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The key factor for a person to achieve happiness is actually not wealth, but the lover of your deep love.
If the marriage you run is full of warmth, it probably means that your quality of life will not be too bad.
Even if you don’t have a lot of wealth, you can also feel the most satisfying joy.
When some men are single, no matter how hard they try, they seem to be very sad to live a good life. But after getting married, all obstacles disappear, and the better the luck becomes.
Men with a lot of blessings often just because they did this right: invest in a family, I hope you can understand it as soon as possible.
01: Know how to love your wife, respect and protect her
There is a saying: "Parents determine your starting point, and your wife determines your end point."
How much love a woman feels in marriage, she will have as much energy to give to her family.
The more visionary a man is, the more he knows how to love his wife, respect and protect her in the process of managing his relationship.
As the stock god Buffett said: "The most important investment in my life is not which stock I bought, but whom I chose to be my partner."
Men with low levels do not know how to cherish the girl they like after marrying the girl they like home.
It seems that everything the other party gave for him is the same as he should. Not only did he not say a word of thanks, he even became disgusted.
If a man is too scarce in his heart, he will have machismo thoughts. In their opinion, women are of very low value and do not need respect.
Even if they talk to their wives, they also have an arrogant attitude, as if they are the most glorious only when they step on their other half’s dignity. Men of this type are mostly selfish and will find it difficult to be blessed for the rest of their lives, and will live a very miserable life in their later years.
Not only can't get the care of his wife, but even his children will hate and abandon him.
The truly blessed men are often men who know how to love their wives with heart. Their thoughts are more mature, the ability to make contributions and sincerity.
will do everything possible to protect her lover and prevent her from feeling wronged and sad.
02: Men who know how to invest in a family are mostly very smart
Men who do not have the ability to trust, even if they are already husband and wife with you, when they get along with each other, it is still difficult for them to regard you as their closest lover and are always on guard against you.
Boys who don’t know how to invest in a family are all very inferior in their hearts, and they care a lot about the outside world’s evaluation of themselves.
In order to make others praise themselves, some pleasing behavior will occur.
For example, if you spend money to treat a meal with friends, and when relatives have happy events, they will give a lot of red envelopes even if they don’t have money.
Doing this means how generous they are to others, everything is for their own face.
When you get along with your family, you will look very stingy and harsh. As long as your wife asks him for a few hundred more living expenses, his face will change instantly.
This kind of man without wisdom often cannot manage a marriage. After his lover is disappointed, he will decisively leave him.
And men who truly understand investing in a family are actually the smartest. They are very family-oriented and take what their wife says to heart.
Tang Bin (pseudonym) is a very wise man. After marrying his wife, he keeps all his salary to his lover.
Even if the best brother borrowed money from himself, he would not agree immediately, but would discuss it with his wife.
He knew that only by managing a small family first can he have more energy to help others.
My wife usually spends money to dress up, and this money is very worthwhile in Tang Bin's opinion. In addition, he doesn't feel sorry for his education at all.
Tang Bin has a daughter whose parents-in-law prefer boys over girls. He thinks that girls don’t need to go to a very good school, and they will always get married in the future.
But Tang Bin doesn't think so. She loves her daughter enough and is willing to give her the best training in education.
It is precisely because Tang Bin knows how to invest in a family that his career is getting better and better. He has only been married to his wife for a few years and his income has increased several times.
Many people praise him for marrying a wife who is prosperous, which is really enviable.
Men who are much more blessed often only do the things mentioned above correctly. If you want to go more smoothly in your career and life, remember to learn to invest in your family.
When you know how to love your wife and children, good luck will take the initiative to get close to you.
A truly visionary man is confident in his heart and will give all his love to the people closest to him.
There are many surprises in life, but as long as you learn to invest in your family, your life will be more than half successful.
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