Distance produces beauty. Whether it is friendship, love or family affection, if you love her, you should respect her wishes. No matter how close the relationship between two people is, you must always give people a certain sense of personal privacy and distance. Only by advancing and retreating can the emotional relationship of moderation be maintained. Otherwise, just like this girl who complained that the worker was so annoyed, she insisted on sleeping with her on the same bed because the worker was too attached to her and her hands and feet were not very at ease.
The girl who sticks to the coworker
The incident happened to Xiao Song, a girl in Xinzheng, Henan. Xiao Song is not a local from Xinzheng, Henan, but an outsider who happened to come here to work. She joined the factory in Xinzheng, Henan through the introduction of her family and friends. When she first came, Xiao Song had no friends. The girls in the factory had already found a partner, and the girls like her who came in behind could only be alone.
However, Xiao Song doesn't like to be in groups by nature, and he doesn't think there is anything wrong with such a life. After all, everyone is just a coworker here, and there is no deep feelings. However, soon, another girl came into Xiao Song's factory. The girl came from Jiangxi and had a very nice name called Piaopiao.
Piaopiao was very enthusiastic when she first met Xiao Song. She happened to be in the same dormitory as Xiao Song. The two lived together in their daily life. Piaopiao was so enthusiastic that although Xiao Song was a little uncomfortable, she couldn't help but she was afraid of each other's face, so the two barely walked together.
Piaopiao affectionately sticks to Xiao Song all day long. She will call on Sister Xiao Song affectionately and remind Xiao Song to add clothes to keep warm when the weather cools down. Although Xiao Song had no feelings for the other person at the beginning, after getting along for a long time, he fell in love with this enthusiastic and cheerful girl, so he walked with the other person with peace of mind.
soon winter came, and Piaopiao suddenly told Xiao Song that he hoped to sleep in the same bed with the other party in winter, which would make it warmer. Xiao Song thought that the same was true, so he agreed to Piaopiao's proposal. The two of them spent the winter together and they were all peaceful. Piaopiao is very attached to Xiao Song and has to hold Xiao Song to sleep every night. Xiao Song is relatively cold in character, but he is helpless with Piaopiao's actions. After all, the other party did not do anything out of the ordinary, but just wanted to be closer to him. He could not speak up and drove the other party away.
The girl complained about her coworker
However, Xiao Song felt a little annoying next. Winter has passed and summer has arrived soon. As the temperature rises and the weather gets warmer, it becomes a bit hot for the two of them to sleep in the same bed again. In addition, the conditions in the dormitory are not very good, and only one fan is installed in the staff dormitory, and there are no cooling equipment such as air conditioning.
So Xiao Song wanted Piaopiao to go back to his bed to sleep. After all, the weather was hot in summer, and it was too crowded for the two of them to sleep together. For this reason, Xiao Song also tactfully reminded Piaopiao that he should go back to his bed to sleep, but Piaopiao said that he just didn't want to go back, just wanted to stick to Xiao Song, and didn't want to leave Xiao Song.
Xiao Song expressed a headache about this, and was so annoyed. Two people slept in the same bed on hot days, and their hands and feet were still restless. They always touched themselves, making them unable to sleep in the middle of the night. In the video, Xiao Song enthusiastically asked netizens for help how they should deal with this issue. Netizens also discovered from Xiao Song's expression that she should not really hate Piaopiao, but just felt that the other party brought a sweet burden to her. After all, it may not be a bad thing to have a good friend who knows the cold and the hot, and likes to stick to his own.
Xiao Song is also a girl with a tofu heart. Although she complains about Piaopiao, she is really annoying, but she also likes Piaopiao in her heart, but she can't accept that the other party is too clingy. In fact, feelings are mutual, and people's hearts are full of flesh. Piaopiao treats Xiao Song sincerely, and Xiao Song cannot feel it. This is also the reason why Xiao Song is willing to tolerate Piaopiao all the time.
Of course, Piaopiao should also understand that whether it is friendship or other emotional relationships, it cannot always stick to the other party. After all, people are independent individuals, and under appropriate circumstances, they should still give the other party a certain personal privacy space. Only by distance can we produce beauty, and maintaining a good sense of proportion and boundary can we make a relationship last longer.
Editor's opinion:
In short, it is not easy for a person to meet sincere friends in his life. When we meet, cherish each other. The encounter between two people is a fate given by God. It is not easy to meet. I hope that everyone can treat their emotional relationships well, coordinate their interpersonal relationships, and make society more harmonious.
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