To be honest, some people are still single when they are thirty years old, and they really make things for themselves. Not long ago, a classmate who had not been in contact for a long time suddenly came to me to ask if there were any high-quality single male colleagues around my

To be honest, some people are still single at the age of thirty, and they really make things for themselves.

Not long ago, a classmate who had not been in contact for a long time suddenly came to me to ask if there were some high-quality single male colleagues around my husband. If so, you can introduce it to her.

Coincidentally, after inquiring, a boy who had just been transferred to their department in 1994 was single. Both sides talked about each other's meaning and asked for a few photos.

When I showed the boy's photo to the female classmate, she was quite satisfied and started to ask for details.

learned that the boy's work was to work overtime regularly. The female classmate said, "This is too hard. He doesn't have time to spend with his family. When he gets married, he feels like he's living it myself."

heard that the boy's house is from another place and he has not bought a house locally. The female classmate said, "I haven't bought a house yet. The situation in the family should not be very good. After getting married, I have to pay the mortgage with him. I'm exhausted to death just for the house."

knew that the boy had a younger brother who was in college at home, and the female classmate was worried again: "Forget it, this is not possible. The two brothers' families cannot marry. The elderly's property may not be given to whom. It is impossible to say whether the elderly will take care of our children in the future..."

A female classmate from 1990 was fantasizing about various post-marriage life scenes and nitpicking them. However, the other party looked at the photos of the female classmate and smiled and said, "Forget it, I want to find a girl born in the 1995!"

I have to say that some women over thirty are really greedy, and their requirements for their partner are more than those of the 1998 girls. They cannot correctly confirm their own advantages and disadvantages in marriage and love.

To be honest, for men, what they value most is the age and appearance of women. Generally speaking, women who are still single at the age of 30 are either outstanding and strong women who are not interested in marriage or love; or they are women whose conditions are quite average but who require a lot of them.

A colleague of the past, Lily, a girl from 1992, comes from an ordinary working family in a small town. There is an older brother. The brother and sister enter big cities through study. The older brother has already bought a house in a big city and got married. He has done a good job in his career, with an annual salary of nearly one million yuan.

Lily is a company's personnel, she is beautiful, loves to dress up, and her clothes and shoes are also brand-name products. She was determined to find a rich local person to marry, so she had no intention of saving money. She was a moonlight clan and invested her monthly income in herself. She knew very well that a woman’s appearance was capital, and only by maintaining her elegant and beautiful appearance could she find her ideal partner.

In the first two years, colleagues often helped Lily introduce some excellent young men to Lily, but Lily always felt that it was inappropriate. No one could date for two months. Either they felt that the boy was not handsome enough, or they felt that the boy was reluctant to spend money, or they felt that the boy was not romantic enough...

Lily said: "My requirements are not high, just to find a man who can be liked by me, and can chat with me, and have a good family background."

To be honest, such requirements are already very high. The appearance of a man who can make people like him at first should be considered a very handsome type; if you can chat, then the education, living environment, consumption level, etc. need to be on the same level; in addition, it is also specially added that "the family is good", which is natural. The man's family must have strong financial strength...

clarified Lily's needs, and almost no one has "kindly" introduced Lily to Lily in the past two years. Not to mention that there are very few single men who can meet her requirements, even if there are such high-quality men, the choices of men will be more and more widespread. It is impossible to choose Lily from small towns, family work, and ordinary appearance. Although Lily is pretty, she is not so beautiful that she is not so beautiful that a man is willing to pay for her beauty.

Marriage always emphasizes the right match.With the development of the times, a good match is no longer limited to family background, but has also broadened the appearance, education, income, and three views of the two people... In addition, there is age.

In terms of marriage and love, the age of a woman is a factor that cannot be ignored. Even women will depreciate more and more in terms of marriage and love as they grow older. Just like the female classmates and Lily mentioned in the previous article, if they do not change their minds and do not lower their requirements for choosing a spouse, it will be difficult for them to meet their ideal partner even if they work hard on a blind date.

Women are still single at the age of thirty, so they need to reflect on themselves carefully, examine their own advantages objectively, clarify their needs for marriage, and find someone who matches them.

Of course, with the development of the times, marriage is no longer the only choice for women, and older single women do not have to compromise for the sake of getting married; if they cannot meet the right person, a person can still live freely and freely.