Do you believe that love is destined?
What expectations do you have for your feelings?
What does true love seem to you?
In love, we always want to enter each other's world and share each other's joys, angers, sorrows, and happiness. We hope that each other can understand our small emotions and desire to be understood.
When we open our hearts and reveal our fragility, the relationship between the two people is truly approaching. We often regard this feeling as love because we are happy and excited when we are with each other.
However, in love, there is not only happiness, relaxation and excitement, but also sadness, sadness and pain.
When we taste the taste of heartbreak, we will subconsciously protect ourselves and soothe our inner sorrow.
The other party’s original strengths were not that they disappeared, but that they had the love that made us "blindly" ignore the other party’s small shortcomings.
Maybe "destined" is just a feeling. When we meet, we will feel that the other person is the most suitable for us, and we have many similar hobbies, and everything is so beautiful. After getting along with each other, we gradually have differences and quarrels, and we will begin to question our original judgments and choices.
Only by seeing the truest form of love clearly and accepting every form of love, true love will come.
Love is soul fit
Advanced love comes from the ideation of the soul, the fusion of the spirit, the best state of love is the fit of each other's soul.
In " Tiandao ", Ding Yuanying and Rui Xiaodan were originally people from two different worlds, but due to the commission of his friend Xiao Yawen, he helped take care of Ding Yuanying who lived in seclusion in the ancient city. Therefore, from acquaintance, knowing each other to falling in love, he performed an unforgettable soul love.
This unforgettable soul love brings us heavy thinking and also allows us to see the highest realm of love.
When we first met, Ding Yuanying was drunk and had not recovered yet, which also confirmed Xiao Yawen's sentence, "Abuse, women, and living in the world."
After Ding Yuanying lived in the ancient city for the second half of a year, they had no intersection in their lives.
Because the Chinese New Year is coming, I suddenly remembered Xiao Yawen's instructions. Rui Xiaodan planned to visit Ding Yuanying, but found that he lived in simplicity every day and lived a simple life.
Life is difficult, but she does not ask for help from outsiders, which also makes her curious about Ding Yuanying.
The landlord called and said that the house was about to expire. Rui Xiaodan realized it and went to visit Ding Yuanying.
In Ding Yuanying's living room, Rui Xiaodan was deeply shocked.
A pure and spotless female voice seemed to pour down from the kingdom of heaven, as if a pair of God's eyes were staring at humanity with pity.
With a sound, Rui Xiaodan suddenly felt a trembling as the soul door was knocked open, and he felt like a weightless object was brought to the time and space without present and future by a mysterious gravity.
She couldn't help but sigh: " It turns out that people can live like this, and their souls can nourish like this."
A song of nature also made Rui Xiaodan become more curious about Ding Yuanying.
Rui Xiaodan really couldn't forget this sound, so he had the idea of buying a speaker.
She was like a devil, driving around the streets and alleys every day to search for the same audio as Ding Yuanying, but she was told that such audio was at least 400,000, and she also learned that Ding Yuanying had encountered difficulties and was relying on selling records to make a living.
Rui Xiaodan wanted to know why such a capable person had reached the point of selling records and did not ask others for help.
She finished talking about the matter to Ouyang Xue and thought of treating Ding Yuanying to dinner.
Rui Xiaodan originally wanted to defeat Ding Yuanying's inner arrogance at this "Hongmen Banquet". But he was deeply moved by Ding Yuanying's talent, knowledge and mind, and fell in love with him unknowingly.
Curiosity kills the cat. When you become curious about a person, you will try every means to find the truth.The process of revealing
is the process of falling in love with someone step by step. This is the most appropriate explanation for Rui Xiaodan and Ding Yuanying's love.
Ouyang Xue advised Rui Xiaodan: "This person is not an ordinary person. I don't think you can hold it."
Rui Xiaodan smiled and said, "You don't need to hold it, and you can't hold it. What else can you take? Just love."
Look, Rui Xiaodan's view of love is simple and transparent, without any hesitation, and he is dragging on it.
Its root cause is that for the love between men and women, the origin is the attraction of one party to the other. If either party is left to perform a solo show, it will not resonate emotionally.
Just like Rui Xiaodan and Ding Yuanying, it is Ding Yuanying's uniqueness, which just meets Rui Xiaodan's expectations for men. Rui Xiaodan's personality and unruly also make Ding Yuanying feel unusual, which makes them fall into love step by step.
Only when you attract each other can you create a sense of freshness and curiosity and attract the attention of the other party.
