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Xu Songzi became famous very early. Now when she mentioned her name, many people may not remember who she is, but you must remember Li Xiaoxia in the drama " Save Her ", Li Guoxiang in the movie "Furong Town", Jordan Ying in the " Red Swan "...
These are Xu Songzi, and not all Xu Songzi.
In recent years, she has created various mother images on the screen, such as trendy hot moms, caring husbands, nagging mothers, etc., and is known as the "national hot moms".
Xu Songzi has superb acting skills, every move, a micro-expression, and a look are all plays. With her accurate understanding of the role, she has created many classic characters for the audience, and is a powerful actor who the audience likes.
"The World" Stills
In career, Xu Songzi proved herself with works one by one;
In terms of love, she and her ex-husband Gu Rong were recognized as the "best partner" in the circle in the 1980s, and had an unforgettable love.
It’s a pity that the couple separated for fifteen years due to unequal career development after marriage. During this period, they all suffered mental torture, tears and pain, especially Xu Songzi was once depressed for five years.
It was not until 2013 that she agreed to divorce Gu Rong. After the divorce, Xu Songzi endured another difficult life. Now they have been divorced for nine years. What is her life situation?
"Old people have a place to rely on" stills
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Xu Songzi, whose original name is Xu Changsong, was from Changchun, Jilin.
She is real, generous, cheerful and enthusiastic, and persistent in pursuing dreams.
Like most people who like to perform, Xu Songzi has been full of yearning for art since she was a child, and her name was later changed for art.
Xu Songzi had a clear understanding of herself at the beginning. She should not be a big star, but instead steadily position herself as a "good actor".
Xu Songzi was not a very stunning actress when she was young,
But she can give the character life to conquer the audience with this charm by shaping the character.
This comes from her many years of stage performance experience, and later entered Central Academy of Drama to further study, and her continuous pursuit of art.
In 1973, 18-year-old Xu Songzi was admitted to Changchun City Drama Troupe as she wished. Her dream was close to her and she was full of confidence in her future.
Xu Songzi grew up with her grandmother. Her grandmother’s love for her has made her inspire her artistic creation.
She has had a super talent since she was a child. She can sing the songs in the movie once or twice, and can almost never forget the lines and pictures in it. Her performance talent like
was quickly seen in the group. In addition, she is an activist and will actively strive for the roles she likes.
The group is preparing for the drama "Save Her" , and plans to put it on the stage on New Year's Day in 1979. Xu Songzi is very interested in the role of the heroine Li Xiaoxia in the work. She is ready to stand out from the many candidates in the group and take this role.
With the role of "Li Xiaoxia", Xu Songzi became famous in one battle.
It is said that "Save Her" has appeared in 450 consecutive shows, and was invited to perform in Beijing. It is no less popular than "Return of the Pearl" of that year. "Save Her" has become a household drama drama in that era, and Xu Songzi has also become a well-known drama actor.
At that time, Xu Songzi was still called Xu Changsong. After becoming famous, she felt that her name was too masculine, so she changed her name to "Pineko". It starts with
. Xu Songzi is a person who has a pursuit of art. Her dreams are not limited to the stage of drama, she has bigger dreams.
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1982, recommended by the group, Xu Songzi was admitted to the undergraduate class of the Director Department of the Central Academy of Drama with excellent results.
Here, Xu Songzi not only opened up a new acting career, but also gained unforgettable love with Gu Rong.
Gu Rong is a few months younger than Xu Songzi. He was born in Indonesia . His father was the first generation diplomat in the Republic. Before entering Central Drama , Gu Rong was already a reporter. Out of his pursuit of art, he was admitted to the Central Drama.
Gu Rong has a relatively restrained personality. He doesn’t talk much and is not handsome. He is the type of person who is not easy to be noticed in the class.
Xu Songzi's "Let's Get Married" stills
Xu Songzi is different. She had become famous at that time, and she was generous and helpful, and was a sensible figure in the class and even in the school.
It is this Xu Songzi who attracted Gu Rong's attention. He silently paid attention to her every move, admired everything about her, and had the urge to get close to her.
Finally, there was one time, on Xu Songzi's birthday, Gu Rong mustered up the courage to invite her out for dinner.
Xu Songzi is usually a lively person. She agreed to Gu Rong's invitation without thinking too much. After thinking about it carefully, she should have been interested in this talented boy who doesn't talk much.
So after he sent the invitation, he agreed without thinking.
Gu Rong spent some time on this date. He is from the south. In order to take care of Xu Songzi's taste, he also found a dumpling restaurant.
That day, they ate a plate of dumplings together. After eating, they had no classes early and there was no class. They went to Beihai Park to take a walk to to get some food. When they were tired, they stopped to rest.
