Logically speaking, children should not think so. Even if the father does something wrong, they should not hope that the father will leave quickly. The 58-year-old aunt cried: 87-year-old father, just let me go, don’t torture me, okay?

? There is actually a daughter who hopes to remember her father to leave quickly. Why? Logically speaking, children should not think so. Even if the father does something wrong, they should not hope that the father will leave quickly. It's really a rebellious to have such an idea. Why is this happening with

? Let's take a look at this matter together. At the same time, I also hope to remind all young people through this case. It’s really not easy to be considerate of your parents. Treat your parents well. If there are some choices, parents don’t want to do this. The 58-year-old aunt cried: 87-year-old father, just let me go, don’t torture me, okay?

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58-year-old aunt Zhang:

I have a pension of 3,500 yuan per month. Then my father had more than 4,000 yuan in retirement every month. Total of this is more than 8,000 a month. You should have a happy life. Everyone says this, what else is not satisfied with having so much money? Nowadays, the society is more than 8,000 yuan and can do a lot of things. But I only have one idea now, that is, I hope my father will leave quickly.

really, if my father doesn't leave, I feel like I can't survive anymore. Maybe you think what I said is ruthless, after all, any child hopes that his parents will leave quickly. I told you that my father still has so much pension every month. Isn’t it because my father has left so much money? What I want to say is that I would rather have no money to spend in the future, and I also want my father to leave quickly. Once my father leaves, I will no longer be tortured. Otherwise, my life would really not be able to continue.

I am really uncomfortable, and you don’t think I am ruthless. Even if you encounter these things in me, maybe you will say that too... My father has been paralyzed in bed for more than 6 years. At the beginning, it was my two brothers who took care of it. Let me say more here: when you are old, don’t drink too much wine, let alone eat too much meat. This time I was not good for my health. My father just disobedient because of this problem and was paralyzed by stroke.

How many times have I told my father? You must pay attention to your health. You can drink alcohol and eat meat, but you must behave properly, especially when you get older, many functions of your body are not as good as those of your youth. But my father said that when I was young, I had no choice but to eat. At that time, I was so concerned about you children, so I couldn't bear to eat and wear, so I left all the best for you. Now I can't eat anything? It's not about doing something bad. And I didn't spend your money.

was directly criticized by my father and had nothing to say. Then my brother told my father that although we did not spend our money, although our body belongs to you, and even if you have your own freedom, have you ever thought about it for us. When you are old, you are not in good health. If you drink too much, you will easily get into trouble. Once something happens, who is responsible for you isn’t we? Can't you bear it for a while for us? Just eat a little, why do you eat so much?

said but didn't listen. Do you want to anger us to death? If you are obedient, we can worry less. I hope you can understand that you can eat and drink, but you must be sensible. Just drink a small cup of meat a day. This is the same with meat. You can’t be hungry. It's so easy, I can't even understand how you can eat it.

My father didn't speak anymore. At that time, my father still did his own thing, because he had said such things many times and was admitted to the hospital because of such things, but my father still did not change it. Maybe, I was too poor inside before. I scared my father. I used to have three children at home and couldn’t eat enough, let alone drinking and eating meat.

For the older generation, drinking and eating meat is a dream thing. I remember that when I was a child, I could only eat a meal of meat during the Chinese New Year. It is conceivable how difficult it was at home at that time. I usually drink porridge. If I want to eat a little bit, add more wild vegetables or add some other leaves. There is really nothing I can do, if I don’t eat, I’ll be hungry.I couldn't swallow some of it after eating it. Young people today have no idea how difficult it was at that time.

I told my children about this. They thought I was joking. It was leaves and it was wild vegetables. How could I eat it? I smiled and didn't say anything, I loved to believe it or not. I used to come over by eating those things. My father was also scared of those things. Now I try my best to eat meat and drink wine, eat whatever I want, drink as much as I want. Although the conditions are good now and you can eat and drink, your body is very important. If the elderly in your family are like this, you must pay attention.

After all, I am old and have poor blood vessels. Drinking too much alcohol and eating meat is really bad for your health. Once the problem occurs, it is because of my father. He was paralyzed because of this. I lived in ICU for more than half a month, spending more than 20,000 yuan a day, spending more than 300,000 yuan, and later spent more than 200,000 yuan in the general ward. I used nearly 700,000 yuan in advance and afterwards. Although I was reimbursed a little later, I still had to pay hundreds of thousands.

What I want to say is that can ordinary families afford hundreds of thousands? To treat my father, for the sake of my father. Several of us each took out more than 100,000 yuan. My husband also made a fuss with me because of this incident and almost divorced me. I know that I am not selfish, but I have taken too much. The family was not in good condition at first, so I gave all the money to my father, so where can I live? This is the harder it is to do.

I told my husband, can I ignore my father now? Moreover, in the future, raising my old age will be the business of my two brothers. Now I just need to save my father. I don't have nothing to say. I originally thought that this was how things developed. After my father was discharged from the hospital, the two brothers would support his father in old age. If there is any special situation, I will go back and help. Wouldn't that be fine?

