Original illustration: Miaomiaoxia, tells: Yingying, female 01 The best love a father gives to his child is the mother who loves him. My dad really loves my mom. Even though he was dumped by my mom and had been divorced for many years, he still didn't allow others to say that my

Original illustration: Miaomiaoxia, narrated by: Yingying, female

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The best love a father gives to his child is his mother.

My dad really loves my mom deeply. Even though he was dumped by my mom and had been divorced for many years, he still didn't allow others to say that my mom was not a word.

To be honest, I feel sad for him.

is already the 21st century, and pure and great injustice like him are too rare.

mainly, I feel that it is not worth it for him.

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My dad's name is Kang Kai, and everyone calls him Brother Kai.

Back then, Brother Kai, who graduated from college, went to Japan to find gold under the "sweeping" of my mother.

Five years later, he returned to China alone with me who was only one and a half years old at the time.

He misses home and feels that his children must grow up in China.

But my mom wants to stay in Japan.

The two broke up peacefully.

In addition to me, the Japanese craftsmanship he learned in five years were brought back to China.

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In order to facilitate my care, Kai Ge bought a storefront for Japanese food with a loan.

That was Zhengzhou in 2005, and there were not many people eating Japanese food.

What's more, because Brother Kai uses harsh materials, the price is not affordable and he loses when opening.

In order to make a living, Kaige's store only opens at noon and receives a few hardcore fans.

From afternoon to evening, he went to another store to work.

His barbecue skills have won a good reputation for the shops who work.

Later, the store invited him to invest in technology, so Brother Kai had two stores in Zhengzhou.

One is used to support oneself, and the other is used to make a living.

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Everyone thinks it is not easy for Brother Kai to take care of his children, including his grandparents, and they also want to help.

However, as soon as my grandparents saw us father and daughter, they would have two things to persuade him to remarry and persuade him to leave me to them.

Brother Kai said righteously: "I don't feel at ease with anyone who gives Yingying to you. I must take care of my daughter myself."

Right, I have never met my grandparents before, according to my dad, they died before I was born.

Regarding remarriage, Brother Kai is even more rare in love: "With Yingying and I, I will be back sooner or later. In this life, I will only wait for her."

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So Brother Kai takes me to depend on each other for life.

Brother Kai is not ordinary people.

He showed off his energy to learn Japanese materials and practice knife skills in Japan, and combed different braids for me every day, making me envious by teachers and children.

When I was very young, no matter what I wanted, Brother Kai would borrow money and would buy it for me.

He often went to Beijing and Shanghai for inspection and study, and he would take me with him every time.

He took me with me, the two things he most passionate about are looking for all kinds of delicious food, which is called "let me have a lovely stomach and can adapt anywhere in the future."

Another one is to take me shopping and buy me clothes and toys.

Brother Kai said: "My daughter must love beauty and must have seen the world."

But after the age of 7, I refused Brother Kai to buy clothes and toys for me frequently.

The reason is that there are too many clothes and toys, and it is too troublesome to organize them.

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The fact is, Brother Kai is abusive to me, but I also consciously feel sorry for him.

Every time I hold his hand, I will be so thrust by the scars of all sizes on his hand that I want to cry.

That was left when I was an apprentice in Japan.

Ke Ge can cut the radish , which is thick in the bowl, as thin as a cicada's wing, and keep on cutting it.

He said that learning Japanese materials must start with knife skills. The master did not want to accept him, but seeing that he was so diligent and persistent, he finally happily taught him.

Ke Ge Allergic to alcohol , but in the store, there are always customers who drink until late at night and warmly invite the boss to accompany him.Ke Kai is not easy to refuse, so he generously sacrifices his life to accompany the gentleman.

Then, run to the bathroom and vomit enough, and then dip the peeled egg into vinegar to relieve the wine. This recipe works very well for him.

At the beginning, I didn't want him to drink, but he said, "The customer is God, how can you say no to God?"

So, every time I saw a customer asking him to drink, I quickly went to the kitchen to prepare fried eggs and vinegar for him.

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Children will look for their mothers, and I am no exception.

