Seeing this question, I thought of a sentence called "Far from the fragrance is smelly near the smell". What is this saying about? It mainly means that when people maintain proper distance, they will feel intimate, and there will be fewer disputes and quarrels between them. On the contrary, if two people live together for a long time, as they become familiar with each other and understand each other, misunderstandings and even conflicts will arise.
It is normal for the daughter-in-law to have conflicts with her mother-in-law
If you can understand this, you can understand why in the eyes of many people, all the mistakes are the mother-in-law, and the mother-in-law who is out of the matter feels very good.
A girl will marry her and she will become a family with her husband, parents-in-law and their children. Generally, a family needs to live under the same roof or eat in the same pot. They get along day and night, and they get closer and closer together. Over time, everyone becomes more familiar with each other, so the contradictions and problems will gradually become prominent.
Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law conflicts may often be because of the son
Another point, a young woman who grew up to her 20s suddenly came to a strange family. Apart from her husband, the daughter-in-law and the people in the mother-in-law's house have almost no intersection or connection. Everyone lacks understanding and emotional resonance in the past for a long time, so it is difficult to make a daughter-in-law have any special favors for a mother-in-law who has no blood relationship and is full of strangeness. So it is very difficult for them to live together for a long time, which is also one of the reasons why many daughters-in-law think that their mother-in-law is not very good.
Mother-in-law, son-in-law and daughter do not live in the same house. If nothing happens, they may not meet for a month or two, half a year or even a year. Even if we meet, we may leave after staying for a day or two, so we are all guests. Of course, the mother-in-law will be kind to her daughter on the one hand, and on the other hand, we are kind to her son-in-law. This is naturally very nice to everyone.
Mother-in-law can always be particularly good to son-in-law and granddaughter. Of course, her daughter will not choose her not
There is another problem. Her daughter-in-law and mother-in-law are in a relationship between mother-in-law, and now the status of women is constantly improving, and mother-in-law seems to be more and more noble. Of course, mother-in-law usually loves her daughter, and what she does is very good, so naturally few people say that mother-in-law is not. (End)
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