Let me ask you a question first: Is there a woman around you who is sick and hospitalized, and the husband doesn’t care. After his mother is paralyzed, he blindly asks his wife to resign and be filial to him?
Poet Xi Murong wrote in "Traces of Growth": "Marriage is not only two people face to face from now on. Marriage should be two people holding hands and facing the world together."
When we fall in love, it is the two people's heartfelt dedication and dedication. However, once the two get married, it means that they have to face the same world together.
Going towards marriage, it can also be said that two people in love form a small family. When they are tired and sleepy, this small family can also be said to be the belonging of their souls.
However, there are always a few people who are in love, but once they enter marriage, everything changes, and their selfish nature will soon be revealed.
At this time, some people may say: Marriage is the grave of love. What this said is not unreasonable.
Some people can’t see their nature when they are in love. What they show in front of their partner is their best side. Once they get married, all their shortcomings will be shown to their partner.
Some people are so selfish that they never consider their partner's feelings. In their hearts, they and their original family are always ranked first. Speaking of this, Tan Yonglan has a deep feeling.
Tan Yonglan's birth is not very good. Both of her parents are in a factory and are ordinary employees, but she has been in office for many years.
Tan Yonglan's parents have a good attitude. When Tan Yonglan was in high school, their parents bought a two-bedroom house in the local county town. Then in Tan Yonglan's junior year, his parents took out their savings and bought another three-bedroom house not far from him. After getting the house key, my mother said:
"Xiaolan, if you have the ability in the future, you can buy it outside by yourself. If you want to develop our local county town, you don't have to worry about the house anymore."
Tan Yonglan and Tao Siyuan met in their junior year. When Tan Yonglan was in his junior year, he joined the Student Union, and Tao Siyuan happened to be in the Student Union. When the two introduced themselves to each other, they realized that they were originally from the same hometown.
After that, Tao Siyuan pursued Tan Yonglan. Tao Siyuan is good at telling jokes and always comes to tell stories to Tan Yonglan when Tan Yonglan is idle. In this way, Tan Yonglan's heart was successfully captured.
The time of love in college is beautiful. What Tao Siyuan showed in front of Tan Yonglan has always been his sunniest side, so that Tan Yonglan had a step to give up on him.
As soon as the two graduated, Tan Yonglan took Tao Siyuan back home. Tan Yonglan's parents were not interested in Tao Siyuan during their conversation with Tao Siyuan. After Tao Siyuan left, the mother said to her daughter directly:
"Xiaolan, this Tao Siyuan has no appearance, no family background, and the conditions in our family are not that kind of rich and powerful family, but Tao Siyuan, his original family is really bad. It is really unworthy to stand with you."
"Mom, don't provoke the mace, okay? Anyway, I told you and dad that I will not marry Siyuan. No matter how you go against it, it is useless."
Daughter insists on marrying, and parents have no choice. In this way, the parents of Tan Yonglan and Tao Siyuan finally did not object to the marriage.
Maybe love will make women stupid, and Tan Yonglan is one of them. Without asking for a bride price or a wedding house, she agreed to marry Tao Siyuan.
Tan Yonglan's parents understand that if Tao Siyuan is asked to buy a house in the county town now, it can be said that it is impossible. So the parents are just right. Since their daughter decided not to marry Tao Siyuan, then their parents must make their daughter live a little better in the future.
After the parents renovated the house they bought later, they directly used it as a wedding house for their daughter and son-in-law.
Tao Siyuan is like this, from a poor boy in the countryside to a person with a house in the city. To be honest, Tao Siyuan was very happy in his heart.
However, Tao Siyuan is happy, but there is a hurdle in his heart, that is, although he now lives in his parents-in-law's house, the house is not his own.
Tao Siyuan thought about it and finally came up with a solution, which was to let Tan Yonglan's parents transfer the house to the couple.
Do it when I think about it. After Tao Siyuan returned to the room, he said to Tan Yonglan directly:
"Yonglan, look, we have been married for so long, right? But the house we live in is always in the name of your parents. When I returned to my hometown, I was very embarrassed. You have to tell your parents that they would transfer the house to our two names."
"My parents bought the house for money and let them live. Households, they feel very uncomfortable, so they still don’t need to. As long as we have a place to live, my parents won’t drive us away.”
