Be careful when dealing with marriage, keep your eyes wide open before marriage, and carefully choose a marriage partner; close your eyes after marriage, try to be tolerant if you can.
But it does not mean that all problems must be tolerant. If it is a matter of principle, divorce early can be considered a timely stop loss.
Divorcement involves the issue of property division, especially if you give a sky-high bride price, you will divorce in a short period of time. Should you return it? How much should I refund? Both sides have their own opinions.
A family in Bozhou, Anhui Province, had just married a wife for less than half a year, and the other party started a divorce. He would rather return the bride gift and betrothal gifts and no longer involve them.
According to insiders, the couple met through a matchmaker. Because both families were urging each other in a hurry, the two felt it was appropriate for each other, so they started talking about marriage.
Although the two people have known each other for a short time, the wedding is done step by step, and there is no shortage of steps.
According to local customs, the man's family took a truck of gifts to discuss the marriage, which paid full attention. The woman's family offered a bride price of 188,000 yuan, which was the average level. The man did not raise any objections and started to raise money when he got home. On the day of the bride, I received all kinds of gifts, , , and so on. The woman's family originally thought that with these guarantees, her daughter could live a good life, but things went against her wishes.
Because there is no deep emotional foundation, many problems arise after marriage. The parents-in-law felt very uncomfortable because his daughter-in-law did not bring the bride price back and was picky about her daughter-in-law. The daughter-in-law felt that her husband did not protect her, and the whole family regarded herself as an outsider, and she felt very unhappy and her life was messy.
In-law's family wants their daughter-in-law to get pregnant and have children as soon as possible, but the daughter-in-law has concerns in her heart. She doesn't know if the marriage will be happy and doesn't want children for the time being.
This incident further deepened the conflict between the two parties. The in-laws were willing to spend so many betrothal gifts to marry a wife just to have a grandson. The daughter-in-law's attitude made them afraid that the money would be wasted.
Seeing that the misunderstanding became deeper and deeper, the couple quarreled more and more. Finally, the woman felt that she could not live together, so she filed for divorce.
The in-laws' family was unhappy. They wanted to say that the woman cheated on her marriage, but the woman fought back with practical actions, indicating that all the betrothal gifts and betrothal gifts received were returned, without leaving a single point, only asking for a little, not to ruin the reputation of her daughter.
Originally, my mother's family wanted to persuade her daughter to live a good life, but when she saw that her daughter was wronged, her husband's family still had this attitude, so she decided to support her daughter's decision.
On the day of the divorce that had been agreed upon, the woman's family sent all the gifts she had given back, and there were 188,000 yuan in cash, a penny, and even returned half of the pork.
The man's house was counting cash, so happy that he couldn't even close his mouth. His family did not lose any loss in this marriage. He could arrange a blind date and marry another wife immediately. After the video of
was posted online, it immediately attracted the attention and heated discussion among netizens
Some netizens commented that the woman was very particular, and the betrothal gift and bride price were returned, so that there would be no dispute.
Some netizens also commented that the woman was willing to retire, but the man was actually embarrassed to take it all. The half-year marriage will cause greater losses to the woman. Isn’t there any compensation?
Some netizens also commented that men don’t seem to suffer any losses, but aren’t they afraid that their reputation will be bad? It's so bad that the woman is willing to return the bride price and betrothal gifts, but she also wants to get a divorce.
Editor's opinion
It is difficult for a clean official to make a decision on family matters. What conflict did the couple have had? Who is right and who is wrong? It is hard for outsiders to comment.
However, from the perspective of the woman's family's actions, she is indeed very particular about people.They asked for a 188,000 bride gift before. If someone questioned the money, then all the divorces would be returned, which would be a powerful counterattack.
On the other hand, the woman is willing to return all the property she received and wants to divorce, which shows how firm the determination is. The man is not willing to lose money at all. His character will show his prominence.
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-
-