Every woman who already has a strong family relationship is worried about her husband's infidelity. But it’s hard to predict whether your husband has an affair until your wife stumbles on the smell of cheap perfume late at night. Every woman who already has a strong family relati

Every woman who already has a strong family relationship is worried about her husband's infidelity. But it’s hard to predict whether your husband has an affair until your wife stumbles on the smell of cheap perfume late at night.

Every woman who already has a strong family relationship is worried about her husband's infidelity. But it’s hard to predict whether your husband has an affair until your wife stumbles on the smell of cheap perfume late at night.

Fortunately, psychologists always help us solve these problems.
Here are some ways you can tell whether it's your jealousy or your husband is really cheating on you.

1.He answers or calls in a secluded place

Although sometimes privacy may be required when making a call, if your partner goes to another room every time he calls, it already means something is happening to him.

especially if this behavior is not his characteristic, or such negotiations are becoming more and more frequent.

And, what should the husband do if his beautiful wife deceives him? We consider the reasons and give suggestions in the article.

2. It deletes text messages from archives on your phone (SMS)

Most people won't bother to delete old texts, at least until the phone's memory is full of them.

If your partner checks every time he deletes old messages, or worse - he deletes them immediately after he has finished a conversation with someone, then this could mean more than just communication.

3. He has multiple email addresses or social media profiles

If you accidentally find some unknown or hidden emails in your home computer, messages in social networks, this is no longer good.

In short, people with perfect relationships don't need to maintain different profiles on a network that their partners don't know. If you've discovered one of these unknowns, it's time to start worrying.

4. He avoids family, family activities

infidelity, whether physical or emotional, always leads to the loss of time to communicate with friends and family.

If your partner avoids celebrations or any family gatherings, gets off work early, or goes home late due to a project or task (according to him), then there is a good chance that he will spend time with others, no matter how he communicates on the phone, on the computer or in person.

5. He spends a lot of time with another person

If your husband suddenly starts spending a lot of time with his colleagues, colleagues, friends, or even just an acquaintance, especially if it's a opposite sex, then you need to learn more about the relationship and what's really going on there.

6. It is always good to give gifts to someone, or to help another person voluntarily

to give gifts and do good deeds for friends, family and even strangers, but if your husband often gives gifts – expensive, time-consuming, time-consuming, time-consuming and energy to prepare them, or it is easy to agree to help someone do housework, work at home, all of which have shown that he has an emotional connection with that person.

7. You feel a different fragrance coming from it

Whether it is another woman's perfume, or another brand of bath soap from another place (soap you don't have at home), your feelings should have made you doubt your husband's feelings. If he returns home cleanly after a day of work, just like he goes to work, then this is already a hint of having an affair with someone.

8. It won't touch you like before

Sometimes love will gradually disappear due to poor communication between partners, unresolved problems in the family or recent disputes. If your husband’s behavior in this situation is inexplicable, or he pushes you away with a strange excuse, then this is a signal for you. At least, there is one problem in your relationship that needs to be solved.

9. Dress differently

Has your husband started to dress a little differently? Is he washing his car more frequently? Does he get happier or just leave home more often when he is busy with something? For example, go out with your “friends” more frequently, work more at work, etc., if that’s the case, then take action. If you are really interested in his activities/work, then show interest in his activities/work.

10. Leaving home for a long time

Usually your husband walks his dog for half an hour, but now he walks 60-90 minutes? Who did he accidentally meet while walking with dogs in a park or square? If this is not "talented Natalia", it could be an affair. You'd better go for a walk with him.

11. Causes quarrel

Did your husband start creating scandals and he left home afterwards? Did some of his clothes disappear from home? If so, then something must have happened!

12. Becomes more mysterious

When your husband suddenly changes his attitude towards privacy (privacy) - suddenly for some reason you shouldn't know his whereabouts or who he is talking to on the phone, it has nothing to do with your birthday (not yet fast), anniversary or upcoming holiday - it could be an affair.

13. The emotional quality of your relationship has changed

From the outside, it seems that your husband is not interested and has been busy all the time. We have all experienced emotional changes, and so are the weather. However, it is not difficult to see whether your husband’s attitude towards you has changed during the long process of living together. Your husband may become more self-centered and less interested in you or your relationship. Often, your partner may reject your hints about love intimacy. The best solution for you is to be aware of this and want to know what happened to your husband.

14. He became very angry

The anger and criticism bordering cruelty are hard for us to detect.
Your partner may treat you rudely or impatiently. It has better control over your behavior and is more important than usual. You may feel that your spouse is getting more and more dissatisfied, usually because of reasons you don’t understand. However, due to some irrelevant connections, you can actually notice the increase in his happiness.

15. He started to spend more time at work, or started to spend more time outside the family, and working outside the family may be very demanding. During the economic crisis, most employers have increasingly demanded their employees. Workplace relationships can be upgraded to romantic ones simply because the time spent together on shared tasks often brings people together.

If your husband has problems with allowed boundaries, then this may cause problems in your relationship.

16. He began to pay more attention to his appearance.

This is especially obvious if so far the husband is not worried at all, or only a little bit. If your husband has an affair, he has found a new source of love and affection in him. To his mistress, looking good became very important to him.

17. His appearance has changed

Your partner, who used to be dressed conservatively, now suddenly buys underwear with unexpected designs and other more fashionable clothes? Or, your husband, who never spent much time taking care of himself, is fussing about what his hairstyle looks like and using hair care products he has never used before? Here, my wife has already had something worth thinking about.

18. In disputes, he often takes a passive position.

In the past, can you discuss controversial issues openly and calmly? Now, the husband is increasingly taking a stubborn and indestructible position in his decisions. This suggests an increase in the husband’s defensive response to family problems.

19. His behavior changed

Your husband used to avoid office parties and events and now attend regularly "for his career"? Or, does your husband suddenly start practicing and obsessed with some new hobbies or exercises that keep him away from his hometown? Your husband, who is having supper at home every night, is now "working very late", or worse, increasingly leaving for "business trips"? Find the whole truth from him at all costs.

20. His attitude changed

The opposite happens sometimes - when your husband becomes an extraordinary lover, he looks happier, more energetic, more energetic, kinder, loves you more, and sometimes too much. He can buy you a lot of gifts and arrange you a lot of surprises. Until now, this is not his characteristic.

21. He hopes for less "time together" and more "time to yourself"

When you come together as a couple, you have consciously or unconsciously agreed how much "time to yourself" you will have and how much "time to yourself" you will have as a couple. Now, you have noticed the transition from your husband’s “we” to wanting more “me” time. To some extent, you become disengaged from the activities your husband is involved in. This is also a negative "bell" for you as a wife.

How do I know if my husband cheats?

Family is a subtle thing. It is built on many pillars, one of the most important of which is trust. How can you live with someone you don’t trust? How do you build a strong relationship with cheaters? But many women think cheating is the most despicable betrayal that a man can commit.

According to men themselves, they are born polygamy. In fact, in wild animals, there are often cases of a group of males and many females. Or when the male begins a brief relationship with the first female he meets. But we are not animals. We, in addition to physiological needs, have a thought, a feeling, a higher neural activity, and finally. She should suggest that it is worth sacrificing the inherent polygamy tendency in the gene to protect the family.