"Nizzy Joy" spreads on university campuses, but I don't know if it is overdrawing the future
What is the "Nizzy Joy" phenomenon? This word appeared as early as the 1990s. Its original meaning refers to a newborn baby who will be very satisfied as long as he has milk. is extended to social phenomena, which means providing some people with spiritual pleasure, so that he forgets to strive for something that is beneficial to his own development.
And what is the phenomenon of "nipples" in university campuses? Simply put, many college students only care about things that can make themselves happy in front of them. does not consider for their future development in their studies and indulge in the current relaxed and happy state.
Learning is not a happy thing for most students, but learning is the responsibility of students. However, many college students give up focusing on their own responsibilities and indulge in other things that make them happy, such as playing games and watching TV series.
There are many students who stay up late to do these things in the university dormitory, , and many college students are gradually becoming Buddhist in their studies. They have a long live passive attitude and only review before the final exam. They usually use sleeping and watching dramas to pass the time when they listen to classes, and they start to stay up late to play games at night.
College students think that going to college is to relax freely and no longer have to be tired of their studies. is addicted to everything that makes them happy except study , but they do not know that the happiness of the present is overdrawing their future.
Compared with "nipples", "delayed gratification" is more conducive to the future development of college students
delayed gratification is a state that is opposite to nipple joy. mainly refers to giving up the current satisfaction choice for more valuable long-term results . Although many students choose the former compared with nipple joy and delayed gratification, the latter is undoubtedly more beneficial to students' future development.
Study is hard, but compared with the hardship of work, it is not worth mentioning. Many students are addicted to the joy of nipples that make them happy at the moment. gives up the hardship of studying, so after graduation, they may have to accept the hardship of work. Many newly graduated college students always complain that it is difficult to find employment now and have not caught up with the good times. But in fact, there are always some college students who can find jobs smoothly and find high-paying jobs, , and this is the price of students overdrawing their future when they go to school.
If life is divided into several stages, then from elementary school to university is undoubtedly the most important stage to strive for, because only when students accumulate during this period can they exchange what they have learned to gain the results of the next stage. has lost the previous accumulation, and after graduation, they will only have the consequences of wasting time , and the regret of not being ideal after a few years of employment.
nipple joy will indeed make college students feel happy at the moment, but this kind of happiness is too cheap. Watching TV series, star-chasing and playing games is just a way to relax. If college students put it in front of their studies and missed the learning stage, there will be nothing left . It takes four years to let themselves go, and then nothing is left. If you work hard for four years to exchange for satisfaction in the next few decades, it should be considered by college students.
What should college students do during school if they want to obtain "delayed gratification"?
In fact, it is very simple for college students to gain "delayed gratification" after graduation. During school, they only need to focus on their efforts. As long as they do more than others, they will definitely gain even greater.
For college students, academic performance is of course the premise of everything. Whether it is the postgraduate entrance examination or employment in a private enterprise, the score of is always a benchmark for evaluating whether college students are excellent. Therefore, college students must maintain their studies for a limited time, not only long live 600 points, but also get scholarships and high grade points. These are proofs that can make themselves limitedly admitted when seeking opportunities.
The second is to enhance the added value. The abilities of college students are invisible. It is difficult to instantly show how good their abilities are during interviews. The added value may be the embodiment of comprehensive abilities. The added value of college students includes various professional certificates, competition certificates or honor certificates above the school level and above . These do not necessarily allow college students to find a good job, but they can prove that students are better under the same circumstances.
If college students want to successfully complete the role transformation between students and people in the workplace, improves their emotional intelligence and participates more practical activities. The biggest advantage of college students is that they are good at studying and exams, and the disadvantages are exactly the same. Many college students only know theoretical knowledge and only know how to do questions. but cannot communicate with others, and they will not express themselves. This is a big shortcoming when looking for a job. Therefore, by participating in various activities during college, they will exercise their social skills, and they will also prepare to adapt to employment as soon as possible in the future.
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