Since elementary school, we have been comparing our grades with our classmates; after we grow up, no matter whether we want or not, our parents will compare marriages and work with our relatives' children; colleagues will also secretly compete to see who is promoted quickly...
Scores, college entrance examinations, jobs, positions, one by one are witnesses of our growth. At the same time, the pressure makes people feel a little breathless. People's desires are unlimited. Even if you have a good job and a high salary, you may still look at the mountain high. Although this kind of spiritual internal friction, although it has won material abundance, the spiritual world may be desolate. This is also the root cause of many people who have clearly lived an enviable life but are still unhappy.
The last class of the university, the teacher warned students three things
When it comes to university teachers, many people admire them because they have professional knowledge, high education, and high social status, which are very respected.
In fact, in addition to having professional knowledge, university teachers also have more knowledge about the world, life, and the richness of the spiritual world than many students.
Shangqiu, Henan, the last class taught by a university teacher to students became popular. It was originally taught online, but the teacher put it offline. She did not talk about professional knowledge, she was talking about life philosophy.
She said: "Life is moving forward. Don't regret what you have done. Don't spend your emotions and emotions on regret. Everyone should learn to accept that you are an ordinary person..."
This professional teacher finally summarized three things in contemporary times that need to be sober in the world: Give up decisively, don't regret it, accept the ordinary, and then live a happy and happy life.
The words of a university teacher are good advice to stop mental internal friction. How many people can they cure mental internal friction?
Although the philosophy of life mentioned by university teachers is only a few short sentences, it has a sudden enlightenment. I think these words should be able to express the hearts of many people. After listening to this class, students will have more or less touched and can get some inspiration. They are good advice to stop mental internal friction.
Maybe, when some people hear this teacher's words, they may think that they are "lying flat". In fact, this is not the case. In my opinion, this is to let everyone reach a reconciliation with themselves, not to "show off".
competition almost runs through our lives. In our studies, work and career, we will constantly compete and compare with others, which is almost inevitable.
However, whether we can be the first or excellent may not be determined by our will and efforts. In this world, there must be some people who become flowers, some who are the foil of green leaves; some people have the halo of protagonists, and some people will definitely be unknown.
If you are a green leaf or do not have a protagonist halo, what do you need to think about it?
Is it because I torture myself and make myself very painful, or is it optimistic and open-minded and accepting my ordinaryness.
In terms of academic performance, we have worked very hard, but we just can't get into the university we like. Do we have to learn to give up?
Teachers and parents warn us to endure the hardships of study so that we will not endure the hardships of life. But we, who are ignorant and unknown, do we understand these things? Only after we grow up, will we regret not listening to adults, but is it useful to regret?
The proportion of people who have been admitted to 985 and 211 universities is a very small part of the candidates. Most people can only go to ordinary colleges and universities, with limited quality educational resources and limited personal abilities. Do we have to accept our ordinaryness?
If you cannot reach a reconciliation with yourself and are unwilling to compromise, you will torture yourself in great pain; if you can accept your ordinaryness, know how to give up, and won’t regret what you have done, you will become happy.
If you can understand the words of this university teacher, you will master the way to get along with this world and heal your own internal mental friction. I wonder how many people can be cured?
Know how to give up, accept the ordinary, and you will not regret it. You will master the secret of happiness
I think that whether it is studies, marriage, work and career, we should not spend our emotions and emotions on regret, and we should learn to accept that we are an ordinary person.
Give you an example. In order to get into Tsinghua , he took the college entrance examination 14 times and repeated the examination for 13 years. During this period, he gave up Southwest University of Political Science and Law, Jilin University , China University of Political Science and Law , Xiamen University , Guangxi University , Chongqing University . He was admitted to Shanghai Jiaotong University for 597 points this year. He once again gave the pigeon from this university and started his 14th resumption. The road to the college entrance examination is particularly long.
When it comes to this candidate, I believe many people will feel it is a pity. Even though they have been admitted to a prestigious school, they have delayed their youth and energy for the sake of Tsinghua University in their hearts. They are still a high school student at the age of 34. This should be because they do not know how to give up decisively and are unwilling to accept ordinary results.
Just imagine, if Tang Shangjun was not so paranoid, he might have graduated from college and had a good harvest in both family and career.
Similarly, many people spend their time and youth in their emotions for the person they are not worthy of being like, but in the end they do not come together, which is also the result of not knowing how to give up decisively.
People are constantly doing multiple-choice questions in their lives. We encourage persistence, but don’t go all the way and learn to give up. Only then will we usher in the change of "Shandong's waters are no longer road, and there will be another village in darkness and brightness."
We have no chance to correct the mistakes we have done, so don’t think about it anymore. Continuing to think about it will only add to the sadness. So why not look forward actively?
Everyone desires to be excellent and to be recognized by others. This kind of mood is understandable, but successful people are a minority after all, and most people will become ordinary, regardless of whether you accept it or not.
So, why not reach a settlement with yourself?
This is not "showing down" or "lying down". Working hard in an ordinary position and pursuing progress is also contributing to this society and having a value. You don't have to underestimate yourself. You can only meet a better self and master the secret of happiness, rather than falling into "mental internal friction" and being unable to extricate yourself.
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