Unexpectedly, Gu Rong gave another small surprise at this time. He took out a small bag of walnuts, so the two of them started smashing walnuts to eat.
You one, I one, think about that picture, with it, maybe this kind of dating method is unique to that era.
Later, Xu Songzi recalled that scene, her face full of happiness. Unfortunately, many years later, the happiness that once became the root of pain.
The first time "date", they were both very happy. Before they parted, they began to look forward to the next appointment.
But what they didn't know was that their experience of smashing walnuts in the park was caught by a classmate and passed on to the teacher.
Xu Songzi was also asked to talk to by the teacher. Although they were both adults of 27 or 28 years old, in that special era, the definition of the relationship between men and women was very sensitive, and if they were not careful, they would become the target of "strike".
Xu Songzi naturally knew the seriousness of this matter.
She wrote a note to ask Gu Rong what to do. Gu Rong was also very manly, and he directly replied to Xu Songzi's two words: "Open".
Xu Songzi was a little moved when he saw these two words. In this way, the two became boyfriend and girlfriend, and became a couple with a handsome man and beautiful woman in the class.
But sweet, Xu Songzi's "default" also laid the fuse for their later "tragedy".
Because in this relationship, she seemed to be pushed away by Gu Rong from beginning to end. Before she could think, everything was too hastily.
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all say that marriage should be slow and divorce should be fast. Xu Songzi and Gu Rong are exactly the opposite.
Because they are of the same age, they are almost in their thirties when they graduate, so they enter marriage after graduation.
"Let's Get Married" Stills
From campus to wedding dress, this should have been a very happy marriage, and everyone envied it. However, this love is not solid enough, and it lacks too much to stand the test.
After marriage, Xu Songzi and Gu Rong were both moving forward on the artistic path they pursue, but it was obvious that Xu Songzi's artistic path was smoother than Gu Rong.
985, director Xie Jin was preparing for the movie "Furong Town". He specially invited Liu Xiaoqing to play the heroine Hu Yuyin;
Xu Songzi was fortunate to win the role of " Li Guoxiang " for himself.
Originally everyone was looking forward to Liu Xiaoqing's performance, but unexpectedly, after the movie was released, everyone was conquered by "Li Guoxiang".
Xu Songzi uses 's rigorous and delicate acting skills to portray the hateful and pitiful side of Li Guoxiang vividly.
With "Furong Town", Xu Songzi not only became popular, but also formed a deep friendship with Liu Xiaoqing.
After becoming famous on the big screen, Xu Songzi has been making continuous film appointments.
In those years, she has created many classic characters, such as Ma Dacui, the rural widow in "The Wasteland", Ma Tiange, an unemployed young man in " Olive Green Roof ", and Jordan Ying, a ballerina in " Red Swan ".
Just when Xu Songzi's career was developing rapidly, Gu Rong's directorial career hit a wall everywhere.
As a wife, Xu Songzi fully supports her husband's career. In order to realize his directorial dream, she not only invested all the money she earned, but also took everything into account.
In Xu Songzi's words, it is: "He has the final say in everything, and I do it when working."
She remembered that Gu Rong needed a large brush to film, and she used it the next day, but they didn't have it. Xu Songzi took a long-distance bus to Hangzhou overnight to get a large brush back.
There are countless things like this in life, but Xu Songzi has never complained.
She always felt that husband and wife should support each other. Her career has developed better. Naturally, she is willing to fulfill her husband's dream wholeheartedly. She even stood up for her husband and played the heroine in " Red Swan ".
Gu Rong saw and remembered his wife's efforts and support. He was also very grateful,
But the man's self-esteem also made him feel a little inferior in front of her, and he always did something that hurt her inadvertently.
But Xu Songzi didn't take these things seriously. She was a carefree person, and she always believed that couples should be tolerant.
And she admires her husband's talent very much, she believes that he will succeed sooner or later.
It’s a pity that Gu Rong cannot truly understand Xu Songzi’s love for him.
He could not accept her strong career, and he was also stubborn about his artistic pursuit. Sometimes Xu Songzi gave him some suggestions.
For example, when he was directing a drama, there were staff members in the crew who liked to cause trouble, and Xu Songzi would kindly remind him that this person could not be used and would cause trouble in the future, but Gu Rong would not listen.
He felt that he was a big man, director, and even if the other party caused anything, he could settle it. However, when something really happened, Xu Songzi bravely "rescued" him.
and so on, whether in artistic pursuit or in life,
They often quarrel over a little bit of differences, but in the end, Xu Songzi compromised first because she cared too much about him.
