I am Brother Hui, and I make an appointment with you every day to have an emotional world. I have a story, do you have wine?
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Preface: There is a saying: "Marry a wife and marry virtue but not sex, and marry a man and marry a heart but not wealth."
Marriage is a lifelong thing. To be together for a long time, two people must be consistent in their views and be able to chat with each other. Therefore, it is particularly important for a wife to be virtuous and husband to have a heart. Only in this way can husband and wife help each other, respect each other, appreciate each other, and grow together.
A good wife is a catalyst for a man's career success , because she will take good care of everyone in the family and let her husband fight without any concern outside; while a bad wife is like a man's nightmare , because she will make her husband anxious every day, have no desire to fight every day, just want to find a corner and hide quietly.
There is a kind of wife called " Helping Brother Demon ". After marriage, they will help their parents' brothers and younger brothers without principles, regardless of their family, and think that they have the ability, so they should give their all their help to their parents' family. This type of people is irresponsible for their marriage, and they do not have a clear understanding of it. Many people marry such women, and the final result is mostly broken family and lost both their wealth.
The sister helped her brother buy a house with full payment. The brother-in-law complained that there was no decoration money, and was taught a lesson by his brother-in-law squatting
The author recently saw a video: In a decoration company, a couple took their wife's uncle to see the decoration design. Just because of a complaint from his brother-in-law, the brother-in-law squatting squatting squatting squatting squatting. After reading it, it is a pity. At the beginning of the video, a middle-aged woman walks in the middle, her husband and younger brother follow closely. The woman and her younger brother talked about decorating the house while walking, and commented on the decoration material that they saw when they walked by.
The two people discussed it very enthusiastically. The husband next to the woman was like an outsider. He occasionally interrupted and was immediately despised by his wife and brother-in-law.
From their conversation, we can learn that the woman helped her brother buy a house in full. Now she takes her brother to see the decoration design, and wants to help her brother decorate the full amount.
Seeing that his wife ignored his opinions and took over the renovation of her brother-in-law's house with great care, the man muttered, "Look, you have bought a house for your brother. Our family has no extra savings. Let's see if you can let your brother find a way for the decoration cost?"
The man's words were reasonable and his words were very sincere. It not only explained the efforts of the family to buy a house, but also pointed out the current financial difficulties of the family. Moreover, his words were obviously in a negotiating tone and did not completely say it.
But unexpectedly, the brother-in-law on the side became furious when he heard that his brother-in-law had to bear the cost of house decoration by himself. He suddenly stepped forward and pinched his brother-in-law's neck and shouted, "You didn't treat me as a family at all when you said this! What's wrong with me spending you a little money? My sister should support me!"
Faced with the anger and provocation of his brother-in-law, the man seemed very frightened and did not have the courage to resist. When the wife who was traveling with her husband was taught a lesson, she not only did not step forward to dissuade her brother, but instead hid behind him and looked at her husband's experience in front of her indifferently.
A minute later, the brother-in-law saw that his brother-in-law did not resist and did not dare to resist, so he let his brother-in-law go viciously, and then continued to walk forward with his sister to discuss the decoration matters.
The man who was released looked panicked and angry. He began to cover his face with his hands, muttering, as if he was complaining about something, and as if he was venting something. Perhaps, he had long been used to this kind of experience, so he soon packed up his mood and left.
From the picture, we can see that this man loves and tolerates his wife very much, but his bottomless love eventually brought harm to himself.
Hui Ge commented
Leonidova once said: "The basis of marriage is love, attachment, and respect."
Love requires two-way rushing, life and death dependence, and mutual respect. A harmonious family requires the joint efforts of both husband and wife, rather than relying on one party to desperately give in and maintain.
As a woman, it is nothing wrong to not forget her roots after marriage and help her family properly. However, you must never ignore your family, ignore your husband and children's feelings in order to help your mother's family, and spend all your money. This is a completely irresponsible manifestation.
The terrible thing about supporting my brother is that it ignores the overall situation and has no bottom line. In their hearts, they mistakenly believe that true relatives are always their mother's family, and that the future they are worth relying on will always be their brother and younger brother. As for the husband, it is like clothes. If you don’t like him, you can throw him away.
From the video, it can be seen that the love and concession of men may touch everyone, but it will definitely not touch the wife who ignores her family. It is the wife's disdain for her husband that makes her brother-in-law so unscrupulous and absurd and shameless, just because her brother-in-law's words made him unhappy.
If a man lives in his family without dignity and has such a low status, it is better to be brave enough for himself and leave with dignity. In the future, may never meet the person you love, but may you be able to give yourself a chance to meet someone you love.
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Author profile: Brother Hui, a middle-aged uncle who has been running, hopes to use his clumsy words to wake up those sleepy people.
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