Men should get married when they are old, and women should get married when they are old. In life, everyone wants a happy marriage, a happy family, a happy family, and a happy family. In fact, whether the family can be happy has a very strong relationship with the spouse. Therefore, the ancients attached great importance to the issue of marriage between men and women, especially when they were parents, they did their best to help their children find an ideal marriage.
Even in contemporary times, society has developed to an unprecedented civilization era. People still attach great importance to children's marriages, and in many aspects, they still retain the teachings and experiences of ancient ancestors, hoping that children can have a happy, happy, warm, harmonious and happy family.
Today I will learn about the teachings of our ancestors: "Women do not marry five, men do not marry six." This sentence is actually very easy to understand, that is, girls should not marry "five types of men", and men should try not to marry "six types of women".
First, about "women don't marry five"
1, don't marry a man without motivation
0 In ancient times, girls got married to find someone who could give them enough food and clothing. If a boy is ignorant, idle all day long, and has no ambition, then life will definitely not be better. The reason is that simple.
Social development has reached the present moment, and pursuing quality of life is everyone's basic goal, so even many boys in rural areas, as long as they learn a skill, most of them will develop in the city. Many boys who can't get out of the countryside for the rest of their lives are really hard.
2. Don’t marry a man who tends to domestic violence
It turns out that when I was in my hometown in the countryside, a boy 4 years younger than me beat and scolded his parents since he was a child. His parents thought that he might get better when he grew up, but in fact he was just lacking in discipline. As a result, after getting married, beating his wife became a normal practice. If he was dissatisfied, he would beat his wife, and his parents couldn't even control him.
The wife took care of her children and swallowed her anger. As a result, he beat his wife to the point of being drunk. After he went to bed, his wife directly chopped him to death with a knife. Then the wife hugged her child and committed suicide by jumping into the reservoir. The result is quite tragic.
3. Don’t marry a man who has bad habits such as prostitution and gambling
. A distant relative’s child has a happy family. But later he got involved in online gambling. In less than two years, I lost all my savings and owed a lot of foreign debts. I went to my family to make trouble all day. There was no way, his parents helped pay back the money, and he also expressed that he would change his past.
But "the country is easy to change, but the nature is difficult to change." Not long after, he got addicted to gambling and was unstoppable. At this point, my parents really want to cry and have no ability to pay off their debts. The wife chose to divorce in anger. No one cares about him, he is confused all day long, hiding everywhere, and really lives into a bunch of scum that everyone despises.
4. A man who doesn’t marry a spoiled man who doesn’t know how to respect him
There is a man in our unit with 3 sisters on it. He belongs to the “super birth” product of his parents’ avoidance of family planning . For this boy, my parents suffered a lot, and each person was reduced by one level, and each person went to the most difficult position to train for two years.
But even so, the parents were very happy, after all, there was a boy. However, because this boy was favored by his parents, the three sisters above gave in to him, and all the delicious food and drinks belonged to him. Only the sisters could enjoy the things he didn't like.
Due to his spoiledness and character flaws since childhood, he really couldn't stand it in society. He would fight with others if he was a little dissatisfied, regardless of the consequences. Until later, during a fight, he stabbed the other party to death with one knife. Because it was manslaughter, he is still in prison.
5. Don’t marry a man who is too cowardly
The so-called man who is too cowardly is a man who has no ability, is angry everywhere, and cannot support his family. This kind of person is different from people who are not motivated. If you don’t motivate, you might have a personality. But a cowardly man is a man with no prospects. It is really better not to marry such a man.
Second, about "Men Don't Marry Six"
1. Don't Marry a Woman with a Decent Life
0 A Decent Life
A Decent Life malfunction is a family disaster. She makes men lose face, and the child is stabbed by others and cannot raise his head. The whole family is like a walking corpse. The tragedy of Pan Jinlian in "Water Margin" is a good proof.
2. Don’t marry a woman without filial piety
The children educated by women who do not know how to be filial are basically lacking in upbringing and love. It makes the family full of fear, and even neighbors will avoid it. People generally don’t say it in person, but behind it is ridiculed and abused. Just imagine, in such an external environment, the family will definitely not be much better.
3. Don’t marry a lazy woman by nature
Lazy woman by nature greedy. The lazy woman is, the more she likes to dress up all day long, and prefers to eat delicious food and drink spicy food. This is all family misfortune.
4. A woman who is not married or frugal
In ancient times, women who are not frugal were generally considered bad luck to the family. But to this day, this view is a bit unconventional.
5, do not marry a arrogant and unreasonable woman
Family should focus on love, not a reasonable place, but not a arrogant and unreasonable place. Especially between husband and wife, if you marry a arrogant and unreasonable wife, then this man will be done in his life. It is really worse than death and life is like years!
6. Don’t marry a woman who is too narcissistic
A woman who is narcissistic does not love her home, she loves herself and is completely self-centered. As long as you are happy in everything, how does other people feel that they have nothing to do with her? Just imagine, who dares to want such a woman?
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