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The parents who feel sorry for their daughter. When their daughter is at the age of marriage, they always advise their daughter to keep their eyes wide open and look at the person they see, and not to marry a family with many sons casually.
Family with many sons means that the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is complicated and complicated. Once these interpersonal relationships are not handled properly, your marriage and family will also be dragged down.
Do not marry a family with many sons. This is not until Yang Min married her husband and saw her in-laws' preference with her own eyes that she truly understood this truth. My mother-in-law gave her money and supplies to her brother and sister-in-law for 10 years and helped her take care of her child for half a year, but her mother-in-law wanted to leave 30,000 yuan, and she also asked Yang Min to take care of her child's own expenses, and she had no obligation.
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Before Yang Min married the family of the two brothers, her parents tried their best to dissuade her and told her that she would not have a better life when she married the family of the two brothers. But she wanted to marry her husband at that time and had no time to take care of these things. Seeing that she was stubborn, my parents had to obey her.
After Yang Min married her husband as she wished, she realized that she had really jumped into the pit. My husband's brother is very slick and good at pleaseing his parents-in-law. My husband is honest and honest, and he can't speak sweet words. Therefore, since childhood, his parents-in-law have been partial to his brother.
The brother and sister-in-law got married, and their parents-in-law paid for the house and gave the bride gift, and they wanted to take out all their belongings. But when it was their turn, my in-laws said they had no money and they were done, and asked the couple to find a way to handle it themselves.
My husband doesn’t make a fuss, and he borrowed money from his friend to collect the betrothal gift. He also aggrieved Yang Min first to rent a house to get married, so he successfully dealt with the marriage. Looking at such a strong contrast, Yang Min felt particularly wronged, but she couldn't complain about her husband.
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Yang Min and her husband had just gotten married for less than three months, and their parents-in-law said they wanted to separate. The so-called separation of family members in-laws is to transfer their house in their hometown to their husband's brother. As for the money, my parents-in-law said they would keep it themselves and support their eldest son in the future.
In-laws said they wanted to support their eldest son, so even if Yang Min and her husband were unwilling to leave the family, they could only compromise. After all, whoever is given a house will be responsible for the elderly.
, and my parents-in-law began to pay money and stuff to help my brother and sister-in-law take care of their children, and they have been in the area for 10 years. During this period, Yang Min got pregnant and gave birth. Her mother-in-law did not come to help because she was taken care of by Yang Min’s mother.
But 10 years later, my in-laws were swept out by my sister-in-law, saying that the house was small and the family of four was very crowded, so I asked my in-laws to find my youngest son to support me. So, my parents-in-law came to Yang Min's house again.
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Yang Min didn't want to take it in, but it was obvious that her husband had spoken, and her in-laws looked pitiful, but she still felt soft-hearted. After his parents-in-law lived, they said they wanted to help Yang Min take care of the children. But my parents-in-law had only been taking care of the child for half a year, but she had to leave for 30,000 yuan. And the 30,000 yuan was also subsidized by the parents-in-law and brother and sister-in-law.
At first, Yang Min was not aware of it, but every time her parents-in-law asked her for money to buy things, she always used the banner of buying things for her children. Yang Min is very busy with work every day and doesn’t care about her children. She can only give her as much as her parents-in-law wants.
But my parents-in-law ask for money every time, and they will ask for money again. After more times, Yang Min became suspicious and secretly observed her mother-in-law for a while before she discovered it. She gave her mother-in-law money, and her mother-in-law would call her husband and brother to come to get the money.
Yang Min argued with her mother-in-law indignantly, but her mother-in-law said with confidence that the 30,000 yuan is the hard work you gave us, and it is mine if you give me. I will make the decision on my money, and you don’t care who I subsidize. Anyway, whoever raises his children will be borne by himself, and I will not pay for you to raise your children out of my own pocket.
After hearing what my mother-in-law said, Yang Min did not argue any more. She just urged him to send his in-laws back to his brother and sister-in-law's house after get off work. She had no obligation to use money to subsidize her brother and sister-in-law, and in the end she also took all the pension expenses for her parents-in-law.
Today’s topic:
Do you support Yang Min sending away his off-sentient in-laws?
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