We deal with all kinds of people every day, and interpersonal relationships are problems we have to face every day. Some people feel like spring breeze when we get along with them, while others make people retreat and stay away from them.
We live not to please others, but when we get along happily with others, the biggest beneficiary is ourselves.
So how can we handle interpersonal relationships well? By doing the following three points, your popularity will get better and better.
1. Keep a low profile
There was a business trip. During the break after lunch, a woman kept talking nonstop. The theme of her speech was showing off.
talks about how considerate her husband is, including all housework, children are picked up and dropped off, and homework is tutoring. She is only responsible for her beauty.
said that her son is handsome, cute and smart, and is a primary school master. Every teacher likes it. He also said that his son is very attached to her and is more considerate than a little cotton jacket.
She didn't tell someone, but to a group of people around her, and everyone echoed and praised them while listening.
But do you really like to date her? After a few days of getting along, I found that there was always a group of people around her, but none of them were really close to her.
Low-key behavior makes people feel comfortable. No one likes to listen to others showing off all day and make themselves feel depressed.
And the impression that it gives people is unreliable first.
2. Respect others
Xiao Li and Xiao Wang are in the same office.
One day at noon, Xiao Wang told everyone that I would invite everyone to have rice with a bowl at noon today, and everyone will report their favorite dishes.
When Xiao Li registered the dish, Xiao Wang looked at him with a strange look.
takeaway was brought, and everyone in the office had it, but Xiao Li's one was not.
It turned out that Xiao Wang invited all his colleagues in the office to dinner, but Xiao Li was missed.
Xiao Li felt very embarrassed.
Then he said, I'll treat everyone to milk tea.
When Xiao Li distributed milk tea to everyone, Xiao Wang sat there feeling like he was sitting on pins and needles.
others have finished sending it. Xiao Li walked up to Xiao Wang and said, "This cup of milk tea is for you, I don't know if it suits your appetite."
Xiao Wang was embarrassed to drink milk tea, so Xiao Li took out the straw, inserted it into the milk tea cup, put it in front of him, and said sincerely, drink it quickly, you have to be polite.
Since then, everyone has been admiring Xiao Li, and Xiao Wang and Xiao Li have also eliminated their grudges and become good friends.
33. Gains and losses are at odds
People get along with people, hard work alone, fate is also very important.
If you treat him well, he will definitely treat you well. It’s not that you are good to him, he will also repay you with the best to him.
If your efforts do not get the response you want, it means that the other party has no desire to have a deep relationship with you. Stop it, don’t make things difficult for yourself or others.
is like life. Don’t compare the price after buying things. Don’t regret it after eating them. Don’t suspect it when you love them. Don’t slander it when you leave them. Don’t worry about rewards when you give.
We must have the wisdom to choose and the courage to take on the choice.
How many friends have gone as they walk, let us remember the warmth of the past.
How many friends, no matter how many years change, they are always by your side, let us learn to cherish it.
Keep a low profile, respect others, take advantage of the gains and losses, and do these three things, your popularity will get better and better.
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