Brother Kai told me the truth: "My parents often quarrel when they are together, and occasionally they will fall things. Anyway, they are two people who are not scary, and they will become scary when they meet each other. So, I'm sorry, Dad really can't give you a home that has both mothers and dads."

But he assured me that my mother loves me very much.

She would send me all kinds of things from Japan from time to time.

I asked his mother why she didn’t come back to see me?

He said that his mother is applying for permanent residence in Japan, and it is not very convenient to return to China.

Later, I said that my mother went to the United States to study and participated in the international volunteer action to aid Africa , etc.

Every time I mention my mother, my father will give a lot of praise.

said she was smart and beautiful, and she had ideals, and said that she was just too small to be worthy of her mother.

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Therefore, my impression of my mother is both vague and profound.

What is vague is that my mother's warmth has never touched me personally. What is profound is that she is so outstanding. Even her father, who has become an ex-husband, praises her every time she talks about it.

No matter whether I have achieved good grades in my studies or helped others a little, my dad will attribute my strengths to my distant mother: "My daughter is really like a mom, excellent and kind."

I once asked my dad, do you have a photo of my mom?

He said with special regret that when he divorced, he was angry and burned all.

Occasionally, when we meet some people on the street, Brother Kai would point it to me: "That person is very similar to your mother." "Your mother is just like that, walking with the wind and doing things in a hurry."

Of course, Brother Kai said my mother so magnificently, and the lover's eyes showed Xi Shi, but others didn't say that.

, especially grandparents, often sigh: "What kind of woman is it? If you throw the child to a man, don't care, don't even look at it?"

In addition to being good to me, Brother Kai actually has a strong temper to others.

People who say bad things about their mothers, whether they are grandparents or outsiders, will turn their backs on them: "You have never seen her and don't know her, can you stop talking nonsense?"

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is divorced, but he talks about "my wife".

Someone introduced him to a partner, and he refused: "It's far worse than my wife."

He, a young man, Dong Na, has been in love with him since she was a child. After knowing that he had divorced, she pursued him enthusiastically without any concealment.

Moreover, Dong Na treats me very well too.

My adolescence physiological and hygiene classes were all entrusted by Brother Kai to me.

However, Brother Kai's rejection of Dong Na is always so cruel and ruthless: "We didn't feel that when we were a child, I treated you as my sister, so, don't make any decisions on me as soon as possible, and delay yourself."

However, Dong Na really likes Brother Kai very much. No matter how he refuses, she still cares about us from time to time.

Even I couldn't help but plead for Dong Na: "Dad, why don't you marry Aunt Na, right? "

Brother Kai ruthlessly refused: "I have told you ten thousand times. In this world, I am not interested in anyone except your mother. "

Although I felt wronged for Dong Na, which child is not more spiritually inclined to his mother?

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Once, Brother Kai, who was once in a desperate situation, is as warm as spring for customers, but to the opposite sex, he is as ruthless as the autumn wind sweeping away the fallen leaves.

Once, grandparents pretended to be sick and tried to force them. Force Brother Kai to go on a blind date.

Kei couldn't bear it, so he begged me to cooperate with him.

At the blind date, I was responsible for picking food, throwing my temper, and scaring the other party off.

I once asked Brother Kai to tell me the truth, is he afraid of remarrying, and stepmother is not good to me?

He said, "Well, there is this factor, but the most important thing is that I can't hold others in my heart. ”

I remember that I said to him at that time: “Sometimes, I am quite envious of my mother. In this life, there is someone like you who loves her wholeheartedly. ”

My dad took the opportunity to play: “So, you are not a single parent’s child. "

I nodded in confusion.

Indeed, with him, I don't lack anything.

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When I was in the first year of junior high school, Kaige's Japanese food store gradually improved.

Seeing that he worked so hard, I proposed to learn how to make Japanese food from him.

At the beginning, he did not agree and said that the apprentice was too hard: "My daughter, there is no need to endure this hardship. "

He didn't teach me, so I went to the kitchen to learn skills every day after school.

I had no choice but to draw a lot of ingredients, and I often cut myself.

Brother Kai met me and felt sorry for the ingredients and felt sorry for me.

So, I promised to accept me as my disciple.

And Brother Kai was completely different from Brother Kai who was a father.