Tan Yonglan’s words made Tao Siyuan’s heart cold, and Tao Siyuan’s face changed in an instant…
After that, Tao Siyuan thought of a way to tell Tan Yonglan, asking Tan Yonglan to tell her parents that she would transfer the house to them.
At the beginning, Tan Yonglan still patiently explained to Tao Siyuan, but when Tao Siyuan said it too many times, Tan Yonglan felt a little annoyed, so after Tao Siyuan talked about the transfer of the house, Tao Yonglan refused without thinking.
Tan Yonglan rejected Tao Siyuan's house transfer again and again, which made Tao Siyuan feel very angry from the beginning when he was cold. Therefore, the relationship between the couple began to become more contradictory.
, and just then, Tan Yonglan became pregnant. After the doctor's examination, it was said that Tan Yonglan had the kind of cold constitution , and it was good to be pregnant. Although Tan Yonglan and Tao Siyuan have become more contradictory now, Tan Yonglan cherishes this hard-won child very much.
Because Tan Yonglan is more relaxed in work and her pregnancy reaction is not very big, Tan Yonglan still works during her pregnancy. It was not until she was eight months pregnant that Tan Yonglan took maternity leave.
During Tan Yonglan, Tao Siyuan was still thinking of a solution, asking Tan Yonglan to tell his parents about the transfer of the house. However, every time Tao Siyuan mentioned this, Tan Yonglan was very angry...
This is how the originally loving couple became conflicted because of the inconsistent issue of the transfer of the house... Therefore, during the days when Tan Yonglan was about to have a child, Tao Siyuan completely changed his face.
Tan Yonglan was admitted to the hospital, but Tao Siyuan did not intend to assume the responsibility of being a husband. After Tan Yonglan was admitted to the hospital, Tao Siyuan returned to his hometown...
Tan Yonglan was served by his mother, and Tao Siyuan spent the entire confinement period with his parents in the countryside during Tan Yonglan's confinement period.
The husband's ruthlessness made Tan Yonglan really want to divorce, but she was really worried about her parents. If her parents knew they were going to divorce, they would definitely not be able to bear it. Therefore, Tan Yonglan never said anything about the divorce.
still has to live the same life. Tan Yonglan and Tao Siyuan, from their initial passion to their current life together, Tan Yonglan no longer has any hope for Tao Siyuan now.
If things go on like this, it would be pretty good. At least, the child can have a complete home. However, just when the child was three years old, the mother-in-law suddenly had a stroke.
After the stroke, my mother-in-law was basically paralyzed. She lies in the hospital bed every day and can no longer take care of her life.
Tao Siyuan was completely panicked when he saw his mother who was lying in bed and could no longer take care of herself. To be honest, he can't take care of an old man who is paralyzed on the bed.After thinking about it, he found Tan Yonglan and said:
"Yonglan, you go to the factory tomorrow and quit your job. Only after resigning can you come to the hospital. You are the daughter-in-law, and the daughter-in-law has the obligation to take care of her mother-in-law. Don't worry, I will be fully responsible for the expenses at home."
"Hehe, you are really good at calculating. Over the years, you have been calculating my parents' house. Even when I was in confinement, you didn't forget to calculating. When I was in confinement, you ran to your parents' home in the country and threw me to my parents. Now your mother is paralyzed, and you think about asking me to quit and go to the hospital to take care of your mother? You think so beautifully. I tell you, there is no door."
"You can calculate the accounts yourself, how much money do you get per month? I compare per month Your monthly salary is higher. A family must be the one with more salary to work, and the one with less salary to resign and take care of the family. This is the best arrangement. You have less salary than me. Of course, it is the right one for you to resign and take care of my mother. "
" My salary is lower than you, and that is also earned by my labor. I will spend my own money, so be at ease. Regarding your mother, you can find a way for yourself. Don't put your ideas on me, I won't do it. Let's get divorced. After divorce, you can do whatever you want. I won't be a free nanny for you, because you are not worthy at all."
After Tan Yonglan said that, he directly called the lawyer and sued for divorce...
Before marriage, he met someone bad, and after marriage, he really cried.
Remember Zhang Xiaoxian said: "Love, if you don't let the other party see your most beautiful side, it is the ugliest side; while marriage, it allows the other party to see your most real side."
Marriage is really not love. Marriage truly shows the powerless side of all kinds of trivial matters after the two live together.
If you want your marriage to keep it sweet at the beginning, you have to really understand the other person at the beginning.
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