They are getting worse and worse, and then 99% of couples divorced because of such a thing, so it is really impossible for couples to be AA. After getting the certificate, my husband asked for the AA system. My husband: For your own good, I: OK, but there are five requirements.

It is really impossible for couples to make AA. Because once the couple is AA system. Then their relationship will be disharmonious, and 99% of couples will be after the AA system. They are getting worse and worse, and then 99% of couples divorced because of such a thing, so it is really impossible for couples to be AA.

is the couple in the article who just got their certificate and then divorced again. Who can blame for this ending? I hope this case can remind all couples, whether they are first-married couples or second-married couples. Never do not have the AA system, I understand the AA system. What's going on? Let's take a look together. After getting the certificate, my husband asked for the AA system. My husband: For your own good, I: OK, but there are five requirements.

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34-year-old Ms. Wu:

Ms. 0 My parents told me that you are a woman, especially a woman who is married. Why do you want to make trouble with your husband? Have you ever thought about the consequences of this? If you are still young, or if you have the capital, you can make trouble with your husband, the problem is that you are not young anymore. Once you make a fuss with your husband, the one waiting for you is a divorce. And have you ever thought about the future? Do you think you can live a good life after divorce? It is difficult for you to live a good life at your age, so you can simply find a good partner.

I hope you can think carefully about what we say. I know it is a bit difficult to prevent you from making trouble, but you must not make trouble. What's wrong with your husband's AA system? Just live a good life, and then if that happens, you will not be under such pressure. More importantly, this is your husband's request to you. His disagreement with abolishing the AA system, so why bother you? You just got your certificate after divorced. Now if you divorce your husband, how can we explain to our relatives?

I was speechless. Can’t I take the initiative to make my lifelong affairs? Today I will tell you about this matter, and everyone will help me judge it. What would you say if it were you? Shouldn't you choose to divorce? I can't bear it anymore, there is nothing I can do.

2 days ago, my boyfriend and I were my current husband, but I soon divorced him. I got the marriage certificate with him. I originally thought that after getting the certificate, I would be a happy ending. But I never expected that after getting the certificate, my husband turned against me and insisted on living with me. My husband told me, you don’t know how sad my birthday is, and I don’t want to tell you about this.

Anyway, I do this for your own good. Whether you agree or not, I will have to be AA in the future. While saying that, he threatened me and told me that if he disagreed, he would get a divorce. Just at the door of the Civil Affairs Bureau, I actually told me about such a thing. I really had no choice, and then I told my husband, don’t you want to live with me? How many couples are separated now because of the AA system. Are you like us?

If you don’t want to, just live with me and don’t make trouble with me. But my husband slapped him and told me angrily, "You have to agree to this matter, and you have to agree to it if you don't agree to it, and we have to agree to it." I did this for your own good, do you understand? If you don’t want to live with me, just say it directly, there is no need to say you don’t agree to me. I hit me on the first day of my marriage. How can I live in the future? But I still gave my husband a chance. I told him, I can live with you well, and I can also agree to the AA system. But I have 5 requirements.

The first requirement is, I will not give birth to you in the future.

Although I have married you, why should I have given birth to a baby for you at that time? Giving birth is my whole business for women. You men don’t have to give at all, and I will not give birth to you. If you want a child, then you give birth to yourself, and don’t think I’m ruthless. Why do you think I am ruthless? What have you men paid for in giving birth to a child? From the time of pregnancy to the birth of a child, it is all women taking care of it, and it is all women suffering and suffering, isn’t it?

This matter of giving birth will delay a lot of things for women. You have to take care of the child after giving birth.This is not the most difficult thing. The most difficult thing is that after giving birth, it is possible that you will have to take care of your children in the next few years. If I have a baby with you, isn’t that unfair to me? If that's the case, how can we make AA? If you tell me it is AA, why am I unfair? You told me that the AA system is for my goodness.

That must also be for my good. I don’t want to take these risks if I don’t have children. It’s very dangerous to have children at my age. You don’t want me to have anything to do, you said you will be responsible for me, and you said everything is for my good. Then don’t have children. Find your own children. If you want children, you can give birth to them by yourself. You can give birth to them by yourself.

The second requirement is, you have to give me half of the money for marriage.

You gave 30,000 yuan in bride price, but my parents gave more than 100,000 yuan. I gave about 150,000 yuan, 150,000 yuan minus 30,000 yuan, which means that there is still 120,000 yuan given to you by my parents for free. First of all, you have to return the 120,000 yuan. After all, this money was given by my parents, and it is impossible for you to get it for nothing. We will be AA in the future.

You can return that car to me, or you can give me 120,000 directly, I can accept it. After giving these 120,000 yuan, the gift you receive from your family. You have to give me half of it, of course, including the expenses in my family. If you marry me, you will definitely have to bear the expenses I have in it. Otherwise, I will lose money. You said it is for my goodness. Then let me understand. I used about 50,000 yuan in my family, and then you will return the 50,000 yuan to me.

also received tens of thousands of gifts, at least 70,000 or 80,000. Then you have to give me half of them. We are in the AA system. It is impossible to say that you can take all the benefits, and it is impossible to say that you don’t even give me the money after marrying a wife. If you don’t want to distinguish it from you so clearly, if you want to share it with me, then we can completely understand it.

