Why is it obvious that the man cheated on each other but they are two women who are fighting each other?
Why don’t women blame the cheating men, but only resent the third party?
This is a question that many fans have asked the Blue Party, which is indeed a misunderstanding that many original partners are prone to falling into.
Many women only tear their mistresses after being cheated, rather than cheating on men. There are three main reasons.
On the one hand, because he doesn't want to divorce, he is unwilling to have a fight with a cheating man.
As long as you don’t divorce, you have to continue living your life. If the trouble is too serious, it will not be of any benefit to the original wife.
Even if you plan to divorce, many original wives will not get along with the cheating man.
is just like what an original wives told Lan Fang before. If not, this man is still the father of her child.
So many wives are unwilling to tear off the cheating man after they are cheated
On the other hand, the original wives mistakenly believe that extramarital affairs are all problems of mistresses.
If the mistress does not appear, the man will not cheat. If the mistress does not take the initiative, he will not have extramarital affairs.
They ignore the role played by men in extramarital affairs, so they only tear up the mistress.
The last aspect is that because of psychological resentment after being cheated, you can’t vent your cheating man and can only tear the mistress with your hands.
Although the original wife teared the mistress with her hand, it might be to vent her anger, the mistress did not complain at all.
Because there will be an extramarital affair, the mistress is definitely not innocent. There is nothing to complain about when the mistress is torn by her hands, and it is considered a crime.
For example, this is the case of extramarital affairs that Blue Party handled before.
The original wife Ms. Zhao and her husband have been married for thirteen years. The couple has always had a good relationship.
has two sons, both of whom are in elementary school. Ms. Zhao’s parents-in-law helps take care of her.
Ms. Zhao has a relatively easy life. Every day, she goes to and from get off work, and the elderly are helping her children and her family.
Most of the money her husband earns is also given to her, so after she found out that her husband cheated on her, she did not want to divorce.
Because divorce is not good for her, if she lives with her children, it will not be easier than her current life.
If she doesn’t want children, she can’t bear to leave her two children, so she won’t divorce and resolving her extramarital affair is the best choice.
But Ms. Zhao was in pain. After all, it was someone who had been in love for many years who betrayed her.
Because it was too painful, she needed an emotional outlet.
After she quarreled with the cheating man a few times, she found that quarreling with the cheating man was not good for her.
The relationship between husband and wife is getting worse and worse, and cheating men are naturally more inclined to mistresses,
So she started not making noise at home, but went to trouble with mistresses.
The mistress is indeed afraid that Ms. Zhao will cause trouble, but she is unwilling to give up her extramarital affair, so she has been in a stalemate.
Ms. Zhao came to the Blue Party for help under such circumstances.
Blue party can understand Ms. Zhao's behavior of not wanting to divorce, and she can also understand her behavior of tearing the mistress with only one hand.
, but she does not support her doing this, because it is impossible to solve the problem by tearing her mistress with her extramarital affair.
Extramarital affair has never been a problem for mistress alone, and it can even be said that mistress can only be regarded as an accomplice.
Compared to mistresses, cheating on men is the one who really decides whether an extramarital affair will end.
What Ms. Zhao really wants is not to vent her emotions, but to solve her extramarital affair.
Then what she has to do is not just tear the mistress, but also get rid of the cheating man so that he will no longer cheat.
Compared to letting the cheating man go home willingly, the Blue Party recommends that the original wife make the man dare not cheat.
Because men cannot take the initiative, they are willing to end their extramarital affair because extramarital affair is a pleasure for them.
Even if he shows initiative and willingness, he will basically act for cheating men.
Instead of cooperating with a cheating man to act, it is better to directly catch the basics and let the cheating man return to his family even if he is unwilling to do so.
So what should the original partners do?
What will a man be afraid of if he cheats on him.You have to create this crisis for cheating men.
So what are the cheating men afraid of? What threats does an extramarital affair pose to a cheating man?
The first aspect is that the original wife divorces and the wife and children are separated.
Many men cheat, but they don’t want to divorce because they still enjoy marriage and are reluctant to leave their children and wives.
After all, he spent money and energy to raise the child for many years, and divorce also means that the sunken costs he had invested in the child before were wasted.
Men cannot accept it, so they are afraid that their wives will divorce and that their wives will take their children away.
In addition, marriage has lasted for many years and is not just an emotional entanglement.
also has many interests involved, the most direct thing is how to divide the property of the couple.
also has various connections, the help brought by his wife's parents' home, etc., which are all things that cheating men are afraid of losing.
So most cheating men are afraid of divorce because it is not in their interests.
On the other hand, it is the impact of extramarital affairs being known to others.
Extramarital affair will not only affect a man's reputation, but also make this man be verbal.
may also affect a man's career, a man's development, etc.
So it’s not that the cheating men are not afraid of the original wife’s trouble. Many times the original wife is not that the cheating men are afraid of.
Because he was worried about cheating on a man's career, he did not dare to make trouble because his original wife was afraid of embarrassing and did not dare to tell others. Such behaviors as
lead to cheating men who feel that the extramarital affair will not be known by others and will not have any impact.
In fact, men are afraid of cheating, which is also something that wives can use.
Finally, what should wives who are similar to Ms. Wu’s situation do?
First of all, the original wife must not show that you are unwilling to divorce.
Secondly, the original wife should learn to show her intimacy with her children and make the cheating man realize the crisis.
In addition, it can control the evidence of a man's cheating, and can get most of his property even if he divorces.
Finally, you must have a stubborn attitude and ignore the situation, just to resolve the extramarital affair.
Only in this way can a cheating man be afraid and resolve an extramarital affair for his own interests.
The original wife has such an attitude and will do these things that make the cheating man afraid of. The cheating man will not cheat twice easily.
at the end of the article, Lan Fang wanted to say that most cheating men are actually the same, they only care about themselves.
The original wives tear the mistresses with each other. The mistresses are so miserable, he doesn't care at all.
The needle in the original wife's hands will only hurt if he stabs the cheating man.
or if you hold the needle and you have to stab it on him, he will find a way to prevent the original wife from taking ruthless measures in order not to hurt.
So if you want to solve an extramarital affair, it is useless to tear the mistress by hand. Learning to deal with cheating men is the most effective.
If you encounter an extramarital affair and don’t know what to do, you can follow the Blue Party and send a private message to talk about your situation.
I am Lan Fang, an emotional mentor who tells the truth and does practical things.
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