Dating girls is the key to upgrading a relationship. We usually use some moves to warm up the relationship, such as holding hands and hugging them, but these moves may not be so smooth. What does it mean for girls not to hold hands during dates? What should we do?

　　Dating with girls is the key to upgrading the relationship. We usually use some moves to warm up the relationship, such as holding hands and hugging them, but these moves may not be so smooth. What does it mean for girls not to hold hands during dates?

　　1. What does girls not let them hold hands?

　　1. What does girls not let them hold hands?

　　1. Girls feel that it is not time to hold hands

　　You are not able to hold hands successfully with girls; simply put, the girl has only met you three times, how much can she like you? It is not that if you meet with girls three times, you cannot establish enough attraction to girls; it is not that boys cannot successfully hold hands with girls who have only seen three times. But if you look in the mirror, are you like this?

　　2. Girls are more cautious about holding hands

　　Some girls will think that they have only met with boys three times. If they hold hands with boys, it is not good. So a girl with such thoughts will naturally refuse the boys' holding hands (if the girl agrees, then the boy will try to hug, kiss, or even sleep at her later. What should the girl do then?)

　　Also, some girls and boys don't know each other well, so they sleep with others, but the man lifts his pants and refuses to recognize others. There are too many such cases, and girls must have heard of them. Then think about it from the perspective of others. When a girl is on a blind date, isn’t that right?

　And when you meet a more cautious girl, isn’t this a good thing? If a girl on a blind date can quickly follow you, or even sleep with you quickly, would she also quickly go with other blind date partners before...

　　3. The timing or method of holding hands is not right

　　Try to hold the girl’s hand. If you are not attracted enough to the girl, the occasion and atmosphere during the date are not suitable, the way you try to hold the girl’s hand will make the girl feel bad.

　　2. What should girls do if they don’t let them hold hands

　　First of all, you must correct your mindset. Don’t be afraid of being rejected because of the failure of holding hands once or twice, and you dare not try to hold hands with the girls again. Moreover, you must understand that a girl is willing to agree to the appointment, because she must be attractive to you and she is still interested in you. As for her rejection of you at the moment, maybe she doesn't trust you enough, or she is not ready yet. So at this time, you don’t have to worry about how to exercise physical skills with the girl, but consider how I gain the trust of the girl and win a sense of security.

　　Why? Everyone should think from the perspective of others, if you are a girl, then the other person is a man. The other party is particularly outstanding and really attracts you, but you can't see anything you can trust in him. Do you really dare to have sex with her? I don’t think so.

　　If you get along with a girl, the first thing is to win the trust of the girl. This is the first, and the second thing to attract girls is a sequence. The rest is natural. When you attract a girl and she trusts you enough. Then if you do some appropriate physical movements, the girl is actually very nervous and stimulating and likes it. This is a psychological reaction in a girl's heart, so your progress will be natural.

　So how can we make girls trust you? Girls generally do not trust someone easily, mainly because of their lack of security. How to give girls a sense of security? What you need to consider is what exactly does this girl like. If you want to prescribe the right medicine, what is the psychological thing she needs in her heart? You have to explore, you have to explore, you have to go to communicate with her in the process of communicating with her. Gather some details and then. You have to summarize, and after the summary, you can know which part of yourself to improve in a targeted manner. It can attract her better.

No matter what, the girl is willing to date you means she is interested in you, and the reason why she refuses to hold your hands can only mean that the way you hold hands is wrong, or that your current relationship makes her feel that the time is not yet ripe. Of course, it also indirectly shows that girls are more self-loved people. It is actually very good to meet such a girl.