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He is a kind father, but a strict teacher.

The knife method is wrong, and he scolds; he is not focused enough when doing things, and scolds; he is not evenly cuts potato shreds, and scolds him.

I couldn't help it, and was scolded by him. He scolded him even more fiercely, and even Japanese came out.

When he walked out of the operation room, he became a dog-licking father in seconds, asking me if I'm hungry, whether I'm tired?

I was confused: "Brother Kai, how did you be so two-faced? "

He himself also found it incredible. Later, he figured it out: "In Japan, he was scolded by his master, and even beaten, and some things seemed to be carved into his bones. "

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Kai rarely mentions life in Japan. Sometimes when I ask, he also casually passes over it lightly.

I thought at that time, it must be too hard, so he doesn't want to recall it.

And the strict teacher really makes a good apprentice. After three months of apprenticeship, I slowly got started and made Japanese materials.

One Sunday, after the restaurant closed, I cleaned the kitchen. As usual, the countertops were cleaned and tidy. I knelt on the ground and rubbed the ground little by little with a rag.

Brother Kai has a mild cleanliness obsession, and I also have it.

While wiping sweat, I accidentally saw Brother Kai standing at the door looking at me, his eyes slightly red.

He said, "Follow me, I will still make you suffer. "

I continued to wipe without raising my head: "This is not called bitterness, this is called gaining skills. Although you always praise me as my mother, I still imagine that you are more diligent and self-disciplined, and you are handsome, but you live a handsome life. ”

Brother Kai listened to it and looked satisfied.

In fact, poor children do not become family early.

I gradually feel that children who are loved will become their homes sooner.

Brother Kai loved me wholeheartedly. He refused to remarry. Rather than saying that he could not let go of his ex-wife, he was actually afraid that I would be wronged.

He loves me, and I gradually began to understand how to feel sorry for him.

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2022 college entrance examination, I was admitted to Zhengzhou University .

The day I got the admission notice , I asked Brother Kai to close the store for a day.

Then, my chef made him a table of Japanese ingredients.

I use tea instead of wine, and I want to talk to Brother Kai with heart-to-heart talk.

Pick up the tea cup and your eyes get wet.

Over the years, he has been both a father and a mother, and has flashed through his mind like a movie, happy and sad.

I held back my tears and respected him: "Dad, thank you for your hard work!"

Brother Kai dried up the tea in the cup, took a deep breath, and said to me: "If it weren't for you, I wouldn't know how to live for the years. Dad would like to thank you."

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Tea is not intoxicating and everyone is drunk.

That night, my father and daughter ate and drank, and carefully commented on the gains and losses of each dish.

The atmosphere is so good, I said the most heartfelt words to Brother Kai: "Dad, I'm going to college soon, you really should consider your lifelong affairs."

When I heard this, Brother Kai refused all his expression, but I insisted on finishing my words.

"I am 19 years old. In addition to continuing to be protected by you, I also want to protect you. In addition to being loved by you, I also hope someone loves you as much as I do. Brother Kai, marry me a stepmother, love her as much as I love you. Even if she doesn't love me, I will still love the house and the Uzumadi to treat her well. No matter what, Brother Kai, live for yourself."

I also told a secret to Brother Kai.

In fact, I was raised by him very well and had a good reputation. Even since junior high school, I have received love letters from boys.

And I have always been a decisive rejection, like an emotional insulator.

Because over the years, I have seen Brother Kai refuse to get married for me. So, for me, falling in love with anyone other than my father is a betrayal of my father and a betrayal of our family affection.

"So, dad, we should not tie each other up. We should encourage each other to embrace a broader world, love ourselves, love others, and enjoy being loved. This is a normal life and feelings, this is a happy life."

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My words made Brother Kai cry.

Then, he told me a shocking secret.

It turned out that he and his mother were not divorced. Her mother died in his "stop saving her when she died."

Brother Kai said that my mother is really a strong and hard-working person.

graduating from college that year, although she and her father both found jobs, their salaries were very low. Grandma and grandpa were in poor health, and the medical expenses were huge expenses every month, so my mother decided to go to Japan to find gold.

, they worked day and night, and often only slept for three or five hours a day.

