Whenever you feel depressed, you will think of Li Bai 's bold poem:
Life is full of joy, don't let the golden cup face the moon empty. I was born with my talents and I will be useful, and I will come back after all my money is gone.
The general meaning is: when you are in a proud life, you must enjoy the joy to the fullest, and don’t let the golden cup be empty against the bright moon without wine.
God has created my talents and will definitely be useful. You can get it again after spending a thousand taels of gold.
The person who can appreciate himself also shows his confident mind and demeanor, and will also be admired by others.
Many times, just one word of appreciation and praise for yourself can light up a dark life.
When people reach middle age, learning to appreciate themselves is the most transparent way to live!
1. Appreciating yourself is a kind of confidence in life
Sanmao said: It is difficult for a person who does not appreciate himself to be happy.
I still remember the Spring Festival Gala that year. The most impressive thing was the "Thousand-Armed Guanyin", a dance performance completed by 21 deaf and mute girls. The beautiful dance posture and youthful face made the audience miss it.
The girl who led the dance Tai Lihua has also become a public figure because of this.
976, Tai Lihua was born in an ordinary family in Hubei.
When he was two years old, he was misdiagnosed because of an unexpected high fever that did not subside, and he was deaf since then.
Once Tai Lihua saw Yang Liping teacher " The Spirit of Bird " on TV.
She felt the charm of dance, and for the first time she understood that dance can convey emotions.
From then on, Tai Lihua practiced dancing while learning, showing great talent in dance.
5 years old, she was selected into Chinese Disabled Art Troupe and became the leader dancer. After
, he was admitted to the Hubei Art Troupe and was praised by his teacher for his dance "The Spirit of the Bird".
After graduating from high school, Tai Lihua was admitted to Hubei Art School. After graduation, she entered the school of deaf and muteness and became a teacher.
When practicing dance, dance director Zhang Jigang noticed Tai Lihua and decided to arrange a dance for her, and then "Thousand-Handed Guanyin".
Tai Lihua has led the team to perform in more than 60 countries.
She rejected Malaysian , a well-known rich man's pursuit.
Not long after, Tai Lihua married an ordinary boy she met in college.
Tai Lihua was not depressed because of her deafness. She could see the shining stars in her bright eyes.
She is anti-positive and optimistic about life and appreciates her appearance, which makes ordinary people look inferior.
Appreciating yourself is also an acceptance of an imperfect life.
Only by accepting yourself can you open your mind and live a good life.
Everyone’s experience has something to write unsatisfactory. As long as you find the glowing point of life, all imperfections will disappear.
Appreciate yourself and you will walk out of different life trajectories.
Someone said: The biggest lie in the world is that you can’t do it.
Believe in yourself, nothing can stop you from moving forward.
2. Appreciating yourself is a kind of tolerance for life
Zhuge Liang : The aura of a magnificent man should not belittle himself.
Don’t look down on your own value casually and reduce your personality.
No matter how ordinary life is, it has different highlights.
976 Yu Xiuhua was born in Hengdian Village, Shipai Town, Zhongxiang City, Hubei Province. He caused cerebral palsy due to production and hypoxia, and he always walked shakingly.
html dropped out of school at the age of 119. His mother arranged it to marry Yin Shiping, who was 13 years older. After marriage, Yu Xiuhua and her husband's marriage and family were not harmonious and happy.
She has been living very hard.She used to go out to work with someone, but she was physically disabled and could not find a job.
Poverty, disabled, and a pathetic marriage, these dilemmas did not overwhelm her, and she never complained.
She is so tolerant of life, a bumpy life.
Finally, this suppressed life transformed into poems and became the outlet of her emotions.
She started writing poetry in 2009, and she never thought that she would write poetry.
is just a condition for her. It is easier to complete short sentences, with fewer words, and it is easy to write without any effort. The words are staggered on paper, expressing her inner emotions.
This is Yu Xiuhua's self-awareness awakening.
Accompanied by the growth of diseases, the hardships of marriage, the books she has read and the poems she has written make her slowly yearn for the life she wants.
Although her movements are limited, her thoughts are abundant and clever.
Dong Qing This evaluation of Yu Xiuhua:
Writing the most firm verses with the most shaking steps These verses are like the sunlight that passes through the crystal She is not afraid of the harm brought to her by the injustice of fate Some people say: To appreciate your own value, you must add value to the world. The poems she wrote with her unique thinking are collected into books to make her life more valuable and meaningful. She chose to write poetry to appreciate herself, appreciate life, and tolerate the suffering in life. Those who can appreciate themselves will definitely be recognized by everyone. The confident temperament will become an inner cultivation, making her not afraid of wind and rain. 03. Appreciating oneself is a kind of seeing through the world Laozi : Those who know others are wise, and those who know themselves are enlightened. He who conquers others is powerful, and he who conquers himself is powerful. Those who are content are rich, those who are forced have ambitions, and those who do not lose their place for a long time. Those who die but do not die live . People who can understand others are wisdom, and people who can understand themselves are smart. People who can defeat others are powerful, and people who can defeat themselves are even stronger and invincible. k people know that people who are satisfied are rich, and those who persist in doing things have ambition. People who do not lose their duties can last for a long time, and those who still have "Tao" even though they die can be considered true longevity. Ding Yuanying in the TV series " Tiandao " is such a person who understands himself, sees through the world, and walks alone. He had a short marriage, and his ex-wife commented: He will never quarrel with you, every pore of him is permeated with his condescending tolerance of secular culture, so tolerant that he disdained to reason with you. In Ding Yuanying's eyes, almost any kind of thing happened was his expectation. Because he appreciates his thinking and enjoys his life, no one can achieve this transcendent cognitive level. Nicethet said: "The person who is alone is not because he wants to be lonely, but because he cannot find his kind around him." Ding Yuanying mastered the strong culture of survival and also appreciated the theory brought by this strength. So you can make accurate judgments on the development of things and achieve inaction and rule by doing nothing. In the eyes of others, you will become a master who is as good as a god. Gu Long said: The person a person appreciates the most must be the same person as himself. Because everyone will appreciate themselves very much. It is precisely because of admiring herself that Ding Yuanying met Rui Xiaodan, not an ordinary woman that can be impressed by real money. Two people who admire each other collided with each other and had a high degree of recognition from the soul. Rui Xiaodan let go of all his active pursuits for his unique thinking. Ding Yuanying also created a myth for Rui Xiaodan to kill the rich and help the poor. Only when you truly understand how to appreciate yourself can you control the direction of your life. blindly worshipping others, it is better to stop and admire yourself proudly. Ding Yuanying said: Man is God. If there is Tao or no skills, the skills can still be sought. If there is Tao or no skills, the skills can be stopped by the art. He lives a life that others cannot understand in his own realm. He was immersed in being alone, without explaining external interference, hiding his edge and holding on to the right time. This may be the real elegance and great indignation to see through the world! 04, He Jiong said: You are you, everyone is the only one in this world. Even if no one knows how to appreciate you, at least you know how to appreciate yourself. When no one applauds, although you are lonely, you are the most free. When people reach middle age, appreciating themselves is a memory of the past. Count the years in detail, the stage of life is the only one who is the most real audience. The song ends and people are separated. Appreciating yourself in loneliness is the best state of life. Schopenhauer said: Our greatest pleasure lies in getting praise from others; but although envy people have sufficient reasons to envy others, they envy and are unwilling to express their envy. Therefore, the happiest person is the one who can truly admire himself. People are middle-aged, I hope we can all be the one who appreciates and praises ourselves!
reflecting her soul and light
Select to release herself in the poem
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