text丨Tao Xiaojing
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Someone said: "Marriage is selfish. It only belongs to the world of two people and cannot tolerate the intercourse of others."
Indeed, the world of marriage is too small. It can only accommodate two people. Others who want to intervene in marriage will lead to the end of marriage.
If other people's intercourse is just an objective reason for the broken marriage, then the betrayal caused by the instability of the heart is the subjective reason for the broken marriage.
After being in the boring and boring marriage life, many people begin to feel tired. In this case, people who are more firm in their hearts will choose to be loyal to their marriage, while people who are not firm in their hearts may do things that betray their marriage.
There are few firm people, but there are many unfirm people, and the betrayals arise from this. Gradually, betrayal has become the mainstream problem in today's society.
Everyone who enters the marriage hall will involuntarily worry about problems with the marriage, and some people are even more careful and afraid that they will be betrayed.
However, a person who really wants to betray his marriage can never be prevented. Instead of being careful, it is better to observe carefully.
When a person betrays his marriage, he will have many changes. Although he has been trying hard to hide, as long as you keep your eyes open and grasp the details, you will definitely find something.
You should know whether a person betrays his marriage is actually easy to see.
See the communication situation
The couple live together, and communication is inevitable. Although many times they only focus on the topic of food, rice, oil and salt, at least the communication between the two people has not stopped.
The couple who can maintain communication will have no problems with their marriage even if they don’t have much feelings. And couples who have no communication at all are clearly full of cracks.
The amount of communication and the depth of communication can reflect to a certain extent the quality of a marriage.
So, if you want to know whether a person has betrayed his marriage, look at the communication between two people, the answer is clear at a glance.
In marriage, whether your partner is willing to communicate with you depends on your position in his mind. If he has betrayed you, then your communication will become less and less, not even less.
Good communication can stabilize the relationship between husband and wife. Only by maintaining communication between husband and wife can there be no big problems in marriage.
Look at home time
Marriage and extramarital affair are impossible to take into account. Once a person has an extramarital affair, he needs to spend more time with the extramarital affair, thereby ignoring his own marriage and family.
Although there are some people who are good time planners, everyone has so much time. It will definitely not be that easy to take into account both.
is because it is not easy, so some flaws are left. The most telling of the problem is the time when one person goes home.
When a person has not betrayed his marriage, he will go home as soon as possible after get off work, because he knows that his family is waiting for him to have dinner together. Even if he has conflicts with his partner, he will not ignore the family.
But once he betrays his marriage, going home is a very tormenting thing for him. He wishes to hand over all his time to people outside of marriage, so the time he goes home will get late and late, and sometimes he even doesn't get home at night. Such an obvious change in
is actually easy to see, and everyone dare not ignore it.
Please look at personal dressing
Whether it is a man or a woman, there will be a situation where people please themselves. Once this situation occurs, it means that betrayal has arrived.
A person suddenly started to dress himself up, and he would dress up carefully before going out, which means he was going to meet a very important person, and this person is likely to be his lover.
Before you have a lover, you will not care about your image at all, nor will you spend too much time dressing up yourself.
After having a lover, dressing up became his norm. He not only spent more time on dressing up, but also tried some dressing styles that he had never had before. The changes in personal image of
are actually easy to explain, but many people do not pay attention to it.
If you want to know whether a person has betrayed his marriage, then carefully observe his personal dress and don’t ignore the changes in this regard.
Xiaojing's emotional message:
There is no airtight wall under the day . No matter who it is, no matter how it is disguised, as long as it is betrayal, it will emerge one by one.
Everyone who betrays a marriage will make some changes invisibly, and these changes are precisely the evidence of his betrayal of his marriage.
Instead of being careful about betrayal, it is better to see its appearance as soon as possible. Only by realizing the arrival of betrayal as soon as possible can you make the right choice as soon as possible.
Although it feels bad to be betrayal, it has come to this point, and all we can do is face.
I hope everyone can understand that facing betrayal calmly and then making the right choice that is beneficial to them is the best protection for themselves.
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