After get off work in the afternoon, I walked through the alley and was surprised to see a man in his fifties squatting on the ground and crying bitterly. Then, he lay on the ground and rolled, crying loudly. No one knew the reason, and no one dared to persuade the man. The heart-wrenching cry echoed in the lonely alley.
As the saying goes, "A man doesn't cry easily when he has something extremely sad." Generally speaking, men will hold back their tears even when they encounter something extremely sad. Why does this man cry? What are you unable to think about? What touched the weakest part of his heart and made him so sad?
Here I suddenly thought, what is the role of a man? Generally speaking, men are fathers, husbands, sons, citizens and workers in social order, so men must make sacrifices for the country, collectives, organizations, families, wives and children. The man gained social recognition with his sweat and found his identity. No matter how many difficulties a man has in his sacrifice, it is their commitment to society and respect for brotherhood, which also gains the self-esteem that men deserve. Men enjoy the glory of character identification, and naturally, emotionally, they are not allowed to fail lightly. In general, tears represent cowardice and surrender.
Men and women are human gender groups that exist at the same time on this planet, but the nature of species is that both men and women generally tend to pay attention to women, because women are the carriers of uterus . They give birth to life so that humans can continue. Therefore, human population consciousness requires men to be strong and to create the necessary material conditions for women to nurture life. The more men create, the richer they are, the better they can prove their value and win love and respect. Therefore, the criterion for judging social values is that men who cannot create material conditions that women can satisfy and men who contribute less to their families than women should be naturally called losers.
Man's role
It is especially important to note that with the development of the times, men's work is often replaced by machines, and women can also participate in social production and create the material wealth they need. The role of men's social function declines and the status of women rises, causing men's traditional roles to decline and even stigmatize. The current woman’s catchphrase: “Women owe men nothing!” The determination to yell at a man with a woman: “Shut up!” is tantamount to a full-scale denial of a man’s basic dignity, value and self-esteem. What’s even more terrifying is that some groups absolutely exaggerate the concept of gender, ignore the social role of men as fathers, husbands and workers, and instead tell women that “men need to survive, men are born bad people” and directly beat men to the eighteen levels of hell.
As a traditional patriarchal society, our care for women in our lives is indeed very complete. But at the same time, after women's rights are guaranteed to the greatest extent, I also hope to pay attention to men. In the current family, men have worked under the dual pressure of social recognition and family recognition. The burden of social morality makes men more vulnerable and sensitive than women, so men also need support, understanding, patience, tolerance and encouragement. I think if a man starts to feel that a family is happier without him, it must be a tragedy!
Seeing a man crying, he thought about his words while walking, writing randomly here, just treating it as a blessing from a man to a man. (Zhang Yuezhuo, Xi'an, Shaanxi)
Men's pressure
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