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Habits can really change a person's life to a large extent.
Some people say: Habits form personality, and personality determines destiny.
is not wrong at all. A person’s habits are not developed in one day, but are accumulated bit by bit during the process of growth. It is difficult to make changes.
Habits represent a person's living environment, growth status and mental state, which often greatly affects the whole person's attitude towards life.
This attitude is particularly obvious in love and also determines the final outcome of love.
Why do many women have no good luck in love at all, otherwise they will not meet a suitable man, or they will encounter "bad peach blossoms"?
This thing is like a woman who is very prominent in all aspects of the eyes of others, but not many men chase her.
. Everyone thinks that it should not be the woman that many men like, but is particularly popular.
It turns out that a person’s love luck is not positively related to his appearance, but also related to personal habits.
If a woman has these habits, it is really hard to have good luck in love.
Don’t like to deal with yourself, you are always sloppy
As the saying goes, people rely on clothes and horses rely on saddles. If you don’t clean yourself up at all, others will definitely not take the initiative to discover your beauty.
But what I mean here does not mean that I don’t like to dress up, but that I don’t like to be clean and have a very poor personal hygiene habit.
My friend told me a story that was from her former college classmate.
She said that the girl often stayed in bed, ate and drank in bed, and covered her bed with curtains all year round.
The girl is very unfilial and doesn't take a bath once for a long time. The smell is particularly volatile. The roommates asked her to take a bath. She will also reject all reasonable suggestions because this is a personal matter.
So, the classmates in the same dormitory with her were very suffocated, but it was not easy to force her, so she could only continue to "stay in peace".
One day, a classmate came to bed. She thought that the bed was her friend's bed, so she accidentally opened the curtains and a scene that made her unable to let go appeared.
She saw used toilet paper thrown everywhere on the bed, and all kinds of garbage on the bed were piled up together, and a stinking stinking came.
Think about it, which man would like a woman who doesn’t even have good personal hygiene and has a smell on her body?
When you meet such a woman, you must be discussing it secretly behind the scenes. Who would like it? It is not a primitive society now. As a woman, the most basic hygiene needs to be done well.
Even if a man is attracted by his appearance, he will avoid him because he cannot stand the sloppy woman after understanding it in depth.
Reject all social interactions and block yourself
is not attractive if you look good. If you are too cold and don’t contact and communicate with others, others dare not come to contact you.
We used to have a big beauty in our class. Her appearance is not just the kind that men like, but even we women will think it is very beautiful.
But strangely, no one in the class pursued her, and most of them were just discussing behind the scenes.
Because she is so introverted and does not interact with other classmates, even her roommate said that she had never said a few words to her.
Usually when I see her on the road, she also walks alone with her headphones. We once suspected that she was very withdrawn.
This is the character determines the social circle. If it is too closed, others can't even walk in.
The other people's impression is that this person is very difficult to contact with and is unwilling to take the initiative to deal with.
And of course men will think this way, not to mention that they are particularly concerned about face and are afraid that if they take the initiative to strike up a conversation, they will be disappointed.
So, most men are unwilling to contact women who are too introverted. If the other party doesn’t talk to each other, he will be very embarrassed.
This also leads to women who are not very social seem to have few suitors because their social circle is too small and there are not many potential development targets.
Only by changing your restrained personality and expanding your social circle can you gain more opportunities to contact men.
likes to talk bad things, loves to play with right and wrong
I don’t know if there are such women around you. They speak people’s words when they meet ghosts, and flatter and please people in person, but they will speak bad things behind their backs. Women like
are the most annoying. It can be said that there are problems with moral qualities, so men don’t like them even more.
In fact, men are like women. They are also very disgusted with women with moral problems, not just appearance.
A male friend told me something, and he said that a female colleague was showing kindness to him and showing kindness, but he had no feelings for her at all.
even he thought she was a little annoying because she often talked bad things behind her back and looked as if she deserved it, which made him particularly unacceptable.
He thinks it is understandable for friends to complain to each other, but if a person often says bad things about others, it means that she is not getting along well with others, and the biggest possibility is that she has problems herself.
So, my friend didn't take her tricks and was perfunctory to make things happen, so she didn't make any fun.
However, a few days later, my friend heard the "gossip" about him, and it was just that woman.
Women who like to say bad things behind their backs are not likable. Not only does the same sex not like it, but even the opposite sex cannot accept it.
Not to mention that she will have a closer relationship with her. She will not even have time to run and will not pursue her actively.
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From this we can see that some women have little luck in love, and they all make it themselves.
Personal hygiene habits are bad, they are sloppy and like to arrange others behind their backs. These are all huge flaws.
Men won’t like this kind of woman, and they won’t be rushing to pursue her.
But there is another type of woman who has no luck in love with her. She is all because of her personality, she is unwilling to contact others, and she traps herself in a small circle.
If a woman wants to meet her soul mate, she must work hard to cultivate herself, be an optimistic person, meet others with a sincere heart, sooner or later, she will meet the destined destiny of yours.
But if you know where your shortcomings are and still don’t change, you are destined to be able to linger in the emotional market.
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