I, I entered Russia bravely at the age of 27, and married a 21-year-old wife with a successful career. My father-in-law was married to a 700-acre wheat field.
narration: Liu Weiming
compilation: Mr. Xiao Han
picture: from the Internet, delete
My name is Liu Weiming, I am 41 years old, from Xiantao City, Hubei Province. I have been working hard in Russia for 14 years and have experienced a lot of ups and downs. It is said that hard-working people will also stand by his side. I have always been lucky. Not only did I realize my financial freedom at a young age, I also married a young and beautiful Russian girl and gave birth to two lovely children.
People’s youth is very short, how many 27 years old are there? Back then, after graduating from college, my parents asked me to take the civil service exam, but I failed twice in succession and I gave up completely. At that time, my parents looked around for contact and even asked me to give up my job and concentrate on preparing for the exam at home. However, I was stubborn and prepared for the exam while working in Wuhan. Maybe I was not very attentive, maybe I developed well in the unit, and I didn’t feel sorry for the failure. Instead, I felt that my parents would not force me to take the civil service exam.
When I was 26 years old, I became the vice president of the company. Because I was a startup company, I was also a veteran employee. Not only did I have the company's shares, but I also had an annual salary of 180,000 yuan. But the fate of the working people is always controlled by the boss. Once there was a problem with the business, the company's vice president ruthlessly said it was my responsibility. In anger, I chose to leave the company and go to Russia alone to explore. Unexpectedly, in a foreign country, my life reached the peak.
1981, I was born in a wealthy family in Xiantao City, Hubei Province. I have two children at home. I am the eldest son of the family and I envy my younger brother who is one year younger. The two brothers have a very good relationship. They grew up together since childhood and encouraged each other in their studies, so my younger brother and I were admitted to Wuhan University .
My parents are doing business and are very busy at work, but my mother still takes two or three days a week as much as possible to wash clothes and cook for us at home, and accompany me and my brother. Grandma often says to her mother, "You are busy with your two children in the family, so I can make money with confidence."
, and the mother always says, "If I do more, you will be less tired."
In grandma's heart, this daughter-in-law is smart and virtuous, can be both inside and outside, and is very satisfied. The mother also admires her grandmother very much, kind and diligent, and knows how to tolerate her daughter-in-law.
So, I grew up in a loving family, with a good personality, never get into evil with others, let alone swear words.
I studied early. When I was two and a half years old, I entered the only kindergarten near our house, but my memory is very good. The teacher can remember it by teaching it once. From a few years old, the teacher said that I will definitely have a future in the future.
When I arrived in elementary school, I studied in the best primary school in Xiantao. At that time, everyone's studies were almost the same, because the best class was only one or two points away. In order to maintain the first place in the grade, I worked harder than many of my classmates, and I had never participated in the entertainment game that my children liked the most.
When I was in junior high school, I had a new home appliance at home. It was an desktop computer that my father spent more than 10,000 yuan to buy. I have seen it before, but I never use it. In fact, no one in the family can use a computer. As for why I bought it, to put it bluntly, my father just wants to show off his grand and fashionable.
At that time, I would quietly take my pocket money to play in the game hall. Since I had a computer at home, I no longer had to go to the game hall. My grandmother never cared about me, and even my parents didn’t care about me playing games. The only thing I warned me was to stabilize my academic performance. If my grades declined severely, I would give the computer to my cousin.
At that time, I was afraid that one day I would go home and my computer disappeared. I usually study and study every second, and I would go home to play games. When I was in high school, my mother locked all the TV and computers at home to the storage room, and I also stopped playing games and watched TV, and started to fight for the college entrance examination.
People who have experienced the college entrance examination are lucky because in these short three years, they can not only train people's willpower and patience, but also their mentality.
Before the college entrance examination, my father spent seven or eight days at home with me. To be honest, my father was even more nervous than me, afraid that I would not get into college. My younger brother was also nervous because in another year, he would follow in my footsteps. Once he failed, the impact on my younger brother would be visible to the naked eye.
Fortunately, the nervous college entrance examination has ended, and I feel good about myself, and my parents are relieved.
I was only 17 years old when I was in the college entrance examination. After the results came out, my father didn’t dare to go and saw it. He asked me to tell him loudly. Looking back now, my father actually has a cute side, but he has been in the business world for too long and his smile on his face is stiff.
chose Wuhan University without hesitation. This is also my ideal good university. I spent four years very fulfilled. I dated a girlfriend who had no results, received a scholarship, and won the first place in the entrepreneurship competition. Life is nothing more than tossing and struggling until the day you think you are successful.
Although my parents are in business, they are still very conservative in their thinking because they know that business has profits and losses, and they are not very stable. After I graduated from college, I was asked to take the civil servant exam. In fact, the life I hope is to work hard in the workplace, whether it is success or failure, at least I have experienced it.
After failing to take the civil service exam twice, I was doing well in the workplace. Although I am young, I am very good at doing business or managing the company. Because of my excellent performance, I was appreciated by my boss. Not only did I get a raise and promoted, I also gave the company shares. As a newcomer to a startup company, it is a good thing to be able to stay in such a working atmosphere, but I made decisions at once, and I was the executor. I naturally took the blame. In anger, I decided to leave, and even didn't want to stay in China, which made me feel embarrassed.
and my parents couldn't discuss any good results, and my girlfriend proposed to break up. To be precise, her family introduced a partner and decided to get married. I went to Russia just to see the beauty, but I didn't expect to succeed in my career here.
14 years ago, in Russia, except for Chinese people doing business and studying abroad, there were even fewer tourists. I had a vision. When I arrived in Russia, I started an international trading company with the money I saved from my work in the past few years. I couldn’t speak a word of Russian, but I rely on English communication.
Later, with an assistant who speaks Chinese, the work has become much easier. It is not easy to work hard abroad. Russia is vast and sparsely populated, so it is very difficult to recruit suitable employees. I am lucky. After several fellow villagers who have worked hard in Russia for many years, their careers have flourished through introductions.
In the first six years, I had never returned home, and devoted myself to my career. At that time, I also dated a Russian girlfriend. She was 21 years old at the time and planned to get married. During the seventh year of the Chinese New Year, I took my girlfriend home a month early, mainly because I wanted to spend more time with my parents.
After returning home, my mother urged me to get married quickly because my younger brother also planned to get married. After all, we are all in our thirties and neither son is married, so neighbors will make jokes. Later, I thought of holding a wedding with my younger brother, but my mother refused, saying that I could only receive a gift, which was not worth it.
That's it, my wife and I simply held a wedding. The whole family liked this foreign daughter-in-law very much. After the marriage, she gave birth to a lovely daughter for me.
When my brother got married, I didn’t have time to go back. This is also a lifelong regret. Although my brother doesn’t say anything, he is actually unhappy inside.
In Russia, in addition to doing business, I also farmed. My father-in-law married 700 acres of wheat fields, which is a precious gift for me. They also want to live a retirement life as soon as possible, so my son-in-law is in charge of all things at home. My brother-in-law and sister-in-law don’t like getting married, and they are still single.
Sometimes my sister-in-law will be envious when she looks at my children, but in her thirties, it is difficult to find a partner in Russia. I can only wish her a blessing to get out of singleness as soon as possible.
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