talk nonsense when you see ghosts." ...
From this we can see that from the various experiences summarized by our predecessors and some real behavioral manifestations in social life, we can see that we are not "not being honest", but "In the face of different people and things, we must be reserved, and we must be honest to varying degrees"
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I am Chang Talking about Life, a person in the Family Education Bureau, focusing on family emotions and various aspects of life, we use our experience to convey positive energy together!
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Original author: Chang Tan Life
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