The third requirement is that we need to sleep in separate rooms.

You just said that you won’t take advantage of me, and you also said that this is for my good. Since this is the case, then you really don’t take advantage of me. Let’s sleep in separate rooms. The house is so big, I can do one room at a time. Whether you sleep in the master room or the guest room, I will choose from you. I'll choose when you've finished choosing.

Don’t think that I don’t love you is not a question of whether I love you or not. You have to tell me more clearly. Since you say you want to tell me more clearly, I will also explain it to you more clearly. More importantly, sleeping in separate rooms is good for you and me. I will not get pregnant because of this, nor will I feel uncomfortable because of this. You don’t want to make a fuss with me. If you sleep with me and sleep with me, will I suffer a loss?

If that's the case, how should you compensate me? I know you won't compensate me, so I don't want to make trouble with you, nor do I want to worry about this matter with you. Let’s sleep separately. If we separate, we won’t make trouble and I won’t suffer any losses. Don’t think that I am your wife, so you should sleep with you. I don’t think it’s necessary. You and I have made it so well-known. Why do I have to tell you the impossible? I won’t suffer this loss.

The fourth requirement is to take care of your child yourself.

You know that you have children with your ex-wife without saying that I don’t need to tell me. Isn’t you with me because I take good care of your children? Before, you asked me to stay and be a full-time housewife. Sorry, I would never do that. How much does your child have to do with me?

If I hadn't married you, I wouldn't have any relationship with your child. Besides, if you are AA with me now, it is even more impossible for me to take care of those children. We are AA, so you can take good care of them. Then I won’t bother you with my parents’ affairs, nor will I take care of your parents, not only your parents, but your children, and you, I won’t care.You can say whatever you want. You can also say that I don’t treat you as a family. I don’t care. I don’t care what you said about the AA system, which means that you took the initiative to separate me clearly.

Since you and me clearly distinguish, then why should I and you clearly distinguish? It is impossible to say that I will suffer a loss. You didn’t treat me as a family, and you were not responsible for me. So why should I make me responsible for your children or your parents? This is impossible. So don’t blame me then. If you want to blame yourself, you will blame me, because you told me that it is AA.

The fifth requirement is to let your parents move out.

I paid for the house and gave half of it to you. In other words, the house belongs to the two of us, what does it have to do with your parents? My parents didn’t come here to live, so why should your parents come to our place to live? Your parents do not have this qualification. Unless my parents and the others come, your parents are not qualified to live here, and don’t think that I have married you, and then they are my parents-in-law, so we can live together.

This is impossible. I am AA-based, which means I have no dime with your parents. I have to share half of everything. What do you want your parents to do? I don't need them at all, so your parents have to move out, and I don't want to be with your parents either.

I am afraid that I will make a fuss with your parents at that time. If that is the case, it will be bad for you and me to this man. Since this is the case, let your parents move out, whether it is back to their hometown or rent a house outside. But one thing to say is that I will not give a penny compensation. What does it have to do with me? We are AA system, they are your parents, you should be responsible for them, and I will not care about their affairs.

I have these 5 requirements, if you agree, we will be AA system. Anyway, I don’t care. If you don’t agree, I can just act like this without happening. We can live a good life. You help me and I help you. We two accompany each other and take care of each other. I know it's not easy for everyone. I've already found out for my husband. But my husband slapped him again.

My husband told me, are you thinking too much? You have to agree to this matter, and you have to agree to it if you don’t agree. We have to agree to the AA system. And the five requirements you mentioned are too excessive and I don’t treat me as my husband at all. If you do this again, don’t blame me for divorce. He just got his certificate on the day of marriage, so he threatened me with this matter. How can I live my life in the future? If something happens in the future, he will still ask me to do what. The more I thought about it, the more uncomfortable it became. Then I told my husband that you should not be so excessive, otherwise don’t blame me.

has only been an hour since I got the certificate. Then I decided to divorce my husband, and I had no choice if I compromise. I can't live my life in the future, so he can still threaten me again. If that were the case, don’t talk about myself. My parents and others didn’t know what to do in retirement. I am an only child. So I think I'm not wrong, what do you think?

Conclusion:

If it were me, I would choose to divorce. No couple in the first AA system ended up. In real life, it will take a while for how many couples can get better at the end of the AA system. Gradually, the problems will become prominent. In the future, most couples with AA system will be more likely. It all ended in a tragedy. Second, your husband beat you on the day of his marriage. How can you live your life in the future?

If you don’t like it, don’t you hit you again. If you do that, you won’t have to go past it. You have to remember one thing, only has zero and countless times. Once there is the first time, then there will be the second time, and then there will be countless times. Not to mention that your husband actually threatens you with divorce.What does

mean? You can treat you like this in the future. If you compromise on this matter, it will not only make it difficult for you to live on yourself, but you will even give your parents no chance to be responsible. If that happens, there is no need to live with your husband. So it’s not wrong to choose to divorce. If it were me, I would also choose to divorce and divorce not only to myself but also to my parents. Do you understand? Let me say something like this here, if a man cannot do this, you will be like this. 100% of the waiting for you is a divorce. It really cannot be AA. Do you understand?