But man's calculation is not as good as God's calculation. Not long after, my elder brother did something wrong. Maybe, caring for an elderly person who has suffered a stroke is not as easy as expected. My brother told me that I thought I would pass like this in my life, but I didn’t expect that I would still implicate my family. Now I have to tell you about this matter, take care of my father, and leave this matter to you. In the future, if we have money, we will give you more, and if we have no money, we will give you less. If we have money, we will give you less.

Why do I say that I am a married daughter? I can't always stay in my parents' home. If that were the case, my husband would definitely have an objection. I had already told them this matter calmly, but his two brothers kept saying that I was unfilial and that I didn't want to care about my father's affairs.

I angrily told them, have you ever understood me? It's not easy for me either. I have to take care of my parents-in-law and my husband. And I am a married daughter. If I don’t help at all, it’s really my problem, but how much have I paid over the years? I think I have done a lot about being filial to my father. So you can do this by yourself. If you can take care of it, take care of it yourself. If it really doesn't work, I will come and help you watch it for a few more days.

don't want to do this either. I can't say that I stay here all the time. If that's the case, my husband will definitely make a fuss with me. Later, my second brother passed away because of my father's incident. It was too difficult to take care of his father. After my second brother passed away, my eldest brother also made a fuss with my wife because of this. My elder brother suffered a stroke and was paralyzed, and my wife was taking care of her at home. Then my elder brother wanted to take my father there to take care of him. But my sister-in-law disagreed.

has no choice but to let me take care of it and see how they discuss how to do this. But since I went there, they have no concerns about this matter. Maybe they think that if I come here to take care of me, I should make me responsible. What's more, they have taken care of me for many years before, and now it's my turn to be responsible.A month has passed, and my husband has an objection to this matter, and I can't say that I will take my father to the house.

If I were the only daughter, I would definitely receive it. The problem is that I have two brothers. Although one of them is gone, his family is still there. How can I let my daughter be responsible? The more this happens, the more my husband has an objection. The more this happens, the more my husband wants to make trouble with me. I don’t want to be like this either. If I have a choice, I don’t want to be troubled here.

You don’t know how uncomfortable I feel here. From the morning to the evening, I work here 24 hours a day. My father had a stroke and had incontinence. You don't know how dirty it is. If you are not careful, you may have to wash a quilt. Or if my father had a fever and a cold, he would have to waste a lot of money. I have to turn my father over at night. My father couldn't breathe anymore. All depend on us.

Many people say why don’t you hire a nanny? What I want to say is where you have money to hire a nanny. I have a pension, however. I have to give my money to live in it, and I can't ignore the affairs in the house. My father's pension is just enough to spend, and sometimes I have to ask my two brothers for money. In this case, where can I get money to hire a nanny? All the difficulties were borne by myself. I used to think it wasn't that difficult to take care of my father who had a stroke paralysis.

Now I know how uncomfortable it is to take care of an elderly person who has suffered a stroke. I have been taking care of myself for more than a year. Because of this, my husband divorced me and told me that if I don’t go back, I would divorce. I don’t want to do this either. My husband asked me to go back. My parents-in-law need to take care of him, and then my grandson needs to take care of him.

I am in a dilemma now. It is not that I will not go back or that. If I don’t go back, my husband will divorce me. If I go back, who will take care of my father? A brother left the sister-in-law and didn't care about this matter. Let alone another brother who had a stroke and was paralyzed. No one cared about all the brothers who had suffered a stroke.

Where can anyone take care of his father? The more this happens, the harder it is. The more I want to escape, the more I want to escape. I was thinking how great it would be if my father left this world. If my father left, I would be able to be free, and then I could go back to my house. If my father is alive, I would be tortured for one more day. Don’t think that I’m ruthless in saying these words. What I want to say is that there is no filial son in front of the bed for a long time. If you have experienced these things.

You will know how uncomfortable it is. I have been alone for more than a year but I don’t know how I survived it. I have thought about it many times. It can even be described as countless times. I also want to escape from here and avoid all this, after all, I have my own life to live.

What's the matter with this kind of life now? But who will help me? The more I think about it, the more I feel uncomfortable, and the more I think about it, the less I don’t know what to do. My husband kept urging me to go back. My only thought now is, father, can you leave quickly, stop torture me, okay let me go?

Conclusion:

In the face of such a thing, I can only say that every family has difficult sutras. If there is a choice, your father doesn’t want to do this. It’s also very uncomfortable for your father to live like this. It’s because I haven’t chosen your father, so I can only be helpless when facing such a thing. Forget it, count on one day, just live every day.

can only communicate with people at home as much as possible and let everyone come to help. Only in this way can you live a good life. Otherwise, if you can't stand it alone, I hope you can explain it to your husband and let your husband understand you more. This is really helpless. So I hope this case reminds all young people to be more considerate of their parents. It is really not easy for parents. If they have a choice, they don’t want to bother you.

doesn’t want to become a burden to you because of this matter. It’s just that I have no choice, so I am like this.Be considerate. To put it bluntly, you may be like this in the future. What if your child is not considerate and helps you? So be considerate and help.