Introduction: For the elderly, the most important thing is how to support their elderly in their later years. Most elderly people place their lives in their later years on their children. If they don’t want to bother their children, they will save some money by themselves. In the

Introduction:

For the elderly, the most important thing is how to support their elderly in their later years. Most elderly people place their lives in their later years on their children. If they don’t want to bother their children, they will save some money by themselves. In the future, they will go to a nursing home or hire a nanny. The elderly can always find a suitable retirement plan.

On the surface, these three ways of retirement have their own advantages and disadvantages. Relying on children is the most economical way of retirement, but they may face a situation where they look at their children's face. Although such retirement methods can be with their relatives every day, they are also easy to get annoying and may even become a burden to their children. After all, in today's society, it is still very costly to support an elderly person.

Not every elderly person can adapt to going to a nursing home. Although there are food and accommodation there, it seems that they don’t have to worry about it, there are actually some "regulations". For example, some nursing homes have bad habits such as giving gifts to nursing workers and stuffing red envelopes, and poor nursing homes are really difficult to live in for a long time, but better nursing homes are generally not expensive. To put it bluntly, the elderly who go to nursing homes need to be well-off, which is not something ordinary elderly can afford.

As for hiring a nanny, it requires more money, but compared with nursing homes, hiring a nanny is more free. After all, hiring a nanny to serve him. In the elderly’s territory, he can be more confident in doing things and speaking. But what follows is the property safety of the employer’s home. Some nannies are not clean, and some nannies are rude to their employers. Many nannies who are not qualified have ruined their reputation in this industry, which makes the elderly lose their sense of security when choosing a nanny.

Although these elderly care methods have shortcomings, there are always more solutions than problems. An elderly man expressed his experience: "The emergence of a new type of elderly care does not need to bother children, do not need to find a nanny, and do not need to live in a nursing home. Not only does children save worry, but the elderly themselves also live a more comfortable and comfortable life." What kind of new type of elderly care method is

? Let's look down together.

78-year-old Mr. Zhu's self-report:

My name is Zhu Wei, I am 78 years old this year. In our era, marriage was introduced by matchmakers. At that time, I didn't understand what love was. I just felt that I didn't feel disgusted when I looked at each other. They were all from the neighboring villages, and they knew each other well, so I got marriage certificate very much.

Although I have never experienced what a passionate love is in my life, my wife and I have a good life after marriage, it is ordinary, and there is a son and a daughter. Although it is not easy to support two children, we have worked hard for more than ten years, and when our children grow up, we will feel relaxed.

My wife and I live in an old house in the county town. This is an old community. The house is dilapidated and there is no elevator. I thought I could have a few days of happy life in my later years, but unfortunately, the years urge people to grow old. After a few days of good days, my wife left me because of illness.

At that time, I tried my best to save it. In just half a year, I spent more than 100,000 yuan. This was all my savings for my wife and I, but unfortunately, my wife died in the end.

After my wife left, my children saw that I was in a bad condition, so they advised me to live in the city with them, and said that they would definitely be filial to me in the future.

I know that my children are filial children. After all, they are their own children. I know the best character of them. If I can follow them to support their elderly care, there is no need to say more, I will definitely live a very comfortable life. Although I know that my children will definitely be nice to me, in the end I rejected their request.

The reason is that considering that children now have their own families, not the little kids in the past, they have responsibility and responsibility, and they have to take care of their families and support their children. It would be fine if I can't help them as an elderly person. If I pass by rashly, it will definitely disturb their life rhythm. Moreover, my children and I are people from two eras after all. If I only live for a while, I may not be able to detect anything, but after living for a long time, conflicts may arise. I still understand the principle of "far fragrance and smell near".

Don’t look for children. I am at this age. Life alone is really unsafe and I will encounter many difficulties. After all, I am old and many things within my ability will become difficult to do. If I fall down at home or faint from hypoglycemia, it will be even more amazing. If I am not discovered in time, my life may be threatened.

After my inquiry, I found that many elderly people would go to nursing homes, so I also wanted to follow this way of nursing home. Just as I was about to pack up my things to go to the nursing home, my neighbor Lao Zhang quickly stopped me. He said that he had lived in the nursing home for a year, but because he didn't like the atmosphere there, he came back early.

Lao Zhang said that although there is food and accommodation there, there is no need to worry about it, and there is even a place for fitness, the atmosphere is actually very depressing, because as long as you live in a nursing home, it will be difficult to get out. If the elderly in the nursing home want to get out, their children must sign the signature, otherwise they can only stay in the nursing home. Just imagine, if you stay in the same place every day, if you are not depressed, you will also collapse.

After hearing Lao Zhang's words, I didn't dare to think about going to a nursing home anymore. Not long after, I wanted to try to find a nanny to serve me at home. In this way, not only did someone help me with housework, but someone could also chat with me and relieve my boredom.

