Luo Zijun can't stand He Han's arrogant, narcissistic, and always showing off his superiority. He Han hates Luo Zijun's lack of self, and only knows how to surround her husband and children. If you feel the ability to bear the sky falling, you will feel the ability to bear it. On

He Han and Luo Zijun first met each other, and they both got sick of each other. Luo Zijun can't stand He Han's arrogant, narcissistic, and always showing off his superiority. He Han hates Luo Zijun's lack of self, and only knows how to surround her husband and children. If you feel the ability to bear the sky falling, you will feel the ability to bear it.

One of them is an elite in the workplace and the other is a housewife who has been full-time for many years. Without Tang Jing , they would not have any intersection. But no one expected that they met and fell in love because of Tang Jing. Tang Jing was sandwiched in the middle and became their obstacle.

Some people say that Tang Jing and He Han separated purely by themselves. He Han asked for marriage many times but she didn't agree. He Han couldn't stay where she was waiting for her, right? Some people also say that He Han is not sincere to Tang Jing, otherwise they would have been in love for 10 years and would have been married long ago. Why should they delay it until now?

In fact, Tang Jing and He Han knew in their hearts what the real reason why they couldn't get married was, but they were just unwilling to admit it.

He Han's test

Although He Han and Tang Jing are couples, the most discussed thing they have is work. He Han is like Tang Jing's leader, helping Tang Jing analyze her work confusion at any time and tell her how to sign a big order to gain a foothold in the company. Because He Han helped without reservation, Tang Jing trusted He Han more than everyone around him.

But while He Han was teaching Tang Jing, he was testing Tang Jing, causing Tang Jing to feel uneasy.

When Luo Zijun was shopping in the mall, she saw her husband and other women choosing jewelry. She was worried that her husband would have an external heart, so she called Tang Jing and asked her to check the girl's background. At that time, Tang Jing and He Han were having a meeting with the client. She was worried that Luo Zijun had something to look for her, so she left for a few minutes during the meeting.

What surprised Tang Jing was that she hung up the phone and hurried back to the conference room, but found that He Han had modified the data without hiding it and successfully reached a cooperation with the customer. Tang Jing didn't understand that no matter how hard she and He Han tried, they wouldn't be able to do this data. Why did He Han deceive customers? Just to win these customers? Isn’t doing this a shortcut against your conscience?

Tang Jing has always been upright in her behavior, so she said to He Han with anger: You can continue to take your shortcuts, you are you and I am me, I do not agree with your methods of doing things, and I will not follow you.

Tang Jing's style of doing things is to speak with facts. She disdains lying to please customers, and she does not bother to do anything to succeed. She has her principles and bottom line.

But He Han said to Tang Jing with confidence: Take money and eliminate disasters. We are not angels, we are not here to save sentient beings, the only thing we should be interested in is their wallets. Making the most money with the least time is efficiency. As for the truth, it is the job of the police.

Tang Jing didn't expect He Han would say such words. He Han could only use the customers and not be sincere. She didn't know if He Han was like this to her. What happened later in

quickly verified Tang Jing's idea.

He Han knew that he and Tang Jing were in the same company, and it was easy to have conflicts due to different styles of doing things. He did not want these things to affect the relationship he and Tang Jing had finally established, so he quit his job as a partner in the company.

He Han once put in too much effort for this job. Tang Jing didn't expect that He Han gave up for her. At that moment, she was moved. Because she found that in He Han's mind, she was more important than the position of a company partner.

The two started a romantic candlelight dinner. Tang Jing felt a little emotional. She didn’t know if she could sit together like she is now in ten or twenty years?

It is obvious that Tang Jing is hinting that He Han is looking for a promise. He Han bought a new house, invited Tang Jing to move in, and quit his job for Tang Jing. They sat opposite each other and ate a delicate candlelight dinner. The moonlight was right at this time and the atmosphere was right. Isn’t it a good time to propose?

But He Han said to Tang Jing: We don’t talk about the future, we don’t talk about marriage, and we don’t fall in love.

He Han is so smart, how could he not know what Tang Jing wants? But he deliberately interrupted the topic and was unwilling to make any promises.

Tang Jing soon discovered that the truth about He Han's resignation was not for her. He pretended to be affectionate and said that he had changed his new home, but he still met with Vivian without telling it. He said he resigned for Tang Jing, but he turned around and went to a competitor's company, becoming a rival with Tang Jing, competing for the same big customer. He said that he specially got up early to invite Tang Jing for breakfast, but in fact he had breakfast with a big customer, and just asked Tang Jing along the way.

He Han never told Tang Jing about his plans for the future. Tang Jing could only listen to the news that others inquired about to determine what He Han was doing. He Han's lies and mysterious whereabouts made Tang Jing dare not trust him 100%.

So when He Han put the wrong data he reported to the customer on Tang Jing's desk, Tang Jing showed the data to the customer without hesitation.

He Han has just jumped to a new company. This customer is the bargaining chip for He Han to discuss treatment with the company boss. If He Han loses this customer, he may not be able to stay in the company. But Tang Jing couldn't care about so much, and she also paid a lot to win this customer. Since He Hanxian was unkind, don't blame her for being unrighteous.

