Nanny: " Zijun, you are so kind to them and will always respond to your requests. In the end, it becomes a matter of course. Look at how you say a few words to her, she is more fierce than you "
Luo Zijun : " One is my sister and the other is my mother. It is worth it that I am good to them. Just say a few words. What can I do? "
The above conversation happened against this background:
When Luo Zijun walked back home with a pair of bright red high heels, carrying shopping spoils, and swaying his figure.
sister Luo Ziqun and her mother Xue Zhenzhu quickly agreed and stood up. Luo Zijun was very calm and even asked them a little disgusted. At a glance, he knew that the mother and daughter met frequently. After handing the shopping bag in his hand to the nanny Yaqin, he took off his coat and lay lazy on the sofa.
Yaqin served a bowl of tremella soup to cover her. The mother began to criticize her sister's husband and advised Ziqun not to live with the son-in-law whom she looked down on. At the same time, compare her with her sister and let her see what her sister lives and what she lives. Obviously, the eldest daughter's marriage is something that this mother-in-law is particularly proud of.
0,000 yuan borrowed by Zijun from Zijun was compensated by her husband for engaging in a small business. Zijun and his mother sang together, scolding Ziqun's husband, complaining that Ziqun had to marry love without listening to advice, but ended up making herself a coward and always having to deal with her unscrupulous husband.
subgroup was ergonomic violence, and I can’t tell you anything except relying on my husband. What will happen to a housewife in the future?
The mother and daughter started to quarrel. Ziqun left angrily. After comforting Zijun, her mother walked away with a scarf and a bag, and left.
All of this was seen by Yaqin, a busy nanny in the kitchen. She should see this kind of scene often. From her expression, she could see that she couldn't stand Luo Zijun's mother and sister's daily disturbances to Luo Zijun.
When she walked over and packed up the bowl of the tremite soup that Luo Zijun had eaten, she complained a few times, which was the beginning of the article.
Then both of them sighed and thought about it.
Nanny Yaqin must be kind, because she has worked in this family for many years. Although this is a job, she has already developed feelings for her.
But she forgot that Luo Zijun and her mother and sister are just a family with blood relationships. No matter how messy they are, they are still flesh and blood and cannot be divided. And she is just an outsider. Luo Zijun can scold her sister, but she is useless, but she cannot interrupt.
It’s like your best friend quarrels with her husband and complains to her husband. If you think she really hates her husband so much and scolds her with her, then you don’t understand human nature too much. If you scold her husband, it will soon reach her husband's ears. The person who sent the message is the best friend who complains to you.
The result is that others are still happy couples, but you become the one who is not human.
So at any time, you can be a listener, but don’t easily interrupt other people’s housework.
do you think?
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