Some people say that the reason why female teachers can't get married:
is because female teachers read a lot, have a high vision, and have a high demand for life; some people think that female teachers are because of work and have a narrow circle of life, making it difficult to get in touch with young men outside the circle, and some people think that female teachers are too strong and young men are afraid of choices. I think these factors are the factors that influence most female teachers who cannot get married. But for female teachers who teach Chinese, music, English, and art, in addition to the reasons found, the main reason is that the literary atmosphere is too strong. There are not many young men who like women with too strong literary atmosphere. For example, I am born in the 1960s, and now I still have a literary atmosphere without fireworks. Sometimes my words and deeds are not tied to each other, making the people around me so angry that I stamped my feet. [Crying]
Usually we call young people who like culture and art literary youths. This type of young people have a certain cultural and artistic foundation and have some unrealistic dreams for life. Therefore, when this type of female teachers choose a boyfriend, they have a situation where they are not high or low. When she is picking on her boyfriend, her boyfriend is also picking on her. Female teachers with strong literary and artistic atmosphere all have common problems:
① Like to live a free and easy life. Although they do not have the ambition to change the world, they like to maintain their own small world and do not like to be influenced by others. To put it simply, it is a person who pursues freedom.
② both have a strong individualistic color and is a particularly independent person who can take good care of himself. He does not want to bother others in everything. He has almost few idols or others in his heart.
③ Many times, they treat real life emotionally, especially those born in the 1980s and 1990s. Why not born in the 1960s and 1970s? Because the post-60s and 70s had no choice at that time, if they became emotional, they would not get anything! But it is different for post-80s and post-90s. With the efforts of their parents and themselves, they can enjoy life safely and choose life, and naturally they will become more emotional.
④ Literary and artistic youth usually have beyond their ability to understand real life and have the confidence or conceit of "false transcendence" about certain problems, and often mess up the problems.
⑤ Lack of stable and rational self-reflection and thinking methods, and is too positive about one's own abilities, and is often arrogant and rebellious.
⑥ Literary Youth will spend a lot of time reading books, writing, listening to music, watching movies and TV, or traveling around, and intoxicating and enjoying it.
⑦ has unique charm, rich and broad spiritual world, with wild thoughts and extraordinary talents, and usually lives in the spiritual fantasy constructed by oneself.
⑧Their thoughts involve a wide range of areas, have many insights, think more and deeply.
In short, some people once said that true literary youths are born tragedies. They do not live for real life, but for their ideal life. So, don’t expect them to be able to take the path of ordinary people. It is as expected that she can’t get married. It’s useless for her to be in a hurry.
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