Tang Jing regretted this after doing it because she found that He Han was testing her. He Han had long known what news Tang Jing would hear and what judgment he would make. He just wanted to know whether Tang Jing would choose to work or choose him in a critical moment. When Tang Jing chose to work, He Han was a little disappointed.

He Han was disappointed that Tang Jing never believed him 100%. If he was really profit-oriented, would he and Lao Zhuo become friends for many years? If he was jealous of money, why would Adam rather let the company suffer losses than maintain his brotherhood with He Han? If he had no charm, why did he have so many subordinates who trusted him, and do everything as help as a fish in water?

If Tang Jing knows him more and trusts him more, he will not make such a choice. However, Tang Jing's choice also made He Han breathe a sigh of relief.

What He Han wants is a happy and warm family, not a workaholic wife. He has a successful career and no longer needs to use money to prove his abilities. What he needs is a beautiful and family-friendly wife to enjoy the warmth of a family of three. But Tang Jing lacked a sense of security since childhood, and money is her confidence. She will not give up her career for her family.

This test is unfair to Tang Jing, but it also indirectly proves that in Tang Jing's heart, work is more important than him. Since the Tao is different, how can we make plans?

2. The heart knot that I can’t let go

Tang Jing has no sense of security for marriage. She believes that being happy with the new and tired of the old is human nature. One day, someone who is more suitable for He Han than her will appear and replace her position. In order not to make himself too sad, Tang Jing has been preparing to leave He Han. But this test came too early, and before she and He Han got married, Vivian appeared.

Tang Jing once asked He Han: There are many people who like you. You feel accomplished when browsing their circle of friends every day, right? They knew that you like to run at night, so they would run out with heavy makeup, disheveled hair at seven or eight o'clock in the evening, and run out with fluorescent shiny body. Haven't you ever met them by chance?

They know that you like snorkeling , so they went to Sanya on the weekend, revealing the snow-white tender flesh that never sees the sun all year round, gestured and posted it on WeChat Moments. These people are really shameless and will not give up until they achieve their goals.

He Han heard that Tang Jing mocked Vivian and asked Tang Jing: You still care about Vivian and me before, right? You said you don’t care anymore and won’t pursue it anymore. Are these words false?

Tang Jing said what she said: A year ago, when she was in your house, lying on your bed, she took a selfie to the world, saying that she stayed at her boyfriend's house for the first time. Everyone in the company and even this building knew about it. Some people even sent me condolences. After that, eight of her circle of friends were related to you. Why didn’t you care about it?

He Han said to Tang Jing: Tang Jing, this incident has happened. Whether it is true or false, it has passed.When will we overcome this hurdle and not be entangled in this matter again? It was because of that photo that I made a big move to change my new home. I promise you that there will be her or not in the future. Are you satisfied?

Are you satisfied with He Han’s words? It seems affectionate, but it is actually perfunctory. He doesn't hate Vivian because compared to Tang Jing, Vivian's simplicity and pretentiousness are more charming. If Tang Jing hadn't been too disgusted with Vivian, he wouldn't want to draw a clear line with Vivian.

This is also the reason why Tang Jing regards Vivian as a thorn in his eyes. He Han knows that Tang Jing cares about Vivian, but he has never rejected Vivian directly. If he refuses, will the company still watch Tang Jing’s jokes? If he hadn't been a little sincere to Vivian, why did He Han propose to Tang Jing late at night just after Vivian was transferred from Hong Kong to work at Tang Jing's company? And what I said when I proposed was not that I love you, but that we should get married.

Tang Jing has worked hard in the workplace for many years. She is too smart, so she can see through He Han’s guilt when he proposed to her at a glance.

She deliberately asked He Han: What do you mean? You can clearly tell me tomorrow or the day after tomorrow, when we are having a meal or running that we should get married. Why did you suddenly come to me so late? What are you afraid of?

He Han said heavily: I am afraid that things will not go as they wish, I am afraid that we will eventually get separated after so many years.

He Han has never been with Vivian. He is doing the right way, so why should he be afraid? In fact, after all, he was afraid of Vivian's arrival because Vivian's appearance reminded him that he didn't seem to want to marry Tang Jing so much.

Tang Jing deliberately refused He Han's proposal in order to determine He Han's wishes for him, and told everyone that she was going to Hong Kong alone to start a new career.

As long as He Han says something to keep, Tang Jing will stay. But He Han did not try to keep him, but instead said: This rotation is the best way for Tang Jing to pass the bottleneck period of his career. After returning, you can pass the partners smoothly, reducing unnecessary waiting and competition.

He Han was too rational. He knew that Tang Jing was acting impulsively, but he also knew that Tang Jing had carefully considered love and career, and Tang Jing had to choose one. If He Han wants her to keep her, she will choose love. If He Han did not try to keep her, she would at least have a career and would not have nothing.

Luo Zijun advised Tang Jing to think it through carefully. Tang Jing said meaningfully: Hong Kong is not the moon. I am single anyway, and no matter how far I am, I have been alone, and no matter how far I am, there is more than one person to stay for a year. For me, Hong Kong is not a problem at all.