However, the money earned from hard work failed to save grandma and grandpa's life, and they died one after another.

Later, I was there.

In order to give me a good living and educational environment, my parents worked harder than before.

One night, my mother came out of the home of a tutor. When she drove home, she was tired and drove her car on the opposite side, and just ran into a fast pickup truck on the opposite side.

When she was sent to the hospital, she was declared brain-death by the doctor after three hours of rescue.

The doctor said that even if you do various rehabilitation training, you will still be a vegetable when you wake up.

Moreover, you need to go to a special rehabilitation hospital for treatment, and the cost is almost sky-high.

At that time, I was just one year old and hungry.

Because my mother is responsible for the full responsibility, all their savings have been spent just on the rescue expenses.

. Dad can’t afford to work 48 hours a day.

After struggling for three days, my father spent all the last little money he borrowed, and finally chose to give up.

From then on, the scene where the doctor removed all kinds of life-sustaining instruments on his mother's body became his lingering nightmare.

He kept asking himself: If he didn't give up, would a miracle happen? Can my daughter still have maternal love?

So, for 19 years, he has loved me as his life is true, and it is true that he atones for his mother.

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never knew that life seemed to be calm and peaceful, but in fact, it once was a tsunami.

I can't imagine how powerless it would be when my parents who have no relatives were rubbed by fate in a distant foreign land.

And all I can do is give Brother Kai a long and silent hug.

Let him flow like a burst of tears that he had accumulated for 19 years.

After a long time, I asked him, "Where is my mother buried? Can you take me to see her?"

Sleepless all night, and the next day, at the age of 19, I finally met my mother.

is just a tombstone and a small photo on it.

She is really delicate, with a hint of stubbornness in the corner of her mouth.

That day, my father told me a lot about my mother, especially after she accidentally got pregnant with me, she didn't want to stay, but they couldn't bear to let it go and agreed that no matter how hard or tired she was, she would give birth to the child and raise her healthily.

My mother was still working until the first five hours after giving birth to me.

After giving birth to me, she did not go to confinement and went back to work directly. Her parents were gone. She had only one thought: to let me grow up in a relatively ambitious environment as much as possible.

Now I have grown up, I am still sunny and healthy, but she has never seen it.

Touching her in the photo, she called her "Mom" for the first time in her life, and suddenly she could understand her father's feelings.

Although he had to make an understandable and rational choice back then, the deeper he loved, the more he was sorry.

Just like at this moment, I saw my mother for the first time in my life (I was 1 year old at the time, and I had no impression of my mother at all). The sadness in my heart was overwhelming, but what was more violent than sadness was self-blame.

If it weren't for me, she wouldn't have had to work so hard and wouldn't have had a car accident.

If it weren't for supporting me, my dad might have chosen to continue to treat my mom.

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After that day, I didn't mention asking Brother Kai to find his other half.

just seems to be heartless in the store every day, and eat well with him every meal without any confusion. When it is closed at night, we don’t take the bus and walk slowly back home.

I said to him, "Brother Kai, if I have a baby in the future, you have to help me take care of it and give it to others, I'm not at ease. The baby you take care of is not wrong."

Brother Kai was very happy: "I'm so kind to you, I must be very abusive, so don't blame me then."

I smiled: "Well, but the premise is that I have to marry to have a baby."

Brother Kai was annoyed: "My daughter is so good, why can't I marry?"

I tricked him: "Because in this life, if you don't marry, I won't marry.”

Brother Kai thought for a while and said to me: "Daughter, this matter cannot be forced, but if I encounter a suitable one, I will fight for it. ”

I smiled: “I won’t force you. But, Brother Kai, how hard you have worked over the years, even I, as a daughter, can only experience that little bit. So, you must promise me, let yourself go, and learn to love yourself well. If you say I am like my mother, then I will answer you on behalf of her: That's not your fault. If it were her at that time, she would have made the same choice. ”

This time, Brother Kai did not refute anymore, he promised me: “Everything goes with the flow. "

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Life comes and goes, and the future is not long.

Dear mother, have you heard the conversation between our father and daughter?

Then, mom, there is a spirit in heaven, will you forgive us and bless us?