A single elderly female netizen said that if she has someone she likes, she wants to find another companion, and her children ask her to think twice and even get in love. A bunch of netizens immediately offered her advice.
1, there is such a view. Don't look for it! ! ! (It's determined enough). It’s like you are a person who speaks clearly, why do you become confused when encountering things? Very few second marriages can have a good life! ! ! Why do you want to worry about that? But if there is someone you like very much, get along with each other carefully and leave enough room for yourself! Don’t get a certificate, the property is optimistic! !
Don’t think about taking men to shelter from the wind and rain. In fact, as for ordinary people, most of the wind and rain in the world are given by men! ! (I laughed so hard, so humorous). Children love you, and they want to remind you not to take that step easily. You must observe and test the other person's character. Most of your life has passed, and the rest of your life will not last long. Don't make things difficult for the rest of your life.
A cheerful person speaks refreshing words. You can raise your children from a young age and start a family and start a career. It is a great deal of hard work and great contribution. The son's crying and the daughter are both based on their feelings and perceptions of the sunset light of the old man at dusk. As children, they are both parties and bystanders. With a calm mind and bright eyes, they penetrate and see through the good and bad, good and bad of the person they like, and use crying and acting to stop the old man's match. They should seriously think about and examine the other person's past and current character and style, and suppress impulse and blindness. It is easy to marry again for a while, and get rid of the pain.
2, there is also such a view. My sister has already thought about it, don’t listen to others. Remember the old saying, it’s better to be a half-way couple than a whole family. No matter how good your children are, who can be with you every day? How old are you now? You will still have twenty or thirty years in the future, and the more you need to accompany you. You don’t need to register if you find each other. You have been there seriously at this age and don’t need that piece of paper to restrict it, but it’s not troublesome.
3, there is also such a view. If you are destined to find someone who understands you and loves you, no matter how good your children are, there is no one around you. If someone has a cold or fever, someone will bring you tea and water. The premise is that you must get a certificate. Don’t listen to others saying that you don’t get a certificate. Understand the law. Get a certificate and be protected by the law. If you must have someone to accompany you until you are old. If your children do not agree, then tell them, if you are old and sick, you cannot crawl and stay in bed and defecate, and you cannot take care of yourself, you need them to wipe your feces, urine, feed them food and medicine, go to the hospital for treatment, and accompany and take care of them 24 hours a day. Can they do it?
In short, if you have the same views, you can find one! Otherwise, I won’t settle!