Tang Jing's words have already pointed out the relationship between her and He Han. Although she and He Han have been in love for ten years, they don’t really spend much time together, and He Han has never given her boyfriend the care and company she should have given. In He Han's eyes, Tang Jing is tenacious and resilient. No matter what difficulties she encounters, she can survive it alone.

He Hanruo likes Tang Jing, how could he bear to watch her grit her teeth and hold on, and watch her get wet in the rain without holding an umbrella for her? After all, I still don’t care enough.

Although He Han helped Tang Jing a lot, these helps were mainly for work. He Han knew very well that he and Tang Jing were both teachers and friends. Although they had a good relationship, they had both wins and losses. From the moment he resigned and Tang Jing became a competitor, they were destined to leave one person. Tang Jing left Shanghai, for him, it was liberation. Tang Jing couldn't let go of Vivian's knot, and he didn't want to explain that he and Vivian had nothing to do. When he was tired, Tang Jing left, he could only take a breath and be himself.

3. Tang Jing and He Han showdown

Tang Jing has experienced many things in Hong Kong and got sick. She suddenly realized that waiting for He Han's true confession is a waste of life. Since she likes He Han and wants to be with him, why should she waste her precious time because of those unimportant people and things?

But when she returned to Shanghai happily and was about to marry He Han, she found that He Han had already changed her heart and fell in love with her best friend Luo Zijun.

Tang Jing took off the wedding ring on his hand and asked He Han: There are so many women who love you, tell me, why is Luo Zijun?

Tang Jing can't figure it out. She is excellent, self-disciplined, and successful. She is more compatible with He Han in her career and appearance. Why did He Han fall in love with Luo Zijun, who was once despised by him everywhere?

He Han explained: I have also asked myself this question, but I can't tell the specific reason. Maybe it's because we are together and feel it's real and relaxed. We are a type of people. All the success, excellence, and freedom above our heads put a lot of pressure on us. We are obviously tired, but we still have to pretend to be effortless. Is this kind of life what we want?

Tang Jing also understood what He Han said. She and He Han are both strong. They have been in love for 10 years, and they seem to have complementary advantages and are handsome, but they know in their hearts that living with another person every day is just dependence, not love.

Love should be about doing boring and meaningless things together, but they enjoy it, but they have nothing to talk about except for work. They don’t want to admit that this is not love, so they always use busyness as an excuse to reduce the time they meet.

10 years have passed, and He Han’s showdown exposes the truth that they have been in love for 10 years but have not gotten married. These words are too cruel, and they don’t want to believe them, but they have to accept them. Because He Han met true love, he couldn't continue acting.

Is there love between He Han and Tang Jing?

I think that although He Han and Tang Jing have no love, they have deep friendship. When Tang Jing was at its most difficult time, He Han was with her. When He Han was working hard for his career, it was Tang Jing who witnessed his growth. They support each other and rely on each other during the trough period of their lives.

Tang Jing is self-disciplined and capable, hardworking and focused, He Han is smart and wise, and good at the worldly style. They learn from their strengths and weaknesses in their careers, and each has its own strengths. In the eyes of their peers, they are outstanding and colorful, and very compatible.

He Han appreciates Tang Jing's style of doing things. He is successful and conceited. He believes that his future partner should be excellent. Only in this way can he always be envious and become a winner in life in other people's words. In order to maintain this glamorousness, he has been working hard and maintaining his relationship with Tang Jing.

The reason why he didn't say what he loved Tang Jing was because he had been waiting for someone better than Tang Jing to appear. He believed that with Tang Jing's intelligence, he would definitely leave with decent. If not, he would at least choose Tang Jing. Whether it is a partner or a work partner, Tang Jing is a good choice.

Tang Jing relies more on He Han. Tang Jing has experienced too many unknown bitterness along the way. Apart from Luo Zijun, He Han is her only trusted friend of the opposite sex. In Tang Jing's eyes, He Han could do everything, as if any tricky things were in his hands, and it was nothing.

He Han is also loyal enough to Tang Jing. As long as Tang Jing speaks, he will definitely help him. Tang Jing relies on this feeling, but He Han has too many confidants. In order to keep this relationship from being changed, Tang Jing can only work hard to live the way He Han likes. Unfortunately, she has been acting for ten years, tired for ten years, and has let down her youth.

After Tang Jing and He Han broke up, although she was sad for a while, she gradually became softer and more intellectual. Perhaps one day, she met someone who truly loved each other and understood that true love does not rely on the cultivating spring heart to relieve the rebellious loneliness between each other, but while willingly giving, she will continue to grow and mature.

There is a saying in " Heart Hunter ": A person has always been kind to you and has been working hard to protect you. In addition to being grateful, he will also develop dependence, but that is definitely not love.

is not a lover who can chat or have a good relationship. Complementary personalities are the key to love. Some people understand each other and trust each other, but they are destined to be friends but not lovers. This is the case with Tang Jing and He Han. Their personalities are too similar and they are destined to be friends and not husband and wife.