However, he didn't understand, let alone cherish all this.
When one day I understand, everything was too late. He regretted it. No one in this world loves him like her anymore.
"Old Have a Responsibility" Stills
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If Xu Songzi can tolerate everything about Gu Rong and support everything about him, what she can't bear most is his farewell without saying goodbye.
Once, Xu Songzi and Gu Rong had a quarrel again due to differences of opinions, and Xu Songzi was so angry that she ran away from home.
Originally, she was just angry, and she still had a little expectation in her heart, "He will come to find herself."
But the reality is that not only did he not come to find herself, he also took the opportunity to "sweep her out" and replaced the door locks at home.
At that moment, Xu Songzi felt very collapsed. Thinking about her efforts over the years, she cried with grievance.
But then she didn't say anything to Gu Rong. It would be fine if she had passed, but life still had to continue.
However, Gu Rong had been fed up with such a life. Since ancient times, men have supported the sky, but they are the opposite. He can't accept it, especially the better she treats him, the greater the pressure he is.
In 1998, he took advantage of Xu Songzi's appearance to film and moved out of their common home with a greeting and without calling. After all, he did not have the courage to face her.
When Xu Songzi came back from filming, she looked at everything empty at home, and she was extremely disappointed. She could tolerate anything and could not bear Gu Rong's farewell without saying goodbye.
When he chose to "open", she thought he was quite a man, but at this moment, he was a man.
This time she didn't plan to compromise, she was unwilling to accept it, and Gu Rong had made great determination to move out, and he would definitely not look back.
They were separated in a stalemate for 15 years. During this period, Gu Rong filed for divorce several times, but Xu Songzi disagreed. She locked him in this way and did not let herself go.
Xu Songzi once suffered from depression . For five years, she didn't see anyone.
Later, with the company and guidance of her friends, she finally walked out but found that she could not remember the lines. After Gu Rong learned about it, she finally took the initiative to contact her.
He cared about her after all, and knew that acting was her life. If she didn't even have this, what else could she rely on to support her? So he called her and suggested that she practice reciting.
Practicing recitation helped her remember lyrics. Xu Songzi didn't hate him until the bottom of his heart. After listening to his advice, she practiced reciting. Later, she slowly came out and everything became better and better.
There is a saying:
A road that still cannot be done after walking for a long time, so change the direction; a relationship that has been in contact for a long time and has not been treated sincerely and kindly for a long time, so choose to leave; some things that still make you suffer after a long time, so choose to let go.
Xu Songzi thought about it. After struggling, pain, tears and torture, she chose to let go.
In 2013, she divorced Gu Rong peacefully without telling her mother-in-law, without any souvenirs or hatred. Even when she broke up, she advised Gu Rong to find a suitable person to get married and have children like an old friend, otherwise it would be too late.
Maybe it’s because you are mature, or maybe it’s when you know that this thing really does not belong to you, you really realize its importance in your heart.
Looking at Xu Songzi who was talking to him peacefully in front of him, Gu Rong seemed to see the way they were dating many years ago.
However, nothing can go back.
After the divorce, Xu Songzi devoted all his energy to his acting career, and played important roles in many film and television dramas such as " Let's get married ", " Have a Responsibility for Old Man ", " Full Closure and Enter the City ", " Loess High Sky ", " Najiang Fireworks, Jiangyu ", "Human World", etc., and became a veteran actor who is deeply loved by the audience.
"The World" Stills
In the early years, Xu Songzi devoted all her energy to work and fully supported her husband's career. The two did not give birth to children;
Later, she lived in the two places for fifteen years due to quarrels. She was 58 years old when she divorced, and had already passed the age of giving birth. After that, she had never found a suitable partner, so now at the age of 67, she has no children and is alone.
To outsiders, this is somewhat miserable, but for Xu Songzi, everything is just right.
She does not regret her past choices, but her tortuous emotional experience makes her more cheerful and open-minded.
Roman Rolland once said:
There is only one true heroism in the world, that is, after seeing the truth of life, you still love life.
After experiencing the trough of life, Xu Songzi still faced life bravely, was positive, shining on the stage, creating many vivid and three-dimensional images for the audience, and bringing a lot of touch and joy to everyone.
She is such an amazing woman.
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In addition, Xu Songzi's marriage experience also reminds everyone: when facing an unworthy relationship, don't try your best to please her. If the other party does not know how to cherish it, it is yourself who will hurt in the end;
You must remember that when meeting someone who is not worth it, you must know how to stop the loss in time. Instead of being sad and sad in secret, it is better to turn around and give yourself a clear sky.
In this way, you have the opportunity to meet a better self and life.
