In all relationships, the "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law" relationship is the most subtle and complex. Why do you say so? The daughter-in-law and mother-in-law are both closely related and have no blood relationship. This joint relationship is a very important relationship, which is related to the harmony and happiness of your family. So in the face of such a delicate relationship, we must think carefully.
The mother-in-law is an elder in front of her daughter-in-law, so what are the important points of being a good mother-in-law are.
First, you must know how to treat each other equally. You can treat your son as you like, and you don’t have to work hard to get along with your daughter-in-law. This way of handling is a balanced relationship.
Second, keep your mouth under control. No comments on anything about the children. If you do not participate in the affairs of your children's families, they will decide everything. Don’t show off your parents’ prestige or airs. After the child gets married, he leaves his original family and becomes an independent individual. There is no need to treat yourself as your child’s guardian anymore.
Third, control the legs. After the child gets married, parents should not always run to their children's houses if they have anything to do. Some elderly people are worried about their children, and they are helping with housework and taking care of their children. Many conflicts arise here. Don’t you know the principle of “the fragrance of far away and the smell of near”, and it is very important to leave a certain space and distance between each other. Especially as a mother-in-law, you should keep a certain distance between you and your daughter-in-law.
I have nothing to say about my own daughter, but because I have no blood relationship with my daughter-in-law, I should also pay attention to the method of dealing with each other in the way I get along.
As long as you do the above points well, the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law can basically be maintained very well.
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