But unexpectedly, when I really went to the nanny market, I realized that it is too expensive to hire a nanny now. An ordinary nanny costs four or five thousand a month. If a nanny costs seven or eight thousand a month, how can this be affordable to ordinary people like me? I was so scared that I was so hot that I gasped. Now the nanny is too expensive.

may be self-comfort. At that time, I thought that spending money to hire a nanny may not necessarily lead to a good life in my later years. Nowadays, there are also nannys who have no quality. News about stealing money and insulting employers is also emerging one after another. I try to deceive myself. It may be a good thing that can’t hire a nanny. After all, nanny can’t guarantee that he will treat me well. Maybe he will still have to plot against me, make fake accounts, etc. Then, am I causing trouble for myself? So I put the matter of hiring a nanny behind me.

Thinking about so many ways of retirement, it didn't work in the end, but at my age, I had to find a suitable way of retirement. By chance, I learned that there is now a new type of retirement method called "farmhouse care", which means giving the farmhouse boss a sum of money, and then the elderly can live there all the time, having food and drink every day, cleaning and housework. The most important thing is that the room is equipped with a dedicated line. If the elderly encounter any problems in the room, someone will connect to the wiring 24 hours a day, which makes the elderly feel very safe.

I thought to myself that this way of retirement sounds good, but I just couldn’t find a suitable farm stay.

Since I had this idea, I had to take action. So from then on, whenever I had time, I would go to the surrounding townships to take a look. First of all, the environment of the farmhouse should be clean, and secondly, the room must be equipped with anti-slip pads, which can ensure the safety of the elderly. Finally, there must be a hospital nearby. If there is a headache and fever, it will be convenient to treat the disease.

About half a year later, I really found a suitable farmhouse. The house here was just built, the environment in the room was very new, and anti-fall poles and anti-slip pads were also thoughtfully installed in the bathroom, which made me feel very considerate. Nowadays, many elderly people accidentally fell down while taking a shower. Such small details really touched me.

And it’s the clinic for ten minutes to ride here. Although it’s not very big, you can still see ordinary minor problems. Everything is so suitable, so I contacted the boss here.

The boss has never done such a project, but he is very interested in what I mentioned in retirement, so he promised me to try living in for one month first. The price he mentioned was also very conscientious, including food and accommodation, and also 24 hours a day to call, and charge me 3,000 yuan a month.

I think this price is acceptable. I have a pension of 3,000 yuan a month. Considering that I will not live in a house in the county town in the future, I decided to rent out the house and have a rent of 800 yuan a month, which is just enough for my living expenses. So, the matter was finalized, and I packed up my things and moved to this farmhouse.

Many people must be curious whether I am living in a farm stay or not? Don't worry, listen to me slowly.

Considering the reason why I am an old man, the boss arranged me to live on the second floor. I don’t like to take the elevator, and I can exercise my body while walking. Although I don’t use an elevator normally, if I get sick, it’s very important. There is no elevator in the old house in my county, and it’s still on the sixth floor. If I get sick, I have to carry someone up and down the stairs. It’s terrible to think about it.

The room I live in is about 20 square meters, which has all kinds of electrical appliances, as well as wardrobe, water dispenser and other things. There is also a large TV in the living room, which is so large. It is a pleasure to watch TV with it. It is just like my own home. I check in with my bag, which is very convenient.

Every noon, the cleaning staff would knock on the door and clean me up. I changed the sheets once a week, and I didn’t have to worry about anything. I went straight to the hotel cafeteria, and after dinner, I went out for a walk. About an hour, the room returned to its previous state. Someone was responsible for the dirty clothes. The washed clothes were not only fragrant, but also ironed very flat. The service was so thoughtful.

There is a landline on my bedside table and a red button in the bathroom. If I have an accident, I can call the staff. Their movements are also very fast and they come over in one or two minutes. If I need medical treatment, the company and a van can pull me directly to the clinic. If the clinic says I want to go to the city hospital, I will give the driver 100 yuan, and I can get to the city in about an hour.

Besides, the canteen in the hotel is indeed not as good as the restaurants outside. Most of them are light, but fortunately, I am not picky about food and eat very delicious. Moreover, although the food here is average, it is better than the food in the nursing home, which is really hard to swallow, so I am still quite content. The dishes will not be repeated for at least a week, and there are free fruits, so I can see that I am still very attentive.

Although there is a big TV in the room, my favorite thing is to play chess in the park. Sometimes I get together with my friends. Usually I go out whenever I want to go out, and the people in the hotel don’t care about me at all. Of course, if I don’t go back at night, I will tell them to avoid them worrying.

At present, I think this kind of "farmhouse retirement" is quite good. I have renewed my contract for half a year and I can't find out his fault yet. If I have to say a little regret, it is that there are too few elderly people in this way of retirement. There are still relatively few peers in this farmhouse I live in. It would be even better if I could have a few companions.

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