In this world, everyone desires success. In fact, all the successes in this world are caused by cause and effect. People who are mediocre in their lives often have these three personalities.

In this world, everyone desires success.

In fact, all successes in this world are cause and effect.

Everyone who achieves great things has a pattern of following the trend.

People who have been mediocre all their lives often have these three personalities.

1

indecisive and do nothing

Recently, my friend Xiaowu shared an interesting story from his unit.

Lao Liu is the new leader in the unit, but everyone has heard of his leadership style.

When the meeting was held, the leader finished reading the manuscript and asked other colleagues to speak. After the others finished speaking, he took turns asking questions. No matter big or small, he only discussed on the spot, but never reached a conclusion.

Once, after everyone expressed their opinions, the leader said as usual, "Everyone go back and study."

A department manager finally couldn't help it and said with a blushing face:

"Let's settle it quickly, it's about to expire."

He hesitated for a moment and asked slowly:

"What do you think you should do?"

Colleagues felt a little disappointed after hearing this. The question of

has been discussed just now, but he didn't seem to listen to it at all and asked everyone again.

In fact, everyone's opinions are very clear, just waiting for him to make the decision, but he is so indecisive every time and is unwilling to make any decisions.

Everything is "wait and see", unless it is absolutely necessary.

After a long time, everyone became familiar with the leader's style of work and followed suit.

Someone said:

"A soldier will be full of beatings."

At work, leaders are not decisive in their work, and their subordinates are unwilling to be scolded, so they can only live with them.

Over time, the pace of the superiors and subordinates has become more and more consistent, and the business has become more and more sluggish.

No matter what position a person is, adding knowledge and pattern is the greatest confidence to be decisive in doing things.

people are middle-aged, and I advise you to be a cruel person so that you can get rid of internal friction and change to a life that you don’t regret.

2

Simple tastes, it's hard to get things done

The uncle ranks the third in the family, with two sisters on it, and everyone in the family regards him as a treasure.

He has been smart since childhood. He has learned the "Pipa Xing " by Bai Juyi and memorized it as soon as he learns it.

Communicating with my uncle can be said to know astronomy and geography, but there is nothing he doesn't know about.

My uncle has worked as a private teacher, sold popsicles, sold clothes, and worked as a security guard... He has done a lot of work, and he can tell every one of them well.

However, until he became a grandfather, he was still the worker with the minimum wage.

As a teacher, he is a substitute for his life;

sells popsicles, he eats enough by himself first;

sells clothes, his goods are always street stall goods, and the customers choose them themselves, he just chats.

No matter what job he does, he can't do it for a long time;

No matter what work he does, he never feels wronged.

Although his family is not rich, he has been spoiled since childhood and is afraid of hardship and fatigue.

In "Deliberate Practice", there is a sentence:

"If you don't force yourself out of your comfort zone, you will never be able to make progress."

No matter how smart your mind is, you don't have persistent learning, it will be superficial;

No matter how good the opportunity is, you can't achieve anything without hard work and deep cultivation.

Success is actually very simple. Only by persevering foolishly can you laugh to the end.

3

easy to satisfy, not to be motivated

friend Xiaokai After graduating from university, he became a civil servant after intense exams.

He has a superior family background. He has a car and a house as soon as he graduates, and he has no worries about his life.

Every day, in addition to completing the designated work, they are shopping online, watching TV shows, shopping, and eating.

Once, the unit wants to promote young cadres to work in townships. He is the best candidate, but he is worried that his position is too hard, so he chooses to give up on his own initiative.

Compared with higher positions, he enjoys the comfort of his current department more.

Every day, he can take breakfast to work and click into the office, so that he will not be late or leave early, but he will never arrive early or work overtime, without the urgency of young people.

But life has never been just about the peaceful years, but also about unpredictable misfortunes and blessings.

The fastest way to waste a person in the world is to make him idle.

Cai Kangyong once said: "When you are not motivated, you are killing people, you accidentally killed yourself."

A life that is too idle is a disaster. When the tide fades, you find out who is swimming naked.

written at the end

Life is a process of competing with oneself, and personality is the biggest opponent.

Novelist Eliot said:

"Personality will also change, and will be sick like our body!"

Everyone is their best doctor, and only themselves can truly heal themselves.

Life is a sea of ​​people, mediocrity is not ability, excellence is life.

success is achieved through hard work, and all skills are forced into force.

What kind of life you want can only count on yourself.

For the rest of your life, please remember to be more cruel to yourself.

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Author丨Fish Roe Sauce·Rice Bag

Source丨Fish Roe Sauce Culture

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