Yesterday, chatted with a few friends, and a friend joked: "A person's love will never disappear out of thin air, it will only be transferred from one person to his other half."
We laughed.
chapters are rough and not rough. Love in life is indeed the case.
I still remember that a female fan once consulted me and she said that her husband suddenly treated her badly and asked me what was going on.
I answered her and said, "He is not good to you, so he may be nice to others."
She told me, "I also suspect that there is someone outside him, and he always plays with my phone on his back. As soon as I left, he hurriedly put away his phone."
In fact, she felt abnormal from the level of her husband's nervousness and understood that something was wrong.
all say that a woman’s sixth feeling is very accurate and is not false at all.
Many people in marriage have difficulty in self-discipline. When they enter the dull period of marriage, they will have ulterior motives.
Especially, if you encounter a little temptation, you will be completely unable to control yourself.
has long forgotten the oath of loyalty at the wedding; I even more forget how the other party gave and gave him.
Most people's marriages are less self-restraint and more casual.
Marriage will be ruined, and a good couple will eventually have a different dream.
After all, paper cannot cover the fire. There is no airtight wall in the world. If you want others to know, don’t do it unless you do it.
If a person does something betrayal, he will reveal clues and cannot be hidden at all. If a man has these behaviors, it is probably because his love has been transferred and he will no longer be nice to you, but will start to be nice to others.
no longer have patience, lose your temper at any time
When I love you, I am patient with you and always respond to you with a smile.
likes to talk and laugh with you, and is willing to play with you. No matter what kind of jokes you make with him, he will not be angry.
Even when facing your shortcomings, you will not say too much, but will completely accept and accept.
You often sigh that he is a patient person, he is a gentle and gentle man.
But when he falls in love with others and no longer loves you, everything will change.
is no longer willing to chat with you, is too lazy to talk to you, and is even unwilling to listen to you.
no longer has patience, some are irritable, some are tempered.
If you say one more thing, he will think you are very long-winded and will shut up fiercely.
Moreover, I become very picky about you and always dislike you.
In the past, he often heard him praise you; now, not only does he have no praise, but he also has more disgust.
s are some of them, they are obviously picking on the bones in the eggs, and your every move is at first wrong, and even your breathing seems to be wrong.
If you fall in love with others, you will naturally look down on you. There is disgust and disgust in your eyes and hearts.
no longer cares about you, and rarely asks about your affairs
The person who loves you, your affairs are as if they are his affairs.
His concern is always attentive to everything.
Every time you come back from get off work, you will actively ask you: "Are you tired today? Did the boss make things difficult for you?"
Every time you see you are in a bad mood, you will take the initiative to ask you: "Is there anything unhappy?"
But now, you don't care about you and don't care about you.
You stand in front of him like a stranger, even worse than a stranger. He is too lazy to look at you even when he looks up at you, let alone have any words of concern.
Since falling in love with someone else, his mouth has locked you, and most of the time, he is in a state of silence.
His work, life, and mood are not interested in it, let alone care about it.
You can clearly feel that his heart is absent-minded and his heart is not with you at all.
people are there, but their hearts are not there, but his love has been transferred, and his heart is pretending to be someone else.
No longer have time, always calling yourself very busy
People who love you, you are ranked first, and you have time for you whenever you are.
will tell you stories, accompany you to shop, and even cook for you to cook.
As long as you need it, it will be available on call and will never be absent from your needs.
And when he falls in love with others, work is more important than you, sociality is more important than you, and friends are more important than you, you will always be the last one, and you will not even be ranked at all.
You will find that you are an optional existence and he doesn't take you seriously at all.
A writer said: "If a person is not free, it is not really not free, but he doesn't want to have free time for you."
deeply agrees.
A person who is not free for you is not really free, but that he does not have you in his heart and does not want to spend any time on you.
When you are about to speak and say something to him, he will directly retort: "No time", and you won't give you a chance to speak at all.
No matter what you want him to do or say to him, he will shout for busyness and reject everything you want to do.
There is no doubt that the lack of love is not love.
Some men, once caught and betrayed, shouted unjustly: "I'm just playing with her, don't take it seriously."
He betrayed you, hurt his family, and did not realize his mistakes, and even thought you were unreasonable.
To put it bluntly, such a man is selfish enough, wants to get married, and wants to play with excitement, always thinking about "the red flag at home does not fall, and the colorful flags are floating outside."
All the old together, in fact, there is no secret at all, loyalty is the only way.
Since you have entered marriage, you should be responsible to each other, keep the bottom line of morality, not touch the red line of marriage, and fulfill your marriage vow.
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Author: Chu Lanqi, a writer who keeps writing.
May you find warmth and belonging in my text, thank you for your attention.
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