Love is a two-way rushing to
Rui Xiaodan is a woman of true temperament. She really wants to love Ding Yuanying. She not only changed Ding Yuanying's residence with air conditioning, but also helped him redeem the record.
And for the sake of the stock market, I borrowed money from my father who had not been in contact for 20 years.
In order to get to know Ding Yuanying, Rui Xiaodan went to Beijing to meet his friend Han Chufeng, but Han Chufeng treated her as a vase.
Han Chufeng received Rui Xiaodan very high specifications. This specification just wanted to push her to the extreme and make her retreat.
When Rui Xiaodan brought back the bet that Han Chufeng and Ding Yuanying lost, Ding Yuanying also understood that Rui Xiaodan passed the test.
When she decided to show her love to Ding Yuanying, Rui Xiaodan showed her delicate and plump naked body in front of Ding Yuanying, showing it in front of each other in the most primitive way.
In front of Rui Xiaodan's love without any tricks, Ding Yuanying was obviously shocked. He said sincerely:
You are a piece of jade, and I am not a craftsman. What you are asking for is the soul of a male culture. I cannot pretend not to know it just because you didn't say it. I accept you, and accept a height. I don't have this confidence.
After being rejected by Ding Yuanying, Rui Xiaodan devoted all his energy to his stressful work.
She deposited her feelings for Ding Yuanying to the deepest part of her heart, implicit and clear, and everything seemed to be able to hear each other's heartbeat and breathing.
During a mission, Rui Xiaodan was pointed at the head by a gun while arresting Wang Mingyang. Because the bullet was stuck, he was lucky enough to escape from the God of Death.
After passing by Death, Rui Xiaodan called Ding Yuanying and cried: "I'm afraid I will never see you again after I die..."
This sentence awakened Ding Yuanying's love. At this moment, Ding Yuanying was also moved by Rui Xiaodan's sincerity and accepted this confidante from the bottom of her heart.
As the saying in " Big Fish and Begonia ": " might as well be bolder, love someone, climb a mountain, and chase a dream ."
Rui Xiaodan and Ding Yuanying's love is an emotional summoning and mutual attraction from the depths of the soul, and is the mutual conformity and respect of the soul.
Love is mutual fulfillment
In our ordinary eyes, the definition of love is generally limited to the closest relatives and friends around us.
Ding Yuanying and Rui Xiaodan, their love is different from ordinary couples. It is not only a physical fusion, but also a sublimation of the spiritual level.
Ding Yuanying wants Rui Xiaodan to give up on being a criminal policeman, but instead plans to go to Berlin to study, learn and spread cultural attributes.
Because the job of a criminal policeman is very dangerous, and women's careers are relatively short.
But Rui Xiaodan refused. She had her own theory, chose her own vocation, and had her own thinking and principles.
Neither of them forced each other to live according to their own lifestyle, which reflects their dedication to love and respect for each other.
Women are born with a sense of security and need to use various methods to verify their feelings. This is understandable in line with human nature.
But this kind of temptation is essentially an unnecessary consumption of trust in love.
The love between Rui Xiaodan and Ding Yuanying is enviable because they have full trust and respect, and they never need to use control and temptation to verify their inner understanding of love.
They all make the other party feel needed, so they also get a sense of security.
Ding Yuanying got a rare understanding from Rui Xiaodan, and Rui Xiaodan got enlightenment from Ding Yuanying.
Before the decision was made to the robbers' decisive battle, Rui Xiaodan called Ding Yuanying.
, Ding Yuanying, who received the call, said nothing. After a few seconds of silence, she hung up the phone gently and completed her recognition of Rui Xiaodan's choice in silence.
Because he knew that Rui Xiaodan, as a policeman, her personality background could not tolerate her retreat.
In our lives, we are not afraid of meeting love and sex, but what is rare is meeting understanding.
The love between Rui Xiaodan and Ding Yuanying is not mutual dependence, but the collision of two souls and mutual fulfillment.
They will not change their life trajectory because of each other, nor will they point fingers in each other's life. This is also the most valuable point in their love.
Conclusion
Some people say that the love between Rui Xiaodan and Ding Yuanying is a platonic love, like twinkling stars, short and beautiful.
I think the love between them is more like the purest love of heaven.
has no request, no control, no bond, simple and pure.
Plato once said: " true love should transcend the length of life, the width of the soul, and the depth of the soul.."
Rui Xiaodan is really a myth, a height that we can understand but cannot reach, a direction that can run to her, a fire seed on the dark field, and a call from a distant planet.
True love means promising yourself and dedicating yourself without guarantees.
I hope our love can inspire the love in the hearts of our lovers.
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