The interaction between men and women is very special and subtle. There are both similarities and great differences with ordinary people. When interacting, you should always pay attention to your behavior. If you are not careful, it is easy to transform friendship into a child’s

The interaction between men and women is very special and subtle. It has both similarities and great differences with ordinary people. When interacting, you should always pay attention to your behavior. If you are not careful, it is easy to transform friendship into a private relationship between children, forming a deformed relationship that is neither like a friend nor a lover. This kind of emotional mutation does not appear suddenly or instantly, but is caused by the gradual addition of ordinary misconduct. There are three most common phenomena, that is, the "tactic understanding" of men and women, which means that the relationship is abnormal. Do you know?

Tacit understanding 1: Chatting becomes a habit

chatting is essential. If there is any problem, everyone will find it absurd and think that there is nothing to criticize. As ordinary friends, there are two most obvious characteristics of chatting. One is to say something or talk about the facts. If the two parties have something to inform or have information to pass on each other. The other situation is that the two parties meet together and everyone gathers together to exchange ideas, communicate with each other, and only in these situations will chat. In normal times, they will not chat frequently.

Even if you want to chat, you will choose to contact the appropriate time period, without ignoring or ignoring the etiquette requirements that chat should follow. And the most typical thing is that when this kind of chat occurs, it is often one-way, and not both parties have this common will. When one party chats, the other party responds and feedbacks, and the boyfriend and girlfriend are even more so. Pay special attention to this, but if the relationship between a man and a woman is abnormal, it will change the usual practice. At this time, chatting together becomes an important process.

Both parties always think about chatting when they are not together, and there is no concern or consideration, and there are no too many rules and restrictions. They will contact each other immediately when they want to chat. They will be very urgent to tell each other everything at the first time, and the other party is looking forward to it. The biggest feature is that the two people's willingness and needs to chat are two-way. One wants to say that the other party is happy to listen. This kind of chat has become a habit, and it has reached a tacit understanding, which has become a pleasure and preference for both parties.

Tacit understanding 2: Meeting becomes expectation

As we all know, meeting and meeting between friends is essential and normal, but meeting between ordinary friends is often only carried out in these situations. First, when there is something to discuss or need, second, when there is a certain period of separation or not, the two parties contact each other for a long time, contact each other, and deepen their feelings. Third, friends have nothing to do in their spare time, make appointments, relax and entertain, and promote relationships. Friends gather together in specific environments and occasions, and will live according to their respective trajectories in other periods.

does not meet each other frequently, and does not disturb each other, and exists independently in an inherent way. The number and time of meeting are limited. Moreover, when we don’t meet each other, we do not have any concerns after leaving, nor do we miss each other. We do not expect too much to meet again, and we do not expect too much. In layman's terms, we are very happy to meet, and we do not feel uncomfortable if we don’t meet each other. We are more cautious and careful about this when we interact with each other, for fear of falling in words and saying that we are not right and wrong.

If the relationship between a man and a woman is extraordinary, it is completely different from that of ordinary friends. The two always think about meeting each other and look forward to meeting each other. The biggest wish is to stay together and accompany each other. At this time, meeting each other is the greatest expectation. As long as you have free time, both parties will be together. Even if you don’t have time, you will try every means to squeeze out time and create opportunities to get together. It can be said that you will not see each other for a day. If you miss three autumns, you feel very uncomfortable. The desire to meet is very strong, and this is the common wish of both parties.

tacit understanding 3: Sharing becomes an instinct

For ordinary friends, sharing is naturally indispensable in the process of contact, but this kind of sharing aspect is very limited and will be controlled within a certain range. Almost all of them are independent, but there are not many things shared, especially in terms of money and things. No matter how good the relationship between friends is, there will be no excessive sharing of money and things. As the saying goes, "brothers settle accounts clearly", ordinary boyfriends and girlfriends are even more so, in order to avoid the suspicion of "melon and plum", for fear of being misunderstood for this.

However, if the relationship between men and women goes beyond the boundaries, the situation will completely change. At this time, the interaction between the two parties completely breaks the rules. The most typical feature is that the number of things shared by each other increases significantly. Moreover, this sharing behavior is not passive, helpless and against the will, but willing, and completely out of an instinct. During this period, everyone is willing to contribute and invest for each other. The sharing matters that friends did not have in the past were shared to the maximum extent. The most common thing was that the two people shared time, and the two parties were always together.

Most of the time spent with each other, meeting and living together with various reasons and excuses, followed by sharing emotions and information. One party’s joys, anger, sorrows, and emotional fluctuations will make the other party know and share their own moods together. Just like a popular lyric, “Sad your sorrow, happy your happiness, and happy your happiness”, all kinds of information are first passed on to the other party, and information exchanges are always carried out in a timely manner, and it is unreserved. It can be said that it is "indefinitely speaking", especially the most abnormal thing is the sharing of money and things.

is completely unreasonable. The two are very generous and willing to spend money and shop for each other. It seems that there is no distinction between money and things, and it is like money and things are not as good as you and me. It seems that money and things are not so much, and there is no need to distinguish them so clearly. Moreover, this kind of investment is an instinctive willingness, and is very willing to give for it, without any stinginess or reluctance. It is taken for granted and reasonable, and it is also what you should do. Not only that, but it is shared in many aspects, and sharing has become the norm.