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I am Ye Feifei yff, a non-famous emotional instructor, who writes heart-wrenching emotional texts, hoping to bring you some spiritual comfort with warm words.
Men go out to steal food, and they are usually very particular when choosing women.
On the one hand, they need to be safe and do not want the relationship to be exposed, so that they can maintain a long-term lover relationship.
On the other hand, when a man tastes the freshness, he will think about getting out of the way and not being entangled by women, ensuring that his betrayal is safe.
In fact, men are very realistic. They want to get fresh and exciting feelings from women, but they don’t want to be responsible.
Therefore, when they look for a betrayal partner, they will fully consider whether this woman can tease her and whether she can escape unscathed.
If you find that a woman is in trouble, you won’t tease her rashly. You would rather find a safer woman than be entangled.
So, a man decided to go out and steal food, and he must find a woman who has no safety hazards and is charming to gain emotional satisfaction.
In the emotional cases I have done, I have come into contact with many men who betrayed their feelings, and there are 78 representative examples. By analyzing these betrayal cases, I found that men often choose the following three types of women:
1. The opposite sex I have known for a long time
The old saying goes: "There will be the moon before the water."
puts it on men, which has the most intuitive manifestation. When they go out to tease women, they like to start from the opposite sex they know around them.
In the eyes of men, familiar women around them have a certain understanding and contact, which often makes it easy to get closer to each other.
Therefore, men will choose from these women who have known each other for a long time and are more familiar with each other to see which woman is the best to flirt with.
Once the goal is determined, men will take the next action . They are very funny and humorous in front of women, and know how to please women, which is easy to get started.
When women see such men coming to tease, they generally do not have a strong sense of vigilance, because everyone is acquaintances and after knowing each other for so long, they will naturally relax and alert.
For example, from the 78 cases I have come into contact with, many men will choose female neighbors and chat with female colleagues at work.
These two types of women are the women men like to tease the most, and it is easy to become the beginning of extramarital affair.
For female colleagues, a man has had frequent interactions with her at work. If you use a little bit of attention and ask her out for dinner or movies, it will not arouse her alertness.
As long as a woman gives a chance, she will let the man take advantage of the situation. This kind of man understands the psychology of women and presses step by step, which will basically make women unable to resist.
In addition, men are more likely to tease familiar female neighbors. Both parties often meet, which makes the two people feel no distance. If they seize the opportunity, ambiguous relationship will be born.
Moreover, once a man succeeds in , the woman will not say it out. It is relatively safe and basically has no worries about .
2. Married women with unhappy marriage
In addition to familiar women around you, men also like to tease married women with unhappy marriage.
In the eyes of men, this kind of woman is dissatisfied with marriage and is eager to find other comfort in her heart, so she is easy to get it.
Moreover, for most married women, even if they have an ambiguous relationship outside of marriage, they will not let others know and will take the initiative to conceal the relationship.
Therefore, this kind of woman is very safe, and men don’t have to worry about exposing their relationships, and they can escape at any time.
When a man wants to have an ambiguous relationship with a woman, he can find her. Don’t worry that she won’t come out, because women have no expectations for their marriage and are very eager to be loved and cared for.
When men give them some sweetness and say some sweet words, they can make women addicted.
The most important thing is that men don’t want to play anymore and can leave at any time. Married women will not get entangled, which is the best way for men to retreat.
In my consulting case, there was a man named Mr. Chen. When he was sent to study by the company, he met a married woman. When both parties were studying together, they chatted very much and added friends to each other.
After chatting for a month, Mr. Chen also learned about the woman's marital status. This woman has been married to her husband for more than ten years and lives a dull life.
My husband is not very motivated, his monthly salary is less than 8,000 yuan, but he often goes out to eat, drink and have fun with his friends, and looks like he is just living a mediocre life.
Therefore, she and her husband often quarreled, and then there was a cold war. Sometimes her husband beat and scolded her, and the two of them had been in bed for seven or eight years.
Mr. Chen learned about these situations and was convinced that this woman had a very unhappy marriage and had a strong emotional demand.
So, he took a little thought to give her care and comfort, and soon gained her trust and finally had an intimate relationship.
The two of them have been together for two years and have not been discovered by others. After that, Mr. Chen left, and she did not bother her and everything was fine.
So, men are very moved by married women with unhappy marriage. They are not really loving her, but because they are easy to get started with and do not have to be responsible. They can leave at any time. It is very safe .
3. Young and beautiful little girl
In addition to the first two women, men also like to tease young and beautiful little girls, which is the pursuit of almost all men.
However, when choosing a target, men will have certain choices, and they will usually choose the more materialistic girl.
Although young and beautiful is the first choice, for safety reasons, they need to pinch the little girl's weakness.
Therefore, if a young and beautiful girl seems more materialistic and materialistic, she will easily become the object of men's teasing.
girls like this can capture their hearts as long as there are men who are willing to pay and are willing to spend money on them.
For men, things that can be solved with money are not a problem at all. Anyway, they will not give their sincerity, everything is just a play.
Both parties will get the needs and will not get entangled afterwards. In the eyes of men, this is the safest relationship .
Ye Feifei yff emotional message:
In summary, men often choose these three types of women:
The opposite sex that has known each other for a long time is easy to gain the trust of women; married women with unhappy marriage are the safest in extramarital affair; young and beautiful little girls are the favorites in men's hearts.
In fact, many men go out to tease women and consider safety and do not want to cause trouble for themselves.
Therefore, when they look for these types of women, there will be basically no accidents and can maintain extramarital relationships for a long time.
This reminds women that when faced with men's teasing, they must be cautious and never trust them easily.
A man like this has no sense of responsibility. He does not really love you, but wants to seek freshness and excitement for the sake of satisfaction of desires, and is not worthy of his feelings.
At the same time, I also hope that men in reality can adhere to the bottom line of loyalty, not develop extramarital lovers, and cherish the women around them, which is